well ***** about someone bein abusive ,,and get told "you should not
have cursed them out !!ya ok vanchau ..nobody should say anything ...to
any one about anything ...ya ok fine...\
site shrinks some more....plentyoffish and tagworld seem kinda cool
,,,,,,ya ,,,,nobody ever sends me an e-mail there to tell me to go ****
myself or anything like that,,,they are FRIENDLY!!!

what a joke ..i have always tried to be friendly and helpful
oh yeah ..forgot good guys suck..
ok fine ..I suck for been a good person .ya its not good to be good ,,ya
..sure...;[

It's very simple...

If you complain to us about someone being "abusive", make sure you are
not being "abusive" first to that person. We're not going to take your
side just because you made the complaint.

This is exactly what I told you twice. If you want to make up stuff
that's your call, but it will only get you in trouble. You didn't get
the response you wanted and now you're trying to attack me in public
(not smart)

Purplecat,
I am always here if you want to write or talk and I am typically not
abusive as you may have seen I dont even use alot of curse words either.
If you want a friend I am here to lend an ear.

so no one wins and nother victim sent to a corner ..fine ,,i get it
,,whatever ! live and learned somethin here today .such a nice place to
come and feel like I have friends and beat the christmas blues and
depression .not

Good afternoon all,

I know this is not the topic of conversation but I was in another
community room and I heard something happen to Ontario...Can someone
tell me what...I just met him the other day???

yeah he stuck his foot in his mouth

Ontario was banned for a series of bad behaviors. The latest of which
can be seen here:

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/7816?page=39

We will not tolerate this behavior. If you do this on our site, you
will be banned.

i remember back in the day..when i like 8 or so..

my brother, Tim would do something or say something that was SO totally
uncalled for, or he ws just mean to me, and of course, my smartass
comment back was just as bad..mom punished both of us, for even
bothering to bring it to her.

didn't really matter who was at fault, both got in trouble over it, cuz
we couldn't work it out amongst ourselves.

this isn't OUR site, this is VANCHAU and MIKE'S site..their house, their
rules, you don't like it? no one's forcin you to stay, you will be
missed, but no one's forcing you.

we're adults here, this is a DATING site, and there's NO place for
rude/sh*tty/derogatory/insulting remarks here..so let's leave it at
that..and move on already

Very Well Said!ellgee.(hug)You go girl!!Increase The Peace,Cybear

Purple I don't know what your feeling or whats up, but I am
always just a email away, and I've got my worst x-mas in life blues
hitting me to...hugs.

wow..I LOVE THIS SITE.. and vanchau..;) thanks for the freebies I wish
we could all get along and not fight .we have a chance to meet people
here for FREE lets not ruin it. OK ???
please people ... i vote to
resume a good n plenty..of the fun site. I like to come home and read
4u and others thougths and poems and such.. lets keep it going or the
staff might just say the hell with it and then where will we be?
some of us may be home alone for CHristmas least we have
JUSTSAYHI./ for now. huh gang?
bigbay

kiss and make up its the holidays...**** be kind to of gods people

vanchu.. when a person is banned how do you prevent them from coming
back on the site under a different name, etc? i like this site and i
appreciate the fact that you and mike are trying to make it a better
place and keeping it free. thanks

They can come back..but if their new "identity" is not appropriate, that
will be banned too..

Most people don't want to get banned b/c they've made friends, etc and
want to keep the same ID. Starting over is a pain so its better just to
behave obv :)

if you ban ip's that cant come back!