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I got divorced 3 years ago, but kept a relationship with my ex for the last 3 years. Last year he was deployed(Navy) for 6 months to the Middle East and he got involved with an Asian woman from Singapore. When he came back, he had to tell me because I found out about it, but he said that it was in the past, that she was a ghost; however, she keep texting him and emailing him and he answers these messages. I love him, but I can't live like this and I do not know what to do.
Please give me some sound advice. Thanks! |
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can you say player
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Edited by
Totage
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Fri 02/22/08 06:29 PM
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I love him, but I can't live like this
There's your answer right there. 
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can you say player
yep
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key words are "he got involved with" sounds like you need to also "get involved with" little tit for tat can do wonders!
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Welcome to JSH
I'd make him get tested for stds... and then I'd let the asian lady have him. You can do better. JMO |
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Can you say........youre divorced??? what is the whole point of being divorced if youre going to be mentally and physically with that person????
Helloooooooooo?>???? Is there anybody in there????? 
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I think he is playing you, the fact that he is answering every one of those messages, it's tough when you know someone is cheating and you still have feelings for them. Been there done that, and moved on, just to make myself go less crazy.
 i hope things get better for you.
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Wow, well since she is far away and he claims that she is a ghost, part of him is still attached, they could be just friends and enjoy the texting, that alone can be addictive, I know, been there, since she is far, and there is no sexual contact, if you feel he still loves you stay with him, if you feel disrespected let him go and find another, hope this helps...
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I got divorced 3 years ago, but kept a relationship with my ex for the last 3 years. Last year he was deployed(Navy) for 6 months to the Middle East and he got involved with an Asian woman from Singapore. When he came back, he had to tell me because I found out about it, but he said that it was in the past, that she was a ghost; however, she keep texting him and emailing him and he answers these messages. I love him, but I can't live like this and I do not know what to do. Please give me some sound advice. Thanks! Babe...tell him that he shoould be doen with that if it is in the past...and then dont talk to him for a week for making you worry. Not cool. |
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Hey guys! thanks a lot!
 He keeps saying he loves me, and only me, but won't stop texting with her.
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can you say player
this says it all. sorry, know how you feel.
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can you say player
yep
PLAYA!!!!!!!!!!!!
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dont be dumb,she's not history or he wouldn't answer her messages.move on.
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Hey guys! thanks a lot! He keeps saying he loves me, and only me, but won't stop texting with her.
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I think he is playing you, the fact that he is answering every one of those messages, it's tough when you know someone is cheating and you still have feelings for them. Been there done that, and moved on, just to make myself go less crazy. i hope things get better for you.
How did you get over? |
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Hey guys! thanks a lot! He keeps saying he loves me, and only me, but won't stop texting with her.
He only says he loves to keep you. He's a player. IMO Leave him. |
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Can you say........youre divorced??? what is the whole point of being divorced if youre going to be mentally and physically with that person???? Helloooooooooo?>???? Is there anybody in there?????
Right here, at your service. 
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Hey guys! thanks a lot! He keeps saying he loves me, and only me, but won't stop texting with her.
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I think he is playing you, the fact that he is answering every one of those messages, it's tough when you know someone is cheating and you still have feelings for them. Been there done that, and moved on, just to make myself go less crazy. i hope things get better for you.
How did you get over? |
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