and what is that you might ask. well i'll till you
it's like this i look around i see guy's who don't
have a job who lay's around go's to the bar all the
time don't have a pot to piss in, won't add up to any
thing in life.but he still get's the girl now till
me what with that when ther r guy's out here who
know how to treat a women right,who has a job and
can take care of the the right way.why dose the good
guy's come in last it's just ant RIGHT....

Hang in there, youre meeting the wrong kind of women!

<-wonders why all the good giraffes finish last

Handy? Is that you?

I'm sorry you've had a bad experience... at least that is what I'm getting from your post???

The good guys don't come in last.

Thats how it always is!!!!!!!!

Hmmmm? I must be bad... very, very bad.
How else can you explain it?

Let me ask you something...do you ask women out? Since you have joined this site, have you ever asked a woman out for a cup of coffee? If the answer is no then I guess I have to ask, why not? The one thing that gets me the most is that people just think "if its meant to be it will happen." BUT guess what, they are not going to come looking for you. You have to make an effort and ask people out.
There are so many single people out there, why would you want that one person that doesn't want you? So what, they don't want you...move on!! I am sure that there are so many other single people out there that would love a chance to go out and have a cup of coffee and just go sit down and talk to you. ASK SOMEONE ELSE OUT!!! Its really that easy!!
Not all women want men that have nothing and then again, not all women are after money!! Women are looking for the same thing that men are looking for...LOVE and COMMITTMENT!! Well I hope thats what men are looking for?? I have been quizzing my brother on this one...I don't really like his answers on what men really want BUT I am hoping that not all men are like him! If all men were like my brother, I don't think I would ever date again!!!!

I think I'm confused as to the taking care of right part is coming into play. Do you mean money? Or otherwise?

yea, the nice guy always finishes last, its weird that way, i have women all the time asking me to crawl back under the rock i came from, but i like myself, so **#*^*# them.

Outside of our core needs of shelter, food, security, etc. We have needs (rational or irrational) that need to be met. Sometimes these needs are met by people that are not necessarily the best person for us. Their other attributes seem negligable since our other needs are being met.

-OR-

We tend to think we can "fix" someone; that the love of a good woman will change them.

Regardless, it appears you are picking women that have character flaws. Try changing your focus and look for a woman that is secure with herself and has self-worth.

Come to Dodge sometime

I have to agree with you i'v been meeting some real
winner's [not]where i am you don't have much to chose from
they r ether drug user or they r looking for guy's who
have big truck's and lot's of money. well for one thing
am not into drug's, and my truck ant big and i don't
have los't of money...but am not giveing up...

How much time do you spend talking to them first? I think it might be a bit unfair to categorize the women in your town as drug users or those looking for a "big truck". Maybe you keep going after the same type? Are you looking the same places?

I don't know .. I kinda like guys who can spell & use correct grammar .. but it may just be me.

Nope.. Fade you're not alone. I like it so much it's included in my profile...

Which makes me an anomaly

Hmmm......

you know, Ive been reading a lot of posts like this one and I guess all I have to say is, Dude, have you ever taken a CLOSE look at the girls who date these loosers? If thats what you're aiming for then you're aiming low...unless you just want someone above the trash notch... then its going to take a bit of work on your part.