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My point is........why b*tch about it?>???? If you really dont want to hear from the ex and he keeps calling.......changing the number is only about $25!! Sure its a hassle......but if she REALLY didnt want to hear from him then changing the number seems pretty easy!  Well, I didn't take it as *****ing, but more of a sincere question :dunno:. I still think that unless he is calling every 5 minutes like a madman not answering would accomplish the same thing |
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My point is........why b*tch about it?>???? If you really dont want to hear from the ex and he keeps calling.......changing the number is only about $25!! Sure its a hassle......but if she REALLY didnt want to hear from him then changing the number seems pretty easy! Well, I didn't take it as *****ing, but more of a sincere question :dunno:. I still think that unless he is calling every 5 minutes like a madman not answering would accomplish the same thing 
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My point is........why b*tch about it?>???? If you really dont want to hear from the ex and he keeps calling.......changing the number is only about $25!! Sure its a hassle......but if she REALLY didnt want to hear from him then changing the number seems pretty easy! Well, I didn't take it as *****ing, but more of a sincere question :dunno:. I still think that unless he is calling every 5 minutes like a madman not answering would accomplish the same thing touche 
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If I never see my exes the rest of my life I would be happy.
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If I never see my exes the rest of my life I would be happy. 
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Shoes~ I think you know how I feel about this.
Can you forgive yourself for allowing him to hurt you? If he took personal things and used them against you, he cannot take it back. He made his decision when he treated you the way he did. Your excuses for him are excuses for you not feeling like a bad person to let him go..... this is sonot about him, luvie. You have to live with you at the end of the day. Don't doubt you are a good person. You'll never be able to make sense of those that don't care about people other than themselves. You just have to accept that they exist.
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Edited by
Cambolaya65
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Tue 02/26/08 10:03 AM
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we have to take a break folks..back with more DR.Phil
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My point is........why b*tch about it?>???? If you really dont want to hear from the ex and he keeps calling.......changing the number is only about $25!! Sure its a hassle......but if she REALLY didnt want to hear from him then changing the number seems pretty easy! well for starters I am not has you put it b@#ching I am wondering why .. and second of all since you seem to know me and my life and my motives , My phone number that I have had for over 17 years has a business also tied to it .. I just don't understand if he thinks I am such a bad person why he would call .. |
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Shoes~ I think you know how I feel about this. Can you forgive yourself for allowing him to hurt you? If he took personal things and used them against you, he cannot take it back. He made his decision when he treated you the way he did. Your excuses for him are excuses for you not feeling like a bad person to let him go..... this is sonot about him, luvie. You have to live with you at the end of the day. Don't doubt you are a good person. You'll never be able to make sense of those that don't care about people other than themselves. You just have to accept that they exist. Lilth you are absolutely right on , I do have to give myself permission to cut him out of my life .. It is just hard for me to do so ,, and you are right I allow him to make me feel like a bad person because I don't want to be treated badly .. |
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I say in this case, use the Golden Rule... only so far as you are not getting hurt. And since he is still trying to hurt you, or use you, or stay in your life despite everything....
I think you would cut "you" out of your life if you knew it was best, and the situation were reversed (so to speak). Expecting him to do that with you is fair. Think of all the energy you waste concerning yourself with someone who's only concern is them... |
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my ex still calls me but does not want to get back together .. what is up with that?? ... any thoughts ..  No he told me he was not in to me like that .. that is one of the reasons he is an ex ... if there's no positive (for you) reason to keep the communication going, then don't. a man should make you feel good about yourself .. when your self-esteem suffers on his account, no way I'd keep talkin 
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IM OUTA THIS DENIAL FACTORY!!!
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Why are you still talking to him?
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Longest river in african continent? That it be denial?
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well for starters I am not has you put it b@#ching I am wondering why .. and second of all since you seem to know me and my life and my motives , My phone number that I have had for over 17 years has a business also tied to it .. I just don't understand if he thinks I am such a bad person why he would call .. My ex and I still communicate. After all, we were best friends for all the years we were married. We still share the "important" happenings in our lives, and offer each other encouragement when times get a little tough. Works for us...lol...maybe that what he looking for, the best friends thing without the emotional stuff that comes from marriage |
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