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Topic: how often
ellgee1976's photo
Mon 02/25/08 06:55 AM

It's really difficult when it's only an online thing. Once you've actually met that changes everything but up until then you don't want to have or allow any expectations because it may end up being all for nothing.
That's my 2 cents worth.ohwell



AMEN!! i fully agree.. i sooo don't want this to be all for nothing tho *sigh*

AllenAqua's photo
Mon 02/25/08 06:58 AM


It's really difficult when it's only an online thing. Once you've actually met that changes everything but up until then you don't want to have or allow any expectations because it may end up being all for nothing.
That's my 2 cents worth.ohwell



AMEN!! i fully agree.. i sooo don't want this to be all for nothing tho *sigh*




Well...I won't be a sap & just say "Hope springs eternal" then... Doh ! dang megrumble

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Mon 02/25/08 06:58 AM
Hey I wanna phone call too!!!
Anyone!!!!bigsmile

Nah seriously, I think it depends on how close you are...I mean, wouldn't you want to hear his voice?blushing

ellgee1976's photo
Mon 02/25/08 07:01 AM

Hey I wanna phone call too!!!
Anyone!!!!bigsmile

Nah seriously, I think it depends on how close you are...I mean, wouldn't you want to hear his voice?blushing


i don't mean to come across as degrading or insulting, but what does distance have to do with phone calls in this?

if he lived in the next town over, i'd expect to have met him by now and still expect phone calls...but beings he doesn't, i expect phone calls..lol im tryin to understand, nothing more @ countrybumpkin2u

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Mon 02/25/08 07:05 AM
flowerforyou I meant close as in "The closeness you share in friendship".
Sorry. I mean thats what I meant. lol
Um...

shoes4rhon's photo
Mon 02/25/08 07:06 AM
I am not sure what you are asking .. in the beginning of any realtionship there seems to be a lot of calling going back and forth .. prob more so in a long distance one due to the fact that you are not seeing each other .. Get a webcam and start caming with him ...

no photo
Mon 02/25/08 07:58 AM


*sigh* but alas, i know he's busy right now, so he can't talk..

however, i also know when he's not busy..err..i think i know when he's not..lol i try to call when i know he's not, that way i can actually TALK with him, instead of a meek 5 minute 'hi'



I would have been happy with a 'meek 5 minutes' a couple times a week...at least I would have known he was thinking of me...*sigh*...yes we all have busy lives, but when you care for someone...you just don't 'take the time'...you 'make the time'. For some I guess that is asking too much. ohwell


(((((((Shutter))))) Hang in there, doll flowerforyou

ellgee1976's photo
Mon 02/25/08 07:59 AM

flowerforyou I meant close as in "The closeness you share in friendship".
Sorry. I mean thats what I meant. lol
Um...


ahhhh ok...you meant emotionally close..not physically...gotcha

thanks

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