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I have to reflect and in that reflection I have to make sure that the person that I am looking at is the person that I want to be .. sometimes I have to regroup .. or take a time out .. but I also have to be careful to own only what is mine and toss the rest out.. I am no longer in the position that I want a chemistry project .. and in my past I have been guilty of that .. I do not blame them persay for who they were just me for wanting to change or fix them.. I have a bad habbit of wanting to Fastrack people's lives to fabulous and neglecting my own ..  You can take me as I am Shoes..... I dont have the attention span to be dishonest about myself.....   John I think you are pretty wonderful just the way you are ...
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I have to reflect and in that reflection I have to make sure that the person that I am looking at is the person that I want to be .. sometimes I have to regroup .. or take a time out .. but I also have to be careful to own only what is mine and toss the rest out.. I am no longer in the position that I want a chemistry project .. and in my past I have been guilty of that .. I do not blame them persay for who they were just me for wanting to change or fix them.. I have a bad habbit of wanting to Fastrack people's lives to fabulous and neglecting my own .. You can take me as I am Shoes..... I dont have the attention span to be dishonest about myself..... John I think you are pretty wonderful just the way you are ... Who are you talking about??? 
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I have to reflect and in that reflection I have to make sure that the person that I am looking at is the person that I want to be .. sometimes I have to regroup .. or take a time out .. but I also have to be careful to own only what is mine and toss the rest out.. I am no longer in the position that I want a chemistry project .. and in my past I have been guilty of that .. I do not blame them persay for who they were just me for wanting to change or fix them.. I have a bad habbit of wanting to Fastrack people's lives to fabulous and neglecting my own .. You can take me as I am Shoes..... I dont have the attention span to be dishonest about myself..... John I think you are pretty wonderful just the way you are ... ill go on and second that one...  
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no comment--i am what i am--but i do understand this issue of it--but i can never see myself being two faced on anything--that's just uncool--
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That is the thing.. It is so easy in any relationship to place blame in it's entirety on the other. Especially easy when it is a relationship spawned off of the net. Exactly, and how often are these things ever 100% one-sided? Hardly ever, I'm guessing. Sure, I can blame someone for lying, for misrepresenting themselves; but then I'm at fault, too, for making bad choices, for permitting myself to be taken in, for buying into the lies, etc., at the very least. Great point, Lex. And if we ARE the adults we present ourselves to be, we can find value in these experiences, self-reflect, and make changes, thereby growing into a better form of oneself. |
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no comment--i am what i am--but i do understand this issue of it--but i can never see myself being two faced on anything--that's just uncool-- I think it's more of the ability to see yourself a certain way and accept the way you outwardly appear and form some sort of honesty in that, an acceptance. Far better to take from it what is good and try to learn and correct from the not so good than to just assume the "viewers" are off base. Two faced? I doubt you are that. |
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