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Topic: Do you suffer from, or been a victim of A.W.S.
lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 02/27/08 02:26 PM
Luv you too Lily!

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 02/27/08 02:27 PM
Luv you too Lily! I'm not avoiding our lady date...I promise.... Just LOTS going on with me...

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 02/27/08 02:48 PM
Luv you too Lily! I'm not avoiding our lady date...I promise.... Just LOTS going on with me... Ahhh you caught me just in time... I was so about to start a thread that said no one loves me, not even the local women will lady date me, those bytches! Nobody loves me and everybody sucks... It's all good, Lil. I'm not going anywhere.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Wed 02/27/08 05:39 PM
I'll date ya Lilith. Oh wait .. you don't live in Colorado do ya? I have no anger issues towards men. They just suck JUST KIDDING!!!! Men rawk

SportsNut2007 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 817	Sat 03/01/08 10:35 AM
So.. if it doesn't happen, ever.. What would prompt you to create a thread about it? because it happens to other men, that likely don't say anything to the woman. She doesn't get asked out again, and piles on another layer of anger. Just trying to help.

Shaden Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 6118	Sat 03/01/08 08:42 PM Edited by Shaden on Sat 03/01/08 08:43 PM
Oh, but we do get out again. We just choose the ones without the M.M.S. or the ones who don't ASSume.

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Sat 03/01/08 08:43 PM


lilbug Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 14791	Sun 03/02/08 01:38 PM
Women, no offense, but do you suffer from A.W.S. Angry Women Syndrome. Are you still angry at some guy that you feel mistreated you. Do you relize that every guy that you take a dump on is a victim of your misfortune. So please, let us love you. It ain't that hard. When you truly invest of yourself totally into a relationship and it goes south, there is no way any of us can avoid being effected by it, and changed perhaps. It takes time to re-gain perspective. I think the real issue is not resolving the anger, bitterness, pain before jumping into another relationship again.

adj4u Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 21254	Sun 03/02/08 01:46 PM
i refuse to be a victim she has done what she has done she is a victim of her own doing as my life is on going (as is hers) but i do not want nor do i care how she lives hers i have grown past the pettiness of her and of past events life moves on and so have i

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Sun 03/02/08 01:51 PM
When I was married she had C.B.S. Controlling B*tch Syndrome.... Now I'm not blaming her because it takes two to create a losing relationship or at least i'm willing to take responsibility for my flaws, which i've been coming to grips with and working on.... still, I made the right move in correcting the mistake of staying in that negative relationship...and have moved on....

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sun 03/02/08 01:51 PM
There is also M.M.S. Mean Men Syndrome--while anger isn't the word, cautiousness is an appropriate reaction, for a while. I look forward to being in love again, one day; plus I have 2 sons. Some guys are sweet and able. YOUR right!!!

johnnie173 Joined Sat 02/17/07 Posts: 82	Sun 03/02/08 01:51 PM
In light of my own recent lambasting (while admitting to a fault that I was looking for advice on), I think I'll sit this one out.

lilbug Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 14791	Sun 03/02/08 01:52 PM
See.. now...I don't regard as being a 'victim' but rather a human being with feelings who took a chance. If you've truly invested your heart into someone, I don't see how you can be uneffected by it when it doesn't work out.

BLAKJAQ Joined Wed 03/07/07 Posts: 106	Sun 03/02/08 02:21 PM
absolutely. take the time to heal. that's what I am doing, just learning who Iam again verses who I was in that relationship. a better person, able to love and be loved

SportsNut2007 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 817	Sun 03/02/08 02:42 PM
I'm sorry if this topic stepped on someone's toes. It just seems like many of the women that post things here usually have negative and bitter comments towards men. Any guy that retailiates, will meet with severe opposition, from most women and likely some alleged men.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Sun 03/02/08 02:49 PM
Gender bashing, on either end.... gets that result here. Just the facts.

SportsNut2007 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 817	Sun 03/02/08 03:01 PM
Gender bashing, on either end.... gets that result here. Just the facts. Gender Bashing is generally done by women.

adj4u Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 21254	Sun 03/02/08 03:10 PM
See.. now...I don't regard as being a 'victim' but rather a human being with feelings who took a chance. If you've truly invested your heart into someone, I don't see how you can be uneffected by it when it doesn't work out. there is a negative affect for awhile but to dwell in that negativity is unhealthy and yes the effects are still there to this day but it is how you choose to react to those effects that is important granted i hav had almost 20 years to get to this point and the first 5 were a pain in the heart no doubt about that so i just hope that those who go through it can heal faster and move on sooner than i be well and may much good come to you and yours

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Sun 03/02/08 03:11 PM
Gender bashing, on either end.... gets that result here. Just the facts. Gender Bashing is generally done by women. You are a riot. Do you see the irony.... There are both, in the threads. Do you read others? Your thread, well, people were gentle in here. Including myself.

SportsNut2007 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 817	Sun 03/02/08 03:17 PM
Gender bashing, on either end.... gets that result here. Just the facts. Gender Bashing is generally done by women. You are a riot. Do you see the irony.... There are both, in the threads. Do you read others? Your thread, well, people were gentle in here. Including myself. That's good to know !