Topic: Too much baggage...
longhairbiker's photo
Wed 02/20/08 11:52 AM
And unfortunately that is where my problem lies. You won't see me post (unless I'm joking- disclaimer) "Where are all the good women at?" I want to know where are all the women who want to celebrate life and enjoy life and live with no regrets? I'm freaking sick of the blame everybody elses. They piss me off. You going to enjoy your life or spend your whole life whining about your life? Just plain stupid.

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Wed 02/20/08 11:53 AM
you got mail biker!!!bigsmile

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 02/20/08 11:55 AM
Aaaahhhhhhh that was a load off my chest. Almost better than sex. I need a cigarette.

lynn83's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:03 PM
thank you for saying what so many people think. God I can't stand it! I just can't be around people like that... one reason I don't have many chic friends my age. But lets be honest there are guys that are just as bad. And what's up with some men not being capable of being faithful, God that **** gets old. I mean can I go out and meet one guy that's not gonna try to have someone else on the side. I think relationships shoudl be 1 on 1 and I just can't seem to get a guy that feels the same and/or can be honest with me. Doesn't anyone know what the words honesty, faithfullness and truth mean these days.

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:06 PM
And my freind jared from subway feels the same way dontcha jared? "Actually no kyle. I just want to say no matter how much weight you lose if you're still ugly you still won't get laid." Thanks jared!

lynn83's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:11 PM

And my freind jared from subway feels the same way dontcha jared? "Actually no kyle. I just want to say no matter how much weight you lose if you're still ugly you still won't get laid." Thanks jared!


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awiserman's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:12 PM
if i was realy into that person,nothing except drugs and to much boozin

Myisland50's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:16 PM
confusionsmokin glasses

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:39 PM


too much negativity and indecisiveness.

hey kojack - a woman can never have too many shoes!!!! :wink:


I agree. Shoes are my life.love


yep yep .. In Forest Gump it's said you can tell a person by the shoes in their closet. *gulp*

Dozens of pairs of heels says it all ... laugh

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Wed 02/20/08 12:40 PM

Ok so I was thinking about this earlier. What kind of baggage can someone have in their life to make you not want to date them? Too many kids? Crazy ex? Meddling moms?:smile: Discuss!!
I do not consider kids as BAGGAGE but merely an extension of a person.....as far as ex-wives or husbands go..thats baggage!!laugh laugh laugh

franshade's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:41 PM


Ok so I was thinking about this earlier. What kind of baggage can someone have in their life to make you not want to date them? Too many kids? Crazy ex? Meddling moms?:smile: Discuss!!
I do not consider kids as BAGGAGE but merely an extension of a person.....as far as ex-wives or husbands go..thats baggage!!laugh laugh laugh


nah,they are little wrinkles not baggage. :wink:

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Wed 02/20/08 12:42 PM



Ok so I was thinking about this earlier. What kind of baggage can someone have in their life to make you not want to date them? Too many kids? Crazy ex? Meddling moms?:smile: Discuss!!
I do not consider kids as BAGGAGE but merely an extension of a person.....as far as ex-wives or husbands go..thats baggage!!laugh laugh laugh


nah,they are little wrinkles not baggage. :wink:
bigsmile bigsmile laugh

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:43 PM
Kyles date-----> "So yeah, I've travelled around the world twice, to 27 countries, I'm a decorated vet, educated, cultured, enjoyed the chance to race motorcycles, jump out of perfectly good airplanes, skydive, climbed 4 14000 foot mountains. I love adventure....and you?" "Oh I had 3 kids with 3 deadbeat dads. The first sperm donor was an alcoholic who beat me. The second sperm donor was a lazy pothead who cheated on me all the time and stole my car. And the last sperm donor got me pregnant then ran off with my slut of a sister and got her pregnant too! Then come to find out he gave us both herpes." "um ok. Well nice knowing ya."

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:45 PM

And the #1 baggage I despise and won't tolerate one bit is condescending blamers who refuse to take responsibility for their own actions. If I hear just once that its "Somebody elses fault" for any of YOUR actions or behavior on a date with me- dates over. Because trust me I don't have time to listen to you blame your parents/siblings/ teachers/ counsellors/ freinds/ ex boyfreinds/ ex husbands/ ex lesbian lovers/ your dog/ cat/ guinea pig/ pastor/ mailman/ the "cops"/ the "judge"/ your lawyer/ your electrical appliances FOR YOUR anger/ depression/ DWI's/ pregnancies/ alcohol & drug problems/ weight problems/ freind problems/ health problems/ mental health problems/ feminine hygiene problems/ car problems/ and every other freaking problem you can fathom and imagine and create in your mind!!!!!!! And do you know WHY I refuse to tolerate it? For two reasons. #1 BECAUSE IT MAKES IT EASIER FOR YOU PSYCHOS TO MAKE ME YOUR SCAPEGOAT AND BLAME EVERYTHING IN THE WHOLE ENTIRE UNIVERSE ON ME!!! AND I DON'T PLAY THAT!!! And #2 BECAUSE IT DICTATES HOW YOU ARE GOING TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WASTING IT BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE FOR YOUR MISGIVINGS AND YOUR ACTIONS!!! And I'm sorry I've got better things to do than listen to you whine, complain, and blame. I've got a life to live, to appreciate and love. I have my freedoms I fought so hard for to celebrate. And I've got only one life to live and I intend to live it to its fullest with no regrets.


Sounds like someone has had a bad date too many noway




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franshade's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:46 PM
or didnt take their happy pill today :wink:

Myisland50's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:47 PM

Kyles date-----> "So yeah, I've travelled around the world twice, to 27 countries, I'm a decorated vet, educated, cultured, enjoyed the chance to race motorcycles, jump out of perfectly good airplanes, skydive, climbed 4 14000 foot mountains. I love adventure....and you?" "Oh I had 3 kids with 3 deadbeat dads. The first sperm donor was an alcoholic who beat me. The second sperm donor was a lazy pothead who cheated on me all the time and stole my car. And the last sperm donor got me pregnant then ran off with my slut of a sister and got her pregnant too! Then come to find out he gave us both herpes." "um ok. Well nice knowing ya."


WOWhuh noway

I gotta get out morehuh ohwell :wink: laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 02/20/08 12:47 PM

Kyles date-----> "So yeah, I've travelled around the world twice, to 27 countries, I'm a decorated vet, educated, cultured, enjoyed the chance to race motorcycles, jump out of perfectly good airplanes, skydive, climbed 4 14000 foot mountains. I love adventure....and you?" "Oh I had 3 kids with 3 deadbeat dads. The first sperm donor was an alcoholic who beat me. The second sperm donor was a lazy pothead who cheated on me all the time and stole my car. And the last sperm donor got me pregnant then ran off with my slut of a sister and got her pregnant too! Then come to find out he gave us both herpes." "um ok. Well nice knowing ya."


Kyle you always make me laugh when I need it.
THANKS my Friendlaugh laugh laugh

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:48 PM
And if a guy EVER referred to my children as "baggage" devil They'd be takin him out in one ............ a BODY bag that is devil devil devil






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longhairbiker's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:49 PM


Ok so I was thinking about this earlier. What kind of baggage can someone have in their life to make you not want to date them? Too many kids? Crazy ex? Meddling moms?:smile: Discuss!!
I do not consider kids as BAGGAGE but merely an extension of a person.....as far as ex-wives or husbands go..thats baggage!!laugh laugh laugh
......my freind jared says "kids are not baggage. They're just little carry on tote bags."

hellkitten54's photo
Wed 02/20/08 12:54 PM
Now I would never call children baggage, I've heard others (men) say that, so I figured I'd throw it in to see what was said.:smile: I have a son myself, and he is the apple of my eye.:heart: