Topic: Some advice ladies;=)
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Thu 02/21/08 07:47 PM
So often in my travels,I see these beautiful woman & I make eye contact & smile at them.Most will return eye contact for a few seconds but then look away & go about their business.(some will return a smile)w/their eye contact.K;the thing is I really do not like cornball/cheesy pick-up lines.And I would never say something disrespectful to a lady.What are some pleasant conversation starters so that I may catch their interest but not come across the wrong way.I'm looking to peak their interest not have my face slapped or have them tell me get lost.I'd appreciate your feedback ladies.Thx!Godspeed!CyPoetflowerforyou:smile:

msberrypicker's photo
Thu 02/21/08 07:51 PM
smile back and say hi

Enya's photo
Thu 02/21/08 07:52 PM
A SIMPLE "HI.HOW ARE YOU?' IS A START..............

sexysuzi66's photo
Thu 02/21/08 07:53 PM
say hello and be yourself no LINES

beccalee1980's photo
Thu 02/21/08 07:53 PM
cypoet, you can't go wrong with a simple hello...and then see where it goes from there. you certainly won't get slapped for that.
Beccaflowerforyou

celticpride0280's photo
Thu 02/21/08 07:56 PM
Ask her "How much?" Works for me....drinker bigsmile

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 02/21/08 07:59 PM
Hellos are always a good ice breaker. Now here is another clever opening my God-brother used on his (now) wife: "Hey, what's the word?" This occurred in church before choir bible study. Funny, but my God-sister thought it was the cutest thing. They hooked up, married, and have a little son.

I guess it would depend on your surrounding. But let's stick with "Hello". happy

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Thu 02/21/08 07:59 PM
Thank U!ladies (((bear~hug))).I express myself so well through my poetry,but I truly believe my downfall is shyness when person 2 person.If they were 2 read my poetry they would say OMG!is this the same man.(lmao)Thx!again ladies.Godspeed!CyPoetflowerforyou

beccalee1980's photo
Thu 02/21/08 09:02 PM
cypoet, i am like that as well...kinda shy face to face with someone...love to write as well..it's my outlet. best of luck to u!
Beccaflowerforyou

iRon's photo
Thu 02/21/08 09:06 PM

So often in my travels,I see these beautiful woman & I make eye contact & smile at them.Most will return eye contact for a few seconds but then look away & go about their business.(some will return a smile)w/their eye contact.K;the thing is I really do not like cornball/cheesy pick-up lines.And I would never say something disrespectful to a lady.What are some pleasant conversation starters so that I may catch their interest but not come across the wrong way.I'm looking to peak their interest not have my face slapped or have them tell me get lost.I'd appreciate your feedback ladies.Thx!Godspeed!CyPoetflowerforyou:smile:



Through french fries at them gets then everytimenoway

hikerchick's photo
Thu 02/21/08 09:07 PM
Look at her ..does she have a book in her hand, is she wearing interesting shoes, is she carrying a shopping bag? You can ask her what she is reading, compliment her shoes, ask about her shopping. I don't pick people up, but I like to be charming and people really respond when you notice something about them and ask them to talk about it.

This does NOT mean asking - how did you get so fat?

Or ..my, you really sweat alot!

Use your judgement.

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Thu 02/21/08 09:38 PM
I thank U ladies soooooo much U have given me some great advice.I will try this aproach.As far as the guys feedback(yeah;they got jokes)But this is a serious Q not comedy hour.Hence!the word LADIES when I started the thread.I've rented homes in Lakewood,Co & Lorain,Ohio in the past.It seems 2 me their lifestyle is more slower & laid back than in Mass where I currrently reside.People in general here are more quickened & stressed but I will try this approach.p.s.H~C;I would never make a comment like that 2 a woman.Thx!4 ur advice sweetheart.I wish U the best.Godspeed!CyPoet(((bear~hug)))flowerforyou

p.s.All of U ladies were very understanding & helpful.Thx!
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Fade2Black's photo
Fri 02/22/08 06:55 AM

Look at her ..does she have a book in her hand, is she wearing interesting shoes, is she carrying a shopping bag? You can ask her what she is reading, compliment her shoes, ask about her shopping. I don't pick people up, but I like to be charming and people really respond when you notice something about them and ask them to talk about it.

This does NOT mean asking - how did you get so fat?

Or ..my, you really sweat alot!

Use your judgement.


The reason this works is because you are getting them to talk about their FAVORITE subject ......

THEMSELVES :wink:

Works with men too btw ...glasses

LAMom's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:57 AM
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ((((( Steven )))))))) you are an amazing man,, with so much love to give,,, smile that pretty smile,, and be the you .... you so are,,, compassionate, kind and yes most of all considerate,,, Your a true gentleman,,, shine,,,
flowerforyou :heart:

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Fri 02/22/08 12:15 PM
Thank U!F~2~B.I truly appreciate ur advice.Godspeed!CyPoetflowerforyou
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I Luv U Denise aka MyAngel w/all of my bearific heart.((((bear~huggie))))
:heart: flowerforyou

Cambolaya65's photo
Fri 02/22/08 12:17 PM
"nice ta-ta`s" is my standard

hikerchick's photo
Fri 02/22/08 12:19 PM


Look at her ..does she have a book in her hand, is she wearing interesting shoes, is she carrying a shopping bag? You can ask her what she is reading, compliment her shoes, ask about her shopping. I don't pick people up, but I like to be charming and people really respond when you notice something about them and ask them to talk about it.

This does NOT mean asking - how did you get so fat?

Or ..my, you really sweat alot!

Use your judgement.


The reason this works is because you are getting them to talk about their FAVORITE subject ......

THEMSELVES :wink:

Works with men too btw ...glasses


It works with everyone. It's called "charm" and it can be learned.

Works like a charm!! (groan)...

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 02/22/08 02:18 PM

Thank U!F~2~B.I truly appreciate ur advice.Godspeed!CyPoetflowerforyou
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I Luv U Denise aka MyAngel w/all of my bearific heart.((((bear~huggie))))
:heart: flowerforyou



You are most welcome .. flowerforyou

VKidd's photo
Fri 02/22/08 07:38 PM
SAY HI!!!!and nothing stupid like the fall from heaven line...that is the most overused one ever...and it says that you arent thinking for yourself.

nazland's photo
Fri 02/22/08 11:02 PM
hello ladys lol did it work drinker