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Topic: How Long
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Fri 02/15/08 08:04 PM


I think its a good idea to talk to a person for awhile before meeting........get to know them better......bigsmile


Gypsy... but what about "pillow talk"? It's ohhh so deep! drinker bigsmile
ohhhhhhh that comes later!!!devil devil devil devil devil

lilith401's photo
Fri 02/15/08 08:05 PM
Is that come with an "O" or a "U"????laugh :tongue:

JMEEGE27's photo
Fri 02/15/08 08:07 PM

meet them fast to find out how ancient their photos are! laugh


We are on the same level!! laugh laugh

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Fri 02/15/08 08:08 PM

Is that come with an "O" or a "U"????laugh :tongue:
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh you are terrible!!! Just like Muriel!!!devil devil devil laugh laugh laugh laugh

LadyOfMagic's photo
Fri 02/15/08 08:08 PM
I do the online meeting stuff cuz I don't have any other choice since I rarely get out of the house..so IF I have any chance at all of meeting somebody its gotta be online.

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Fri 02/15/08 08:29 PM


I run from anyone who wants to meet right away. I need to talk for a couple of months, at the very least..e-mail, then phone..I want to have a really good feeling for the person. When I first started doing this, if someone wanted to meet right away I would..but they weren't interested in getting to know me..they just wanted someone to paw. Good things are worth the investment of time..


You've just had bad luck.. It happens.. But emailing over an extended amount of time doesn't mean he's not that same way.. He could be emailing tons of women and just playing his cards right.. Or, he could be just weird and taking way too much time to think while he's emailing..

At least you'd get to know if he's a weirdo right away if you met.. That way you wouldn't be wasting so much time emailing.. That's how I look at it anyways..


I think taking time to go meet someone unworthy is a much bigger waste of time than having daily conversations with someone over an extended period. I don't look at e-mail as a waste of time, I guess. I have had wonderful conversations with someone I met on here for two months before we exchanged phone calls..we still haven't met. Someone who is just looking for a body to paw is not likely to make that kind of investment of his time. He wants to be just as sure as I do.

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Fri 02/15/08 08:31 PM






Depends on how well you think you've gotten to know them online..I do notes/messenger..then phone calls for awhile then meet..Soooo I'd say 3 months maybe..but I'm not normal..lmao


Your a sweetheart

I'll probably never meet anybody online to meet in person again.laugh

Why is that?

Because I seem to be a magnet for Mr.Wrong..Mr.Right can't see me..I am invisible to him.laugh


Well I think maybe you are expecting too much too soon, because I think you are very pretty


Just because a girl is pretty it doesn't make men any nicer. Losers are attracted to pretty women too.

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Fri 02/15/08 08:36 PM
It's not my face that attracts the losers..Its my chair..lol..I've had men NOT want to date me because of my chair then I've had guys WANT to date me because of it..I've even had a guy tell me "If you support me I promise to keep you laughing"..I was like.."Oh I know you will cuz that got a BIG laugh outta me buddy"..lmao.

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Fri 02/15/08 09:44 PM
well it took 2 months for my ex and me and that was ims and the phone.

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