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its not just the meeting in the dark etc which is bad enough been asked to do, its him hes got warning bells ringing all over him and just from reading what she has put i dont trust the guy of course not hes a cop |
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its not just the meeting in the dark etc which is bad enough been asked to do, its him hes got warning bells ringing all over him and just from reading what she has put i dont trust the guy Debbie's got the third eye - I would listen to it. |
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Apparently we haven't given the answer she wants to hear.. We've given every reasonable answer available by reasonable people... If you want to feel guilty that is your gig, if you want to meet him that is your gig.. We were trying to let you know that what you did is nothing to be bummed about but obviously you would rather someone tell you to go for it... 1 person already did... In the end you must do what works for you not anyone else....
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its not just the meeting in the dark etc which is bad enough been asked to do, its him hes got warning bells ringing all over him and just from reading what she has put i dont trust the guy of course not hes a cop he says he is a cop. She has talked to him for 5 days. She has no way of knowing if he really is or not |
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well if hes a cop then he should know better than asking to meet someone that lateof night ...and even cops can be jerks
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lol I'll keep that in mind. I've met good cops and bad cops... good guys and bad guys... I'm pretty good at figuring them out
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If u feel u really want to meet him still, take a friend or two along just to make u feel more comfortable, and tell him u r gonna do that and ask him if he wants to bring a friend along.
That way u r not really alone with him ur first time meeting. If he is a weirdo, then it doesnt matter what time it is if hes gonna do something bad, he will do it. |
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Apparently we haven't given the answer she wants to hear.. We've given every reasonable answer available by reasonable people... If you want to feel guilty that is your gig, if you want to meet him that is your gig.. We were trying to let you know that what you did is nothing to be bummed about but obviously you would rather someone tell you to go for it... 1 person already did... In the end you must do what works for you not anyone else.... Ohhh no, it's not that, I appreciate all the input I can get. I like variety in opinions, it helps me weigh my thoughts |
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A real easy way to know what type of people anyone is going out with is background checks. 5 bucks and you can know all about them with just a name(first & last)
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all i can say hun is be as safe as possible
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A real easy way to know what type of people anyone is going out with is background checks. 5 bucks and you can know all about them with just a name(first & last) yeah but you have to make sure you get the right one... lots of people have the same name |
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all i can say hun is be as safe as possible Thanks, I don't plan on hanging out with him at night until way after we've met, I still think it's inappropriate. Everyone has a day off sometime. |
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A real easy way to know what type of people anyone is going out with is background checks. 5 bucks and you can know all about them with just a name(first & last) yeah but you have to make sure you get the right one... lots of people have the same name You have a phone number, City, and name go to people search or your states hall of records(online), will give you a list of all that fit. Most of the time is same person with multipule enterys. Hope that helped |
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So that's it? No one else has any comments on this topic?
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So that's it? No one else has any comments on this topic? |
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So that's it? No one else has any comments on this topic? Jeez that was rude |
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Good!!!! youre 33 years old and you act like a 12 year old???? dont even go there!!!!
You know what's rude??? someone your age doesnt know what you are doing.......and that is pathetic!!! |
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So that's it? No one else has any comments on this topic? Jeez that was rude Gypsy is a wise woman.. What answer do you want?? As I said 2 or 3 pages ago we still haven't given you that "answer" that you WANT.. You're looking for us to say something that you want to hear.. It has nothing to do with our opinions it is that OUR opinions are what you were hoping to hear.. |
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Good!!!! youre 33 years old and you act like a 12 year old???? dont even go there!!!! You know what's rude??? someone your age doesnt know what you are doing.......and that is pathetic!!! How am I acting like a 12 yr old by asking for random people's opinions on something? I'd like to hand you a mirror... quite immature! |
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s'OK. plan another meeting at another time. you suggest
a time and place and see if he can make it! maybe even during the day at Dennys! I have many fond memories of Dennys... You can't be spontaneous all the time! You'll spontaneously combust! |
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