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Topic: Topic for the Ladies
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Sat 02/23/08 08:06 AM
The older you get, the less age matters. The diference between 28 and 18 is huge, but between 40 and 30 should be no big deal.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 02/23/08 08:06 AM
It all depends on where they are in life. Someone 10 years younger than me would be 41. That would be "doable" if they did not still have young children and we had common interests.


ddanster's photo
Sat 02/23/08 08:08 AM


When i say being toyed with i guess being strung along ya know. I'll make the point clear that i'm interested, but they don't respond exactly in kind but continue to talk to me as if they are...i dunno if that makes any sense. And age comparison i'm more talking about 28 to 38 or 40 i guess..i'm 28


I don't think that has a lot to do with age, it's just part of the internet game. Many people talk to a lot of others and play the "numbers" game. By this they e-mail lots of guys/girls and see who responds. They are not really truly interested in just one person, but rather the one who responds first... even if you are talking, or dating for that matter, if someone else pops up they like better or becomes more serious that was already in the picture, then "poof".

You just have to take it with a grain of salt, because you have no idea what is really going on behind the scenes.


Agreed..that goes with all ages i guess not just the older to younger and vise versa..just the same old same..thanks :)

lilith401's photo
Sat 02/23/08 08:10 AM
The trick is to not take it personally... because it really isn't about you. Easier said than done, I know. flowerforyou

Perservere. smokin

peachiegirl28's photo
Sat 02/23/08 08:12 AM

I was wanting to get some opinions on the potential Pitfalls for dating someone older..or how older women felt about dating someone younger..say 10 years younger? I'll message someone older then me every once and a while on this site and others and don't get taking seriously and actually get toyed with a bit..game playing ect...



age is just a number.....as long as your legal i dont mindbigsmile

ddanster's photo
Sat 02/23/08 08:16 AM
All great answers..thanks alot ladies:smile:

lcjw's photo
Sat 02/23/08 08:32 AM


I would think twice about it; dating a man 10 years younger than I. bigsmile



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Sat 02/23/08 08:51 AM
i dont think i would ever date a man 10 years younger than me but i wouldnt date a man anyways laugh laugh well maybe if the money was rightlaugh

dysFUNctional's photo
Sat 02/23/08 08:55 AM
Hey, I've dated a guy 15 years younger than me and found that in some ways he was more mature than the older farts and in other ways he was less. It all depends on the people and their outlook. I think the key here should be what makes the 2 of you happy, not what anyone else thinks. And as long as you are not in it for the wrong reasons what the heck! smokin

I think you are a nice looking guy and seem to have a good head on your shoulders so you really should not have any problems. Good luck to ya babe!!drinker smokin flowerforyou bigsmile

lcjw's photo
Sat 02/23/08 08:57 AM

i dont think i would ever date a man 10 years younger than me but i wouldnt date a man anyways laugh laugh well maybe if the money was rightlaugh


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hunter870's photo
Sat 02/23/08 09:08 AM
I have read alot of good replys on here and I know people whom date and are in relasionships with big age differences,its all in the way you see life and what you are looking for and who you feel comfortable with.drinker :wink: drinker

dysFUNctional's photo
Sat 02/23/08 09:09 AM

I have read alot of good replys on here and I know people whom date and are in relasionships with big age differences,its all in the way you see life and what you are looking for and who you feel comfortable with.drinker :wink: drinker


EXACTLY!!drinker smokin flowerforyou

ladyliz1417's photo
Sun 02/24/08 01:45 PM
my ex b/f was 20 yrs younger, so I have no problem with 10 yrs younger.

lonelyshorty's photo
Sun 02/24/08 02:02 PM
It depends mostly on the maturity level. Guys at 30 can still be as dumb and immature as those at 19-21. Guys that are older dont bother me as long as they arent old enough to be my dad.


I am 20 and I am very mature for my age. My bf is 30 and we dont have a problem with our age

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 02/24/08 02:41 PM

I am just back dating and all the dates I have been with younger men. I never thought that would be the case because when I was single I dated older men. I have to say I am having a blast so I don't think anyone should limit themselves because of age.


I agree .. been back dating for 4 years. That entire time I've dated younger men. Anywhere from 10-27 years younger :wink:

I have a blast. And so do they. It just works for me. Have more in common., think younger. When I was married he was 2 years older and always seemed like my dad.

Now, I do think I like a little less years between us than 27 years ... the spread just kept expanding LOL.

I am making sure it's nothing under 25 years younger than I am now. I want a relationship that will last.

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