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So often in my travels,I see these beautiful woman & I make eye contact & smile at them.Most will return eye contact for a few seconds but then look away & go about their business.(some will return a smile)w/their eye contact.K;the thing is I really do not like cornball/cheesy pick-up lines.And I would never say something disrespectful to a lady.What are some pleasant conversation starters so that I may catch their interest but not come across the wrong way.I'm looking to peak their interest not have my face slapped or have them tell me get lost.I'd appreciate your feedback ladies.Thx!Godspeed!CyPoet
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smile back and say hi
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A SIMPLE "HI.HOW ARE YOU?' IS A START..............
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say hello and be yourself no LINES
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cypoet, you can't go wrong with a simple hello...and then see where it goes from there. you certainly won't get slapped for that.
Becca |
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Ask her "How much?" Works for me....
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Hellos are always a good ice breaker. Now here is another clever opening my God-brother used on his (now) wife: "Hey, what's the word?" This occurred in church before choir bible study. Funny, but my God-sister thought it was the cutest thing. They hooked up, married, and have a little son.
I guess it would depend on your surrounding. But let's stick with "Hello". |
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Thank U!ladies (((bear~hug))).I express myself so well through my poetry,but I truly believe my downfall is shyness when person 2 person.If they were 2 read my poetry they would say OMG!is this the same man.(lmao)Thx!again ladies.Godspeed!CyPoet
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cypoet, i am like that as well...kinda shy face to face with someone...love to write as well..it's my outlet. best of luck to u!
Becca |
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So often in my travels,I see these beautiful woman & I make eye contact & smile at them.Most will return eye contact for a few seconds but then look away & go about their business.(some will return a smile)w/their eye contact.K;the thing is I really do not like cornball/cheesy pick-up lines.And I would never say something disrespectful to a lady.What are some pleasant conversation starters so that I may catch their interest but not come across the wrong way.I'm looking to peak their interest not have my face slapped or have them tell me get lost.I'd appreciate your feedback ladies.Thx!Godspeed!CyPoet Through french fries at them gets then everytime |
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Look at her ..does she have a book in her hand, is she wearing interesting shoes, is she carrying a shopping bag? You can ask her what she is reading, compliment her shoes, ask about her shopping. I don't pick people up, but I like to be charming and people really respond when you notice something about them and ask them to talk about it.
This does NOT mean asking - how did you get so fat? Or ..my, you really sweat alot! Use your judgement. |
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I thank U ladies soooooo much U have given me some great advice.I will try this aproach.As far as the guys feedback(yeah;they got jokes)But this is a serious Q not comedy hour.Hence!the word LADIES when I started the thread.I've rented homes in Lakewood,Co & Lorain,Ohio in the past.It seems 2 me their lifestyle is more slower & laid back than in Mass where I currrently reside.People in general here are more quickened & stressed but I will try this approach.p.s.H~C;I would never make a comment like that 2 a woman.Thx!4 ur advice sweetheart.I wish U the best.Godspeed!CyPoet(((bear~hug)))
p.s.All of U ladies were very understanding & helpful.Thx! |
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Look at her ..does she have a book in her hand, is she wearing interesting shoes, is she carrying a shopping bag? You can ask her what she is reading, compliment her shoes, ask about her shopping. I don't pick people up, but I like to be charming and people really respond when you notice something about them and ask them to talk about it. This does NOT mean asking - how did you get so fat? Or ..my, you really sweat alot! Use your judgement. The reason this works is because you are getting them to talk about their FAVORITE subject ...... THEMSELVES Works with men too btw ... |
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Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ((((( Steven )))))))) you are an amazing man,, with so much love to give,,, smile that pretty smile,, and be the you .... you so are,,, compassionate, kind and yes most of all considerate,,, Your a true gentleman,,, shine,,,
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Thank U!F~2~B.I truly appreciate ur advice.Godspeed!CyPoet
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I Luv U Denise aka MyAngel w/all of my bearific heart.((((bear~huggie)))) |
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"nice ta-ta`s" is my standard
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Look at her ..does she have a book in her hand, is she wearing interesting shoes, is she carrying a shopping bag? You can ask her what she is reading, compliment her shoes, ask about her shopping. I don't pick people up, but I like to be charming and people really respond when you notice something about them and ask them to talk about it. This does NOT mean asking - how did you get so fat? Or ..my, you really sweat alot! Use your judgement. The reason this works is because you are getting them to talk about their FAVORITE subject ...... THEMSELVES Works with men too btw ... It works with everyone. It's called "charm" and it can be learned. Works like a charm!! (groan)... |
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Thank U!F~2~B.I truly appreciate ur advice.Godspeed!CyPoet ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I Luv U Denise aka MyAngel w/all of my bearific heart.((((bear~huggie)))) You are most welcome .. |
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SAY HI!!!!and nothing stupid like the fall from heaven line...that is the most overused one ever...and it says that you arent thinking for yourself.
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hello ladys lol did it work
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