So I've been sittin here chatting with my g/f and it got me thinking. We do some inhumanely gross things around each other. And tell each other worse. And yet, we'll still sprawl in the same bed to watch a movie, share food, whatever.

And I have more than one of those kinds of g/f's. So why on earth is it so hard to find one guy that I can even have a decent entertaining conversation with?!?!?!

And maybe I shouldn't say it's that hard, because I've got a lot of guy friends too, but it seems impossible to get that with someone I'm dating.

Or am I wrong in thinking that this is what my other half and I should be capable of?

it's because the man/woman relationship has historically been an adversarial one. just look at the mating habits of animals like scorpions praying mantises- the first thing they do is grab their pincers to keep one from killing the other. in the case of the praying mantises, one party (the male) inevitably ends up being killed and eaten during the mating process.

What I wanna know is why does the male peacock have prettier plumes than the female???? wtf is going on there???

hahahahaha

Except for the human species almost all other species the male is prettier than the female wth???

I find it hard to get close to people, or let people get close to me. It seems like the more I like someone, the further I try to push them away.

You wanna do gross things with the guy you're dating? Or date a guy with decent conversations?

I think you're on the right track about having standards, but the flip side of that is keeping your options open, too.

You know, Kasey, a lot of people yearn for that thing.. the closeness thing. Being silly, hanging out in bed, watching a movie, sharing stuff that only the two of you share.

No, you're not wrong to want that from your other half. (=

WELL STOP DOING THAT!!!

I'm trying to figure that part out.

Just stop doing it!!! Its not that hard!@! When you realize your doing it.......stop!!! Just say No!!

Hi Jason! How ya doin?

No, I don't want to do gross things with him. I don't intentionally do gross things with my g/f's either. But when they happen we laugh hysterically about them. That's what I want.


Some guys, I won't say all, don't want to know or see some of the ordinary things that women do. Yet at the same time, will do some of the most disgusting things ever. Just don't get it. Whoever made that rule was retarded.

Ok if you must fluff.....make sure his head is under the covers.....!!!! And burping contests are not cool!!!!

I grew up with three sisters and a single mom, there was even a time when our pet was even female, and I was literally the only male in the house. I know ALL about the ordinary things women do.

Aww... the ordinary things make the relationship fun and worth having.. (=

Maybe you are trying too hard.
Relax and start with normal chit chat and see where it goes from there...

yes they are.....

It isn't just Peacocks. It is almost all animals. Because in nature, it is the males job to attract the female, the female gets to chose. But for humans, somewhere along the way, we reversed it.