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Topic: give me some advice
AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Fri 02/22/08 06:36 PM
Does it make you wonder what he was telling HER when YOU texted, phoned, or emailed him?

browneyes_latina Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 38	Fri 02/22/08 06:37 PM
I think he is playing you, the fact that he is answering every one of those messages, it's tough when you know someone is cheating and you still have feelings for them. Been there done that, and moved on, just to make myself go less crazy. i hope things get better for you. How did you get over? Well i got involved with a bunch of my friends, and just let his memory become a history lesson. We all should learn from mistakes in the past, i gave her to much leniacy, and got walked all over. It really was not easy, for days i would not talk to anyone, go out or do anything, just be depressed and think about ending my life. But I realized she wasn;t worth my life and began to start anew. That is what he has done. He knows I love him and he thinks that I am going to take whatever from him, but I just can not. I am not bad looking and I want to be respected and loved the same way I respect and love. Is that too much to ask?

browneyes_latina Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 38	Fri 02/22/08 06:38 PM
Does it make you wonder what he was telling HER when YOU texted, phoned, or emailed him? He does not know that I know he is texting her because he does not remember that I know all the passwords to the accounts online and I can see the phone bill when he does. He tells me that he has stopped all communication with her.

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Fri 02/22/08 06:40 PM
Then you should ask yourself "why does he need to lie?" I think you already know the answer. Be strong and don't hand over any more of your self respect.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 02/22/08 06:41 PM
So why are you divorced again????

passion46 Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 32	Fri 02/22/08 06:42 PM
my heart goes out to you girl sounds like he is saying that he loves you because of his own quilty mind. You deserve better than that and i know you know that. Take a hard look at how disfunctional it all is and ask yourself does he make you happy you are just used to him. love isn't supposed to hurt like that good luck sister

browneyes_latina Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 38	Fri 02/22/08 06:42 PM
So why are you divorced again???? I'm not we got a divorce, but kept on having a relationship.

browneyes_latina Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 38	Fri 02/22/08 06:43 PM
Then you should ask yourself "why does he need to lie?" I think you already know the answer. Be strong and don't hand over any more of your self respect. Thank you. I will! I promise.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 02/22/08 06:44 PM
So why are you divorced again???? I'm not we got a divorce, but kept on having a relationship. ok that makes no sense.......youre not divorced but you are divorced.......bnahhhhhhhhh shake my head?

romeo1975 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 7083	Fri 02/22/08 06:44 PM
fight the good fight, and if you need a shoulder to cry on, mine is always available, no charge or other fees necessary.

browneyes_latina Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 38	Fri 02/22/08 06:45 PM
fight the good fight, and if you need a shoulder to cry on, mine is always available, no charge or other fees necessary.

romeo1975 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 7083	Fri 02/22/08 06:47 PM
**stretches out for a big hug*** dont worry things will get better with time. I am living proof, just find you passion of life again and forget about the pain in your heart. If you give in to that, you will never live life to the fullest. Feel free to add me if you'd like, it is my pleasure to help.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 02/22/08 06:48 PM
time to cut all ties sista!!!!

browneyes_latina Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 38	Fri 02/22/08 06:49 PM
Thanks to all truly

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 02/22/08 06:50 PM
I am confused. Why would you have a relationship with someone that you divorced?

browneyes_latina Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 38	Fri 02/22/08 06:52 PM
I am confused. Why would you have a relationship with someone that you divorced? because I love him; I was married for 15 years to this man, and I am not that young anymore. I did not want to be alone.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 02/22/08 06:52 PM
Yikes

romeo1975 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 7083	Fri 02/22/08 06:53 PM
I am confused. Why would you have a relationship with someone that you divorced? Well its not totally out of the question, i am still friends with most of my ex girlfriends, all except one who broke up with me by leaving a message on my answering machine saying she was cheating on me and never wanted to see me again. go figure women, still never understand them lol

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 02/22/08 06:53 PM
can you say co-dependant???

browneyes_latina Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 38	Fri 02/22/08 06:54 PM
can you say co-dependant??? I thought about that believe me