Topic: Do you suffer from, or been a victim of A.W.S.
lilith401's photo
Wed 02/27/08 02:26 PM
Luv you too Lily! blushing

Lily0923's photo
Wed 02/27/08 02:27 PM

Luv you too Lily! blushing


I'm not avoiding our lady date...I promise.... Just LOTS going on with me...

lilith401's photo
Wed 02/27/08 02:48 PM


Luv you too Lily! blushing


I'm not avoiding our lady date...I promise.... Just LOTS going on with me...


Ahhh you caught me just in time... I was so about to start a thread that said no one loves me, not even the local women will lady date me, those bytches! :cry: Nobody loves me and everybody sucks... sad

It's all good, Lil. I'm not going anywhere. smokin

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 02/27/08 05:39 PM
I'll date ya Lilith. Oh wait .. you don't live in Colorado do ya?


I have no anger issues towards men. They just suck huh grumble


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JUST KIDDING!!!! Men rawk glasses

SportsNut2007's photo
Sat 03/01/08 10:35 AM

So.. if it doesn't happen, ever..

What would prompt you to create a thread about it?


because it happens to other men, that likely don't say anything to the woman.
She doesn't get asked out again, and piles on another layer of anger. Just trying to help.

Shaden's photo
Sat 03/01/08 08:42 PM
Edited by Shaden on Sat 03/01/08 08:43 PM
Oh, but we do get out again. bigsmile We just choose the ones without the M.M.S. or the ones who don't ASSume.

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 03/01/08 08:43 PM
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no photo
Sun 03/02/08 01:38 PM

Women, no offense, but do you suffer from A.W.S.

Angry Women Syndrome.

Are you still angry at some guy that you feel mistreated you.
Do you relize that every guy that you take a dump on is a victim
of your misfortune.
So please, let us love you. It ain't that hard.


When you truly invest of yourself totally into a relationship and it goes south, there is no way any of us can avoid being effected by it, and changed perhaps. It takes time to re-gain perspective. I think the real issue is not resolving the anger, bitterness, pain before jumping into another relationship again.

adj4u's photo
Sun 03/02/08 01:46 PM
i refuse to be a victim

she has done what she has done

she is a victim of her own doing

as my life is on going (as is hers)

but i do not want nor do i care how she lives hers

i have grown past the pettiness of her

and of past events

life moves on and so have i


BlueskyJ's photo
Sun 03/02/08 01:51 PM
When I was married she had C.B.S. Controlling B*tch Syndrome....

Now I'm not blaming her because it takes two to create a losing relationship or at least i'm willing to take responsibility for my flaws, which i've been coming to grips with and working on....

still, I made the right move in correcting the mistake of staying in that negative relationship...and have moved on....:smile:

no photo
Sun 03/02/08 01:51 PM

There is also M.M.S.

Mean Men Syndrome--while anger isn't the word, cautiousness is an appropriate reaction, for a while. I look forward to being in love again, one day; plus I have 2 sons. Some guys are sweet and loveable.
drinker drinker YOUR right!!!:wink:

johnnie173's photo
Sun 03/02/08 01:51 PM
In light of my own recent lambasting (while admitting to a fault that I was looking for advice on), I think I'll sit this one out.

no photo
Sun 03/02/08 01:52 PM
See.. now...I don't regard as being a 'victim' but rather a human being with feelings who took a chance. If you've truly invested your heart into someone, I don't see how you can be uneffected by it when it doesn't work out.

BLAKJAQ's photo
Sun 03/02/08 02:21 PM
absolutely. take the time to heal. that's what I am doing, just learning who Iam again verses who I was in that relationship. a better person, able to love and be loved

SportsNut2007's photo
Sun 03/02/08 02:42 PM
I'm sorry if this topic stepped on someone's toes.

It just seems like many of the women that post things here usually have negative and bitter comments towards men.
Any guy that retailiates, will meet with severe opposition, from most women and likely some alleged men.

lilith401's photo
Sun 03/02/08 02:49 PM
Gender bashing, on either end.... gets that result here. Just the facts.

SportsNut2007's photo
Sun 03/02/08 03:01 PM

Gender bashing, on either end.... gets that result here. Just the facts.


Gender Bashing is generally done by women.

adj4u's photo
Sun 03/02/08 03:10 PM

See.. now...I don't regard as being a 'victim' but rather a human being with feelings who took a chance. If you've truly invested your heart into someone, I don't see how you can be uneffected by it when it doesn't work out.


there is a negative affect for awhile

but to dwell in that negativity is unhealthy

and yes the effects are still there to this day

but it is how you choose to react to those effects

that is important

granted i hav had almost 20 years to get to this point

and the first 5 were a pain in the heart

no doubt about that

so i just hope that those who go through it

can heal faster and move on sooner than i

be well

and may much good come to you and yours

lilith401's photo
Sun 03/02/08 03:11 PM


Gender bashing, on either end.... gets that result here. Just the facts.


Gender Bashing is generally done by women.


You are a riot.laugh Do you see the irony....

There are both, in the threads. Do you read others? Your thread, well, people were gentle in here. Including myself.

SportsNut2007's photo
Sun 03/02/08 03:17 PM



Gender bashing, on either end.... gets that result here. Just the facts.


Gender Bashing is generally done by women.


You are a riot.laugh Do you see the irony....

There are both, in the threads. Do you read others? Your thread, well, people were gentle in here. Including myself.


That's good to know !