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Topic: Abusive sister
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Sat 02/23/08 06:24 AM


Next time she hits someone, you call the police, when she is arrainged, you don't bail her out, when she goes to trial, you go to the judge and you ask the judge to put her in an inhouse treatment center. When she gets out, you request for her to have ongoing counceling, which most metropolitan areas have a sliding scale for that sort of thing. (Catholic charities, ect) if she continues to behave badly, you don't allow her in your home.


This is the best and most sound advice I have read so far. As a former Domestic violence counselor I can tell you women can be just as abusive as men..its about power and control and I doubt that mental health issues have anything to do with her behaviour. She does what she does because she wants to and is getting away with it. Hard as it might feel, throw her out, change the locks and dont look back until she cleans up her act. Its the best thing you can do for her and for any of her future victims.
good luck
flowerforyou

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