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Topic: Profile of the Sociopath
aspiringactress's photo
Mon 02/18/08 10:52 PM





They mess with your mind, your heart, everything. They are capable of leaving terrible scars on others, and not even bat an eye over it....... it truly is frightening should you ever find yourself caught up with someone like this.



Then they can make everyone else believe it is you that is the mental one.


amen!


And they make you question yourself...question your own intuition and judgement until you are so confuseed you can't find your way out of a brown paper bag!


I realized after reading this today and really thinking about it, I still have reprocussions from him, it has been almost 2 years too. I really hope someday he grows a soul and relized what he has done to not only me, but countless others and his 3 sons.

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Mon 02/18/08 11:41 PM
I think Ive had a few bfs who had these traitsindifferent I may have even married one!!!noway

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Mon 02/18/08 11:44 PM
ive studied alot about it. it seemed that every man in my life had the same traits...well needless to say that there are certain people who attract these kinds. especial mr/ms fixits! someone who trys to fix everyone's problems and take care of them. thats me!!!

it takes a very long time to get over it...if ever honestly.

i had a long talk tonight with the guy im dating. he is being punished for my ex's behavior, he is right, but he is willing to try to hang with it and help me thru it.

jeff said tonight that all those thoughts left in my head about what the ex drilled in there making me believe about myself are garbage deep down i know i am the woman that i once was...its true, im still trying to figure out how to get that woman back.

chevylover1965's photo
Mon 02/18/08 11:45 PM
flowerforyou

madamx7316's photo
Mon 02/18/08 11:46 PM
awww i love you chevy xoxoxox

chevylover1965's photo
Mon 02/18/08 11:48 PM
blushing

izzie's photo
Tue 02/19/08 12:00 AM
so.. madame... you know my ex??
cuz you just described him to a t...
grumble grumble grumble grumble

chevylover1965's photo
Tue 02/19/08 12:06 AM
laugh

catchme_ifucan's photo
Tue 02/19/08 12:25 AM
I use to say my EX would be so proud of me,
For years after I got away from him I still tortured myself.
It's amazing how well we learn to mind fuk ourselves.

Even worse is all that hate we let take up space in our heads.


Marie55's photo
Tue 02/19/08 12:53 AM
You described my ex here, he was diagnosed with an "antisocial personality behavior disorder." He was extremely violent, alcoholic, did 3-1/2 years in prison for second-degree assault (found this out after I married him), he had knifed another guy in a fight.

Like Catch said, it is really hard to get the garbage he planted out of my head, and I divorced him years ago. I am still amazed I got my daughter and I out of the marriage alive (he swore he would kill me if I divorced him).

Thanks for the info, a good refresher course.

chevylover1965's photo
Tue 02/19/08 01:20 AM
im just a ree-ree with a shiny helmet !glasses

catchme_ifucan's photo
Tue 02/19/08 01:43 AM
Shines Chevy's helmet with my aahhh shirt! devil

chevylover1965's photo
Tue 02/19/08 01:51 AM
blushing i c boobie's ! blushing

catchme_ifucan's photo
Tue 02/19/08 01:52 AM
***Giggles****blushing

chevylover1965's photo
Tue 02/19/08 01:53 AM
devil :tongue: devil

aspiringactress's photo
Tue 02/19/08 01:54 AM

ive studied alot about it. it seemed that every man in my life had the same traits...well needless to say that there are certain people who attract these kinds. especial mr/ms fixits! someone who trys to fix everyone's problems and take care of them. thats me!!!

it takes a very long time to get over it...if ever honestly.

i had a long talk tonight with the guy im dating. he is being punished for my ex's behavior, he is right, but he is willing to try to hang with it and help me thru it.

jeff said tonight that all those thoughts left in my head about what the ex drilled in there making me believe about myself are garbage deep down i know i am the woman that i once was...its true, im still trying to figure out how to get that woman back.


The book that really helped me was "Walking on EggShells"

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Tue 02/19/08 01:49 PM
that's a general profile for someone with antisocial personality disorder, which could fall under psychopathy or sociopathy.

i taught pickup to someone like this before, and it was one of the biggest mistakes ive ever made. frown

madamx7316's photo
Tue 02/19/08 05:41 PM

I use to say my EX would be so proud of me,
For years after I got away from him I still tortured myself.
It's amazing how well we learn to mind fuk ourselves.

Even worse is all that hate we let take up space in our heads.




so true lisa, but always remember you are strong and beautiful and above all...YOU WIN! xoxoxo

madamx7316's photo
Tue 02/19/08 05:42 PM

that's a general profile for someone with antisocial personality disorder, which could fall under psychopathy or sociopathy.

i taught pickup to someone like this before, and it was one of the biggest mistakes ive ever made. frown
yes anti-social behavior falls into this realm too. its all quite awful

catchme_ifucan's photo
Tue 02/19/08 06:26 PM
Edited by catchme_ifucan on Tue 02/19/08 06:27 PM
(((((Kitt))))) Back atcha babe! :wink:

I left him in 91' so it's been a few years since I let torture & maming him take up space. devil

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