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Topic: Approachment
curios789 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 3156	Mon 02/25/08 11:22 PM
Quick poll for you all. Men: Do you approach women walking on the street without anything to provoke the meeting? Women: Would you get freaked out if a man approached you while you were walking on the street?

roxanne76 Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 190	Mon 02/25/08 11:30 PM
been approached........didn't freak.....just asked if he had the right woman.......

DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Mon 02/25/08 11:31 PM
nope,rather approach them when they have stopped

DrX Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 1539	Mon 02/25/08 11:33 PM Edited by DrX on Mon 02/25/08 11:33 PM
I know this sounds completely dorky, but I have studied vaudeville routines. So when i approach a lady I can usally get them laughing, before I have to say anything.

QwicherBytchin Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 1240	Mon 02/25/08 11:33 PM
I've been approached. Sometimes it's freaky...depends on how it's done..and where we're at at the time.

curios789 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 3156	Mon 02/25/08 11:39 PM
I'm talking like...just walking by on the street, casually. Neither knows where the other is going or what they're doing.

roxanne76 Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 190	Mon 02/25/08 11:41 PM
that's what i'm talking about.......just out of nowhere...that's why i asked him if he had the right woman, i was off in my own world....lol

curios789 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 3156	Mon 02/25/08 11:43 PM
that's what i'm talking about.......just out of nowhere...that's why i asked him if he had the right woman, i was off in my own world....lol Haha, that's an interesting response.

roxanne76 Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 190	Mon 02/25/08 11:44 PM Edited by roxanne76 on Mon 02/25/08 11:45 PM
well, it was the first thing that came to mind......lol it was my first time on beale street.......lol

curios789 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 3156	Mon 02/25/08 11:45 PM
Nice. I don't know what I would say to that.

roxanne76 Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 190	Mon 02/25/08 11:47 PM
well, it worked for him......i grabbed a friend and we met up with him and his friend and had drinks all night.....

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Mon 02/25/08 11:47 PM
I've never been approached on the street.. just whistled at or other noises... I'd probably welcome an intelligent hello.. lol

curios789 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 3156	Mon 02/25/08 11:48 PM
Yeah, probably doesn't hurt to try. 9 out of 10 chances you will never see that person again if it doesn't work.

roxanne76 Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 190	Mon 02/25/08 11:50 PM
yeah, i have yet to see him again, but hey....i got memories of a guy actually acting like a gentleman....which never happens around here where i live

curios789 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 3156	Mon 02/25/08 11:54 PM
Honestly, though, in that case the attraction is almost purely physical. You don't know the person at all, so you know that the attraction was physical.

roxanne76 Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 190	Mon 02/25/08 11:57 PM
yeah, i liked what i saw at first......but we hung out all night and he turned out to be a really nice guy........and he wasn't after sex, which shocked me.........he just wanted someone to take around beale street........

dcrdnk Joined Wed 08/15/07 Posts: 5094	Mon 02/25/08 11:57 PM
they normaly are the 1s walkin' up ta me ....... go finger

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 02/25/08 11:58 PM
If a stranger approached me on the street I would probably get into ninja mode......sorry Im a city chick!!!

roxanne76 Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 190	Tue 02/26/08 12:00 AM
i'm not saying i'm always this approachable...

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Tue 02/26/08 12:02 AM
I know this sounds completely dorky, but I have studied vaudeville routines. So when i approach a lady I can usally get them laughing, before I have to say anything.