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Topic: "Just friends"
hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 02/22/08 11:53 AM
this isnt about driving,i choose to be friends first with women.I wanna be around them a while b4 Captain Howdy pops out! but what if they just want to be friends with Captain Howdy?

thatonegirl05 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 1355	Fri 02/22/08 11:54 AM
Oh I see. It's a financial thing. Just for the record, though, I didn't buy my daughter a car. She is in high school and works two jobs. Never said you did, I was saying not everyone has someone that will buy the car for them. I got lucky though, and my parents bought me my first vehicle, but I pay the insurance and everything on it now.

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Fri 02/22/08 11:55 AM
he needs to hear the "l" word...no hoochies!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 02/22/08 11:56 AM
Oh I see. It's a financial thing. Just for the record, though, I didn't buy my daughter a car. She is in high school and works two jobs. Never said you did, I was saying not everyone has someone that will buy the car for them. I got lucky though, and my parents bought me my first vehicle, but I pay the insurance and everything on it now. no one ever bought me a car, or a house, or an education. So I know how tough it can be. I want to pass that same drive on to my daughter.

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Fri 02/22/08 11:58 AM
in response to the topic title...i hate when that happens..

thatonegirl05 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 1355	Fri 02/22/08 11:58 AM
no one ever bought me a car, or a house, or an education. So I know how tough it can be. I want to pass that same drive on to my daughter. That's good. I was spoiled off my kiester growing up and I really wish I wasn't, but I've become so much more independent over the last couple of years and just pay for everything to prove to myself that I can rely on myself and not need anyone else to support me. I have so much respect for everyone that grew up knowing the value of a dollar. I used to take so much for granted, but not anymore.

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Fri 02/22/08 12:00 PM
are women on crack?This is about a dude that only wants a relationship and wont settle on just being friends.Zoloft?

Shunka_Wakan Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 396	Fri 02/22/08 12:01 PM
no one ever bought me a car, or a house, or an education. So I know how tough it can be. I want to pass that same drive on to my daughter. That's good. I was spoiled off my kiester growing up and I really wish I wasn't, but I've become so much more independent over the last couple of years and just pay for everything to prove to myself that I can rely on myself and not need anyone else to support me. I have so much respect for everyone that grew up knowing the value of a dollar. I used to take so much for granted, but not anymore. I think that is wonderful you have respect for those people. I have had some crappy times and grew up with my family barely being able to make it in life.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 02/22/08 12:02 PM
no one ever bought me a car, or a house, or an education. So I know how tough it can be. I want to pass that same drive on to my daughter. That's good. I was spoiled off my kiester growing up and I really wish I wasn't, but I've become so much more independent over the last couple of years and just pay for everything to prove to myself that I can rely on myself and not need anyone else to support me. I have so much respect for everyone that grew up knowing the value of a dollar. I used to take so much for granted, but not anymore. you sound like you are doing ok. Now just find a guy with his head on straight.

thatonegirl05 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 1355	Fri 02/22/08 12:03 PM
you sound like you are doing ok. Now just find a guy with his head on straight. Easier said than done.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 02/22/08 12:04 PM
are women on crack?This is about a dude that only wants a relationship and wont settle on just being friends.Zoloft? ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha you made my day

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 02/22/08 12:05 PM
you sound like you are doing ok. Now just find a guy with his head on straight. Easier said than done. Hell, I am 50 and still waiting

lynn83 Joined Sun 01/27/08 Posts: 646	Fri 02/22/08 12:06 PM
I think that maybe he won't settle for just a friendship cause he like you too much. And sometimes when you wanna be with someone and they don't wanna be with you emotionally you can't handle seeing them and not being with them. I knwo that I have been in your place resently. I was friends with this guy who wanted to take it to the next level when I said maybe we should wait for that cause we live 3 hours away and he can't drive only i can, so it would be me every weekend driving So then he said ok but didn't act ok with it at all. We still talked everynight and then things were going really good. So I told him that maybe we should give it a shot. And then he told me he now had a girlfriend and we could of course stay friends. Yeah we don't talk anymore cause I realized I can't just be his friend and be happy for him. So be sure you think about it really well before you make your final decision.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 02/22/08 12:07 PM
you sound like you are doing ok. Now just find a guy with his head on straight. Easier said than done. buy a puppy. All men are jerks. Ha ha ha ha ha

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 02/22/08 12:09 PM
you sound like you are doing ok. Now just find a guy with his head on straight. Easier said than done. buy a puppy. All men are jerks. Ha ha ha ha ha heaven forbid they "oh my gosh" might want "no say it isn't so" a relationship.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 02/22/08 12:10 PM
you sound like you are doing ok. Now just find a guy with his head on straight. Easier said than done. buy a puppy. All men are jerks. Ha ha ha ha ha heaven forbid they "oh my gosh" might want "no say it isn't so" a relationship. did you just quote yourself?

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 02/22/08 12:13 PM
you sound like you are doing ok. Now just find a guy with his head on straight. Easier said than done. buy a puppy. All men are jerks. Ha ha ha ha ha heaven forbid they "oh my gosh" might want "no say it isn't so" a relationship. did you just quote yourself? yes all day. 24/7

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 02/22/08 12:16 PM
you sound like you are doing ok. Now just find a guy with his head on straight. Easier said than done. buy a puppy. All men are jerks. Ha ha ha ha ha heaven forbid they "oh my gosh" might want "no say it isn't so" a relationship. did you just quote yourself? yes all day. 24/7