Topic: First Date jitters
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Sat 12/23/06 11:46 AM
I have a first date tonight with this guy I've been friends with for
about 3 years....I'm sooo nervous. Anyone have advice on the whole
"friend to more than friend" transition? All our mutual friends are like
"about time" - we just are winging it....help!!!

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Sat 12/23/06 11:49 AM
good luck.well him being a freind of yours first should help the night
go pretty good for you it might seem awkward at first but alot of the
best relations start out as freinds.

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Sat 12/23/06 12:05 PM
well--if ya know this person for 3 yrs--then ya shouldn't feel nervous
on that first time date--just be who ya are as you have known 'im for
the last 3 yrs--have a good time

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Sat 12/23/06 12:12 PM
the last couple of months I've noticed him getting nervous around me and
vice versa...he broke up with his girlfriend and all of a sudden he's
single! So he calls me up n asks me to go see a movie and we were SO
AWARE of each other - even though we were with a group....it was wierd
and wonderful all at the same time

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Sat 12/23/06 12:16 PM
maybe ya give a word on how yr date went--but doesn't have to be fully
detail---we all wish ya good time--

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Sat 12/23/06 12:44 PM
catlv I think it's wonderful me and my ex were friends for about 3 or 4
yrs before we started dating as more than friends she gave me 3
beautiful little girs I would not have had it anyother way as far as the
ex part, she's now my ex because she decided to never grow up, but we're
still friends sort of we don't hang out anymore but we get along ok

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Sat 12/23/06 12:57 PM
catlv,
I want some words of wisdom from you on how to go that long before
actually meeting the person. I have been here worried about getting past
6 months without meeting the person in my life in person. We have only
been togeather a few weeks online now and it is unbelievably hard.

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Sat 12/23/06 01:13 PM
cat...call me silly, nosey, or whatever, but GIRL, WHY DID YOU WAIT SO
LONG? And give me ALL THE DETAILS of the date, as well...LMAOFOTF!

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Sat 12/23/06 01:23 PM
kevin I think it's someone she has known and hung out with as friends
not someone off the site, sounds to be but I could be wrong.

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Sat 12/23/06 01:25 PM
and catlv just be yourself, got you along for 3 years can't fail you
now, you know him good (or should by now) and he you. Be yourself, Be
honest and have fun.

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Sat 12/23/06 02:45 PM
Cat, just leave a note on your front door saying,

PLEASE, COME ON IN IM TAKING MY BATH, THANKS!

THEN STAND WET IN THE MIDDLE OF THE ROOM,

WHEN HE COMES IN, YELL, OMG YOUR EARLY, AND RUSH TO YOUR TOWEL,

KEEP YELLING WHILE YOUR DRESSING HOW SORRY YOU ARE,
AND WHEN YOU COME OUT READY TO GO,,,,,,THE REST OF THE NIGHT
WILL BE FANTASTIC, "TRUST ME" NETHER WILL FEEL ANYMORE BASHFUL
AGAIN!!!!!!! AND THIS "WILL" SOLVE THAT PROBLEM.....

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Sat 12/23/06 03:00 PM
now--that could be one heck of memory in the future--if that ever
happens---

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Sat 12/23/06 04:46 PM
Man this sucks I was hoping that i get that first date LOL JK Cat, Good
luck girl