Topic: Are you bitter about something?
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Mon 02/25/08 02:36 PM
(((fade))) well saidflowerforyou


Seems women are bitter to all men. They think we are all the same. If you say hi get the super cold shoulder or just ignored whats up with that?



That's a lot of the female gender hatin' on a LOT of the male gender hon. noway

Talk about stereotyping .. puhleeze. A definition of stereotyping is ignorance.

I've never been cold to a guy or given them a cold shoulder .. unless of course, they were in appropriate. :wink:

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Mon 02/25/08 06:18 PM
I guess come to think of it, I am a little bit bitter.. not given enough chance in over all life.. jobs etc, noting to do with relationships since I never been in one probably never will at the rate things have been going etc. ohwell

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Mon 02/25/08 06:21 PM

I guess come to think of it, I am a little bit bitter.. not given enough chance in over all life.. jobs etc, noting to do with relationships since I never been in one probably never will at the rate things have been going etc. ohwell


I was never given chances either. I made my own chances and changed my own life once I realized no one was going to do it for me. Tremendously liberating.

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Mon 02/25/08 06:23 PM
The bitterness amazes me..why are there so many men on here who don't like women? Or, if they don't, why don't they just date guys? The same thing with women, they do the same thing. People if you don't like your options, maybe you should switch teams.

It is like nails on a chalkboard whenever I hear "why are guys so..." or "why are women so..."

like we all share a personality or something.

>ahem<

leaving soapbox.flowerforyou

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Mon 02/25/08 06:27 PM


I guess come to think of it, I am a little bit bitter.. not given enough chance in over all life.. jobs etc, noting to do with relationships since I never been in one probably never will at the rate things have been going etc. ohwell


I was never given chances either. I made my own chances and changed my own life once I realized no one was going to do it for me. Tremendously liberating.


True.

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Mon 02/25/08 06:28 PM

Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeez........noway


Ok lately around here I have read alot of posts by very bitter people towards the opposite sex. I think that people that harbour such feelings need to take a break from the dating scene because obviously they will knit pick every little thing about someone, nothing can be right, just a bunch of negative crap! Sooooo if you feel bitter, then do us a favor and take a damn break!drinker
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh Thats a good one...i agree!laugh

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Mon 02/25/08 06:29 PM



I guess come to think of it, I am a little bit bitter.. not given enough chance in over all life.. jobs etc, noting to do with relationships since I never been in one probably never will at the rate things have been going etc. ohwell


I was never given chances either. I made my own chances and changed my own life once I realized no one was going to do it for me. Tremendously liberating.


True.


The thing is I had to work really, really, hard while other people had it much easier than I did. But I never felt bitter about it because I just have that much more to feel good about and be proud of.

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Mon 02/25/08 06:30 PM
been drinking some bitter ale......so bitter now.....drinker sick drinker

Johncenawlife316's photo
Mon 02/25/08 06:36 PM




I guess come to think of it, I am a little bit bitter.. not given enough chance in over all life.. jobs etc, noting to do with relationships since I never been in one probably never will at the rate things have been going etc. ohwell


I was never given chances either. I made my own chances and changed my own life once I realized no one was going to do it for me. Tremendously liberating.


True.


The thing is I had to work really, really, hard while other people had it much easier than I did. But I never felt bitter about it because I just have that much more to feel good about and be proud of.


Well the thing is I bust my ass at work just to have proven my self worthly and yet it seem's to always at least to me go unoticed, I mean I ask to move up and I always hear go ask some one else in other words no. I mean come on.. I am not about to bag either but I was once told when I was interviewed that there would be chances to move up.. well I'm still waiting for that chance.

Right now I'm done proven my point of how hard of a worker I really am, because I'm trying to find another job while at the same job I'm very unhappy with at the moment.

Oh well... I guess sooner or later something good will come of my hard work.

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Mon 02/25/08 06:39 PM





I guess come to think of it, I am a little bit bitter.. not given enough chance in over all life.. jobs etc, noting to do with relationships since I never been in one probably never will at the rate things have been going etc. ohwell


I was never given chances either. I made my own chances and changed my own life once I realized no one was going to do it for me. Tremendously liberating.


True.


The thing is I had to work really, really, hard while other people had it much easier than I did. But I never felt bitter about it because I just have that much more to feel good about and be proud of.


Well the thing is I bust my ass at work just to have proven my self worthly and yet it seem's to always at least to me go unoticed, I mean I ask to move up and I always hear go ask some one else in other words no. I mean come on.. I am not about to bag either but I was once told when I was interviewed that there would be chances to move up.. well I'm still waiting for that chance.

Right now I'm done proven my point of how hard of a worker I really am, because I'm trying to find another job while at the same job I'm very unhappy with at the moment.

Oh well... I guess sooner or later something good will come of my hard work.


I have not hesitated to switch jobs if I am not treated right. I have worked too hard to get where I am to put up with abuse at work. I moved 300 miles to get a better job once.

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Mon 02/25/08 06:55 PM






I guess come to think of it, I am a little bit bitter.. not given enough chance in over all life.. jobs etc, noting to do with relationships since I never been in one probably never will at the rate things have been going etc. ohwell


I was never given chances either. I made my own chances and changed my own life once I realized no one was going to do it for me. Tremendously liberating.


True.


The thing is I had to work really, really, hard while other people had it much easier than I did. But I never felt bitter about it because I just have that much more to feel good about and be proud of.


Well the thing is I bust my ass at work just to have proven my self worthly and yet it seem's to always at least to me go unoticed, I mean I ask to move up and I always hear go ask some one else in other words no. I mean come on.. I am not about to bag either but I was once told when I was interviewed that there would be chances to move up.. well I'm still waiting for that chance.

Right now I'm done proven my point of how hard of a worker I really am, because I'm trying to find another job while at the same job I'm very unhappy with at the moment.

Oh well... I guess sooner or later something good will come of my hard work.


I have not hesitated to switch jobs if I am not treated right. I have worked too hard to get where I am to put up with abuse at work. I moved 300 miles to get a better job once.


I hear that.

Jobs well for the most part at least in my area are too hard to come by, so it's to tough to get another one unless I get a degree and fast.

But that's kinda hard to do at least right now it is.

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Mon 02/25/08 07:51 PM







I guess come to think of it, I am a little bit bitter.. not given enough chance in over all life.. jobs etc, noting to do with relationships since I never been in one probably never will at the rate things have been going etc. ohwell


I was never given chances either. I made my own chances and changed my own life once I realized no one was going to do it for me. Tremendously liberating.


True.


The thing is I had to work really, really, hard while other people had it much easier than I did. But I never felt bitter about it because I just have that much more to feel good about and be proud of.


Well the thing is I bust my ass at work just to have proven my self worthly and yet it seem's to always at least to me go unoticed, I mean I ask to move up and I always hear go ask some one else in other words no. I mean come on.. I am not about to bag either but I was once told when I was interviewed that there would be chances to move up.. well I'm still waiting for that chance.

Right now I'm done proven my point of how hard of a worker I really am, because I'm trying to find another job while at the same job I'm very unhappy with at the moment.

Oh well... I guess sooner or later something good will come of my hard work.


I have not hesitated to switch jobs if I am not treated right. I have worked too hard to get where I am to put up with abuse at work. I moved 300 miles to get a better job once.


I hear that.

Jobs well for the most part at least in my area are too hard to come by, so it's to tough to get another one unless I get a degree and fast.

But that's kinda hard to do at least right now it is.


yeah that's what I had to do - I had a 4 year old to support - her dad left- so I worked part time and went to school full time and got my degree in three years. We lived in one room in my sister's house while I was doing this. Now I have a house with a pool, three acres, etc. I really appreciate all I have because I worked so hard to get it.

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Tue 02/26/08 05:56 PM
I agree! I've been shocked by some of the things I've been reading lately. Man haters, women haters, group think. It is so destructive to date when one is in that frame of mind.

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 02/26/08 06:50 PM

I agree! I've been shocked by some of the things I've been reading lately. Man haters, women haters, group think. It is so destructive to date when one is in that frame of mind.



no haters here little missy flowerforyou

hikerchick's photo
Tue 02/26/08 07:11 PM

I agree! I've been shocked by some of the things I've been reading lately. Man haters, women haters, group think. It is so destructive to date when one is in that frame of mind.


I doubt those crabbypants people get many dates

Coach3359's photo
Wed 02/27/08 11:33 AM
Not a hater or crabby just shocked I guess at how hard it is to get a response to hello how are you. Almost like you need to be a model or rich as can be. It goes both ways guys are the same way but never seen a woman ask a guy out so dont know!

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Wed 02/27/08 05:10 PM


I agree! I've been shocked by some of the things I've been reading lately. Man haters, women haters, group think. It is so destructive to date when one is in that frame of mind.



no haters here little missy flowerforyou

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Wed 02/27/08 05:10 PM


I agree! I've been shocked by some of the things I've been reading lately. Man haters, women haters, group think. It is so destructive to date when one is in that frame of mind.


I doubt those crabbypants people get many dates

So do I. :wink:

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Wed 02/27/08 05:18 PM
I'm bitter about all the bitterness.........oh......
and the rate me posts
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Wed 02/27/08 06:06 PM

Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeez........noway


Ok lately around here I have read alot of posts by very bitter people towards the opposite sex. I think that people that harbour such feelings need to take a break from the dating scene because obviously they will knit pick every little thing about someone, nothing can be right, just a bunch of negative crap! Sooooo if you feel bitter, then do us a favor and take a damn break!drinker


Amen sister. flowerforyou flowerforyou

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