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Topic: how often
ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Mon 02/25/08 06:18 AM
is "too often" or "not often enough" for phone calls from someone you meet on JSH? i know how much i want to talk to him...but is it the norm? lol

sassystacey69xx Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 3835	Mon 02/25/08 06:19 AM
well if you dont call,your wrong,if you do call..your wrong too,so go for it lol

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Mon 02/25/08 06:19 AM
i dont think there is a norm ...my new man and i met on here we text or phone everyday...just go with the flow hun

eskimo_nell Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 3035	Mon 02/25/08 06:20 AM
Yeah just call its a no win situation.

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Mon 02/25/08 06:23 AM
sigh but alas, i know he's busy right now, so he can't talk.. however, i also know when he's not busy..err..i think i know when he's not..lol i try to call when i know he's not, that way i can actually TALK with him, instead of a meek 5 minute 'hi'

Puffins1958 Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 13637	Mon 02/25/08 06:24 AM
I would ask myself the question...does he call you as well. Or are you the only one making the calls?

mommyof1 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 25303	Mon 02/25/08 06:27 AM
is "too often" or "not often enough" for phone calls from someone you meet on JSH? i know how much i want to talk to him...but is it the norm? lol yes its very normal ellgee....Jimmy and I talked everyday, several times a day...he calles me on his way to work, on breaks, when he gets off work..and then we are on the phone most of the night... never enough time to talk on the phone

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Mon 02/25/08 06:28 AM
I would ask myself the question...does he call you as well. Or are you the only one making the calls? it's equal..lol we both call

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Mon 02/25/08 06:30 AM
Geeez Eligee, you used the 'normal' word.... Ask him... call him and ask him... I find that the best way..

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Mon 02/25/08 06:32 AM
Geeez Eligee, you used the 'normal' word.... Ask him... call him and ask him... I find that the best way.. Jess, i did no such thing..i said 'norm' that's different i swear lol can't call him right now, he's busy with important stuffs..like...his son

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Mon 02/25/08 06:33 AM
I'm just so very pleased that someone worthy of you, has caught your eye, and your heart.

HIPOCKETS Joined Fri 02/15/08 Posts: 37	Mon 02/25/08 06:34 AM
Just wait your turn.... lol

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Mon 02/25/08 06:36 AM
I'm just so very pleased that someone worthy of you, has caught your eye, and your heart. thanx Jess...it's still in that 'gettin to know' 'em stage yet..but im smiling more these days, that's for sure :D i still dunno how often is 'norm' tho...i think im weird...maybe that's why he likes me eh? lol

Myisland50 Joined Thu 07/19/07 Posts: 6517	Mon 02/25/08 06:37 AM
((((ellgee)))) Personally,,,I'm just glad he calls When he does, it doesn't matter how often Nice to see you happy You deserve it

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Mon 02/25/08 06:40 AM
Just wait your turn.... lol lmao im tryin, i swear i am! lol

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Mon 02/25/08 06:41 AM
((((ellgee)))) Personally,,,I'm just glad he calls When he does, it doesn't matter how often Nice to see you happy You deserve it thanx island

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 02/25/08 06:46 AM
Just wait your turn.... lol lmao im tryin, i swear i am! lol i don't think you should keep score...if you want to call him.....do it.....and don't worry about reciprocity at this point

shutterbug Joined Sat 06/16/07 Posts: 34376	Mon 02/25/08 06:48 AM Edited by shutterbug on Mon 02/25/08 06:48 AM
sigh but alas, i know he's busy right now, so he can't talk.. however, i also know when he's not busy..err..i think i know when he's not..lol i try to call when i know he's not, that way i can actually TALK with him, instead of a meek 5 minute 'hi' I would have been happy with a 'meek 5 minutes' a couple times a week...at least I would have known he was thinking of me...sigh...yes we all have busy lives, but when you care for someone...you just don't 'take the time'...you 'make the time'. For some I guess that is asking too much.

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Mon 02/25/08 06:51 AM
sigh but alas, i know he's busy right now, so he can't talk.. however, i also know when he's not busy..err..i think i know when he's not..lol i try to call when i know he's not, that way i can actually TALK with him, instead of a meek 5 minute 'hi' I would have been happy with a 'meek 5 minutes' a couple times a week...at least I would have known he was thinking of me...sigh...yes we all have busy lives, but when you care for someone...you just don't 'take the time'...you 'make the time'. For some I guess that is asking too much. i hear ya girl, howevere, i have to allow time for his kids, just like he has to allow time for mine...they're both the most important

AllenAqua Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 3895	Mon 02/25/08 06:53 AM
It's really difficult when it's only an online thing. Once you've actually met that changes everything but up until then you don't want to have or allow any expectations because it may end up being all for nothing. That's my 2 cents worth.