Well I don't know what I did to you, but we all grow up sometime. Or at least we eventually die of old age. Either way, hopefully you'll find better things to do with your time than picking on people for asking for opinions.

I might've been happy to meet you on another day because your profile sounds fun, but for some reason you just feel like being rude to me.

Whatever floats your boat. Whatever you put out there will be returned, and I hope karma is somewhat kind to you so you won't be so bitter to someone else. Take care.

Karma is very kind to me...

Ethere........

The guy doesn't sound right. He calls you late at night and keeps you on the phone for hours. Then when you pressure him to meet you, he wants to meet in the middle of the night. And he thinks you are not spontaneous! Dump the guy.

When you interact with someone on the Internet, it is difficult since you cannot look into that person's eyes and figure out where he/she is coming from, so the only thing you can do is play it safe. You have two red flags with this guy. The first is that he calls you late and the second is that he wants to meet in the middle of the night.

Even if the guy is okay, do you really want to hook up with a man that can only meet you in the middle of the night? What kind of a dating life would you have with him? Go find someone else.

Incidentally, you mentioned that some of the people who are giving you advice are grumpy/nasty. I disagree with that; I think most of us are alarmed that you are even considering a guy like this. The people on this thread are not being nasty, they are just trying to be assertive and let you know that you might be meeting a dangerous man. You are fortunate that so many people are taking the time to warn you about this guy.