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Topic: The setup game
romeo1975's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:10 AM
How many people in here trust others to set you up on blind dates. I have a couple of times, but not really anymore. A co worker of mine set me up on a blind date, and the girl never showed i called and nothing, i called my co worker and nothing, then she quit 2 days later, have not heard from her since. Any of you had this happen or is it just my incredible luck?

ellgee1976's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:11 AM
maybe they ran off together?

i dunno..that would definatly suck tho ...keep your chin up

ladyblack67's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:11 AM
I was set up on a blind date.
the guy thought with his ****, and wouldn't stop staring at my breasts!needles to say~ it didn't go well!

polaritybear's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:12 AM
Wow thats kinda strange.

Ive never been on a blind date.

chickayoshi's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:13 AM
I wouldn't consider a blind date. But sorry that this happened to you. Sucks! ohwell

itsmetina's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:13 AM
sorry people just dont seem to have manners sometimes

snow4206's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:14 AM
been there a couple of times one i actually hit off with
we went on a couple of dates then i met her husband

romeo1975's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:14 AM

maybe they ran off together?

i dunno..that would definatly suck tho ...keep your chin up
ya know that never occured to me, but that would mean they became lesbian lovers, stranger things have happened i guess. Any ladies leave their men to become lesbian lovers. Just a curious question.

romeo1975's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:14 AM

been there a couple of times one i actually hit off with
we went on a couple of dates then i met her husband
LOL snow, then what?

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:17 AM
Humm had a friend of mine and a girl he was dating set me up with her dad we all 4 went out to eat great conversation and all said he really enjoyed it and wanted to call me back. hummmm never heard from him again ohhhhhhhhhh well that is life.laugh

Winx's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:18 AM
My parents met on a blind date. They have been married
49 years.

romeo1975's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:19 AM

My parents met on a blind date. They have been married
49 years.
Well than gives a little hope, but i am still a little skeptical, maybe its just i am a glutton for punishment

snow4206's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:19 AM


been there a couple of times one i actually hit off with
we went on a couple of dates then i met her husband
LOL snow, then what?
well there was a scuffel some yelling and i think he even got in a reach around frown noway grumble

chickayoshi's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:20 AM

My parents met on a blind date. They have been married
49 years.


Hmm. Maybe I WILL do a blind date then. But, I would have to get hooked up by friends that know my taste. Otherwise, still not doing the blind date thing.

romeo1975's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:21 AM
But did she end up with the guy in the white hat(hence snow) lol, or the black hat with the evil twisted moustache LOL

romeo1975's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:22 AM


My parents met on a blind date. They have been married
49 years.


Hmm. Maybe I WILL do a blind date then. But, I would have to get hooked up by friends that know my taste. Otherwise, still not doing the blind date thing.
Maybe we should try that, but my best friend i dont know if he knows my taste, after all when he hears me say i am sweet and innocent as a newborn baby, then he replies, "maybe Rosemary's Baby".

chickayoshi's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:25 AM



My parents met on a blind date. They have been married
49 years.


Hmm. Maybe I WILL do a blind date then. But, I would have to get hooked up by friends that know my taste. Otherwise, still not doing the blind date thing.
Maybe we should try that, but my best friend i dont know if he knows my taste, after all when he hears me say i am sweet and innocent as a newborn baby, then he replies, "maybe Rosemary's Baby".


Ha ha! laugh

no photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:28 AM
I used to have two very close and very well-connected female friends (they were more like my sisters, really) who were constantly introducing me to their neighbors, cousins, friends, people they worked with, people they went to school with, etc. This worked really well for me, in terms of quantity, if nothing else -- probably 85% of the people I've ever been involved with came from one of these two.

One of the nice things about it was that these were all people my friends had some knowledge of, so it wasn't like going in completely blind. I figured they weren't going to set me up with an axe murderer, at least; so in that respect, it was a lot better than trying to meet someone on line. There was a sort of a "screening" process.

Since I don't drink or go to bars, and since I tend to be something of a recluse, this just seemed like a good way to meet people at the time. The downside was that the people I met tended to be more adept at being temporary distractions than girlfriends; nice enough, but somewhat insubstantial, and ultimately tended to become overpossessive and clingy and/or amazingly boring. But I learned a lot about a lot of different people and about myself, so I think it was worth it.

My two friends ultimately got a little older, got married and had 2.4 kids; and all of their formerly single girlfriends also tended to get married and have 2.4 kids, so that's no longer a viable alternative for me.

But if I was ever in a position where I really wanted to meet new people, I would much rather have a well-connected friend than have to resort to a dating site again.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 02/16/08 10:50 AM

How many people in here trust others to set you up on blind dates. I have a couple of times, but not really anymore. A co worker of mine set me up on a blind date, and the girl never showed i called and nothing, i called my co worker and nothing, then she quit 2 days later, have not heard from her since. Any of you had this happen or is it just my incredible luck?
smokin Sounds like it was the same personsmokin

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Sat 02/16/08 11:00 AM
I was set up on a few blind dates... but the worst one, was my last one. A woman from work set me up with this guy... and we were all having a good time at the bar, and he got a call. He was a tow truck driver. He asked if i wanted to go along.. so I did... shortly there-after, tooling down the road, he yanks his teeth out and tosses them on the dashboard of the truck, just as we hit a corner. Well, his teeth came sliding across the dashboard and landed in my lap!!! THATS GROSS!! sorry

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