Topic: I'm so bummed :(
Woodrow's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:23 AM

its not just the meeting in the dark etc which is bad enough been asked to do, its him hes got warning bells ringing all over him and just from reading what she has put i dont trust the guy

of course not hes a cop

hikerchick's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:23 AM

its not just the meeting in the dark etc which is bad enough been asked to do, its him hes got warning bells ringing all over him and just from reading what she has put i dont trust the guy


Debbie's got the third eye - I would listen to it.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:24 AM
Apparently we haven't given the answer she wants to hear.. We've given every reasonable answer available by reasonable people... If you want to feel guilty that is your gig, if you want to meet him that is your gig.. We were trying to let you know that what you did is nothing to be bummed about but obviously you would rather someone tell you to go for it... 1 person already did... In the end you must do what works for you not anyone else....

hikerchick's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:24 AM


its not just the meeting in the dark etc which is bad enough been asked to do, its him hes got warning bells ringing all over him and just from reading what she has put i dont trust the guy

of course not hes a cop


he says he is a cop. She has talked to him for 5 days. She has no way of knowing if he really is or not

DebbieJT's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:24 AM
well if hes a cop then he should know better than asking to meet someone that lateof night ...and even cops can be jerks

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:25 AM
lol I'll keep that in mind. I've met good cops and bad cops... good guys and bad guys... I'm pretty good at figuring them outohwell

Natasha0925's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:25 AM
If u feel u really want to meet him still, take a friend or two along just to make u feel more comfortable, and tell him u r gonna do that and ask him if he wants to bring a friend along.
That way u r not really alone with him ur first time meeting. If he is a weirdo, then it doesnt matter what time it is if hes gonna do something bad, he will do it.

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:25 AM

Apparently we haven't given the answer she wants to hear.. We've given every reasonable answer available by reasonable people... If you want to feel guilty that is your gig, if you want to meet him that is your gig.. We were trying to let you know that what you did is nothing to be bummed about but obviously you would rather someone tell you to go for it... 1 person already did... In the end you must do what works for you not anyone else....



Ohhh no, it's not that, I appreciate all the input I can get. I like variety in opinions, it helps me weigh my thoughts :smile:

Woodrow's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:27 AM
A real easy way to know what type of people anyone is going out with is background checks. 5 bucks and you can know all about them with just a name(first & last)

DebbieJT's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:28 AM
all i can say hun is be as safe as possible flowerforyou

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:28 AM

A real easy way to know what type of people anyone is going out with is background checks. 5 bucks and you can know all about them with just a name(first & last)


yeah but you have to make sure you get the right one... lots of people have the same name

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:30 AM

all i can say hun is be as safe as possible flowerforyou


Thanks, I don't plan on hanging out with him at night until way after we've met, I still think it's inappropriate. Everyone has a day off sometime. :wink:

Woodrow's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:31 AM


A real easy way to know what type of people anyone is going out with is background checks. 5 bucks and you can know all about them with just a name(first & last)


yeah but you have to make sure you get the right one... lots of people have the same name


You have a phone number, City, and name go to people search or your states hall of records(online), will give you a list of all that fit. Most of the time is same person with multipule enterys.
Hope that helpeddrinker

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Sat 02/23/08 01:12 AM
So that's it? No one else has any comments on this topic?

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Sat 02/23/08 01:14 AM

So that's it? No one else has any comments on this topic?
are you deaf???? hello????? there is 4 pages of comments!!!!Not the answer you want???? go !!!! go now!!!noway noway noway noway

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 02/23/08 01:16 AM


So that's it? No one else has any comments on this topic?
are you deaf???? hello????? there is 4 pages of comments!!!!Not the answer you want???? go !!!! go now!!!noway noway noway noway


Jeez that was rude

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Sat 02/23/08 01:18 AM
Good!!!! youre 33 years old and you act like a 12 year old???? dont even go there!!!! noway noway noway noway noway

You know what's rude??? someone your age doesnt know what you are doing.......and that is pathetic!!!noway

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 02/23/08 01:19 AM



So that's it? No one else has any comments on this topic?
are you deaf???? hello????? there is 4 pages of comments!!!!Not the answer you want???? go !!!! go now!!!noway noway noway noway


Jeez that was rude


Gypsy is a wise woman.. What answer do you want?? As I said 2 or 3 pages ago we still haven't given you that "answer" that you WANT.. You're looking for us to say something that you want to hear.. It has nothing to do with our opinions it is that OUR opinions are what you were hoping to hear..

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 02/23/08 01:20 AM

Good!!!! youre 33 years old and you act like a 12 year old???? dont even go there!!!! noway noway noway noway noway

You know what's rude??? someone your age doesnt know what you are doing.......and that is pathetic!!!noway


How am I acting like a 12 yr old by asking for random people's opinions on something?

I'd like to hand you a mirror... quite immature!

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Sat 02/23/08 01:20 AM
s'OK. plan another meeting at another time. you suggest
a time and place and see if he can make it!

flowerforyou

maybe even during the day at Dennys! I have many fond
memories of Dennys...

laugh

You can't be spontaneous all the time! You'll spontaneously combust!

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