Also...can you comment on my thread....nothing says bite me like
cooking for my ex and his girlfriend....or something like that
its down in jokes and funny stories...!

Yeah...its hot...!

Damn thank gosh for divorces

hello shagna. nice you're smiling!

hahaha...goodnite....!

I always have a smile on, I usually never get upset either, But if you
are rude or disrespectful just to be, then my horns come out.

HEY SHAG, YOU NEED TO LET HIM GO, AND YOU KNOW THAT..
IF I CAUGHT YA RIGHT IN YOUR FIRST STATEMENT THAT HE WAS SPENDING SOME
NIGHTS AT YOUR PLACE.
LOOK, YOU GOT AWAY FROM HIM BECAUSE OF DRUGS, HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, SO HE
HAS MOVED ON, YOU SAID HIS STEP KIDS.
IF HE IS INTO CRACK AND GOT HIM A GIRLFRIEND, THEN I WOULD SAY
GOOD FKN RIDDENS, YOUR KIDS DON'T NEED HIM AROUND THEM IF HES FKD UP OR
GOT ANY ON HIM, AND HE IS PROBABLY TRYING TO LOSE HIM SELF IN HIS NEW
LIFE AND IF HE'S LIKE MOST MEN WHO DO CRACK AND
ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE TO BEGIN WITH, HE WILL NOT BE IN YOUR BABIES LIVES
VERY LONG, AND YOU CAN'T MAK HIM LOVE OR FEEL WHAT
you, WANT HIM TO FEEL...GET HIM GONE, AND GET YOUR SELF ALONG...
AND I HAVE NO DOUBT THAT DEEP DOWN YOU ALREADY KNOW ALL THIS??
BUT WE ALL NEED SOMEONE ELSE TO KICK US IN THE ASS TO GET ALONG, EVERY
ONCE IN AWHILE......GOOD LUCK, HUGS........

I agree with you IAM that is why I made sure there was no contact for
almost 2 years after I left him, He showed up at my door for my daughter
birthday in November and yes I had sex with him and it was just sex no
emotions at all. Was it worth it? Hell NO the sex was always shitty
anyway.
I agree with you a crack head is never there for anyone and I know that,
that is why I left.
But thank you for your words of kicking me in the ass

Hi Shanga, and yes, hell yes.
Once her boyfriend told me he fkd her last night when was the last time
I did.........my response was I never fkd her, but only made love to
her. And we have also had some nasty arguments on the phone. He has
threatened to kill me "I have recorded, LOL" Just blow it off, but you
did do the right thing as she has a right to know he is still "with" you
too.

I didnt do it because I thought she had a right to know, I did it in the
steam of the moment as she got rude with me, Yes it was not right for me
to do but I did it and was honest, Did it hurt her? Probally, do I care,
not really as I dont have much compassion for druggies and the choices
they make.

SHAG, I'VE BEEN THERE WITH THE EX AND KIDS BUT I'VE ALWAYS BEEN LUCKY
WITH 'NO' DRUGS AROUND MY KIDS OTHER WISE I PROBABLY WOULD NOT BE HERE,
LOL..
YOUR JUST IN THAT PLACE OF CONFUSED AND PISSED.....
NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING THERE AS LONG AS YOU CAN SEE THROUGHT HIS
BULLSHIT AND KNOW THAT YOUR BY FAR STRONGER THAN HE IS AND THEM BABIES
NEED YOU ALL THE TIME, WITH YOUR HAPPY FACE ON,,LOL

i got into w/ my ex's gf while i was pregnant with our daughter we we're
still married he left and moved in w/her and i called cause our son had
an accident she refused to get him so i told her she was a f-ing bitch
and i was gonna clla her husbands first shirt as he was in iraq at the
time and let him know and i did. he was home w/in a month they were
divorced adn my ex got an lor.

I was lucky as he never brought the drugs around the house or the kids,
He would just take off for days or weeks at a time without any calls or
anything, It was just poof he was gone and so was a lot of money.
The kids know his shit and what he is all about but they do enjoy seeing
him when he decides not to be high and stop bye, It has only been 2
times in the last 2 years.
\I let go of the past with him and I learned you can not change anyone
exspecially a addict so it isnt worth your time to try as all you will
do is beat your head against the wall.