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Topic: Can you help a girl out?
Joni321's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:19 PM
Had the same thing happen to me today. He could seem to get the fact that I said no and no and no again. Then he tried to tell me what i would be missing out on (like I don't already know about a what he can do or thinks he can do) Then he gets mad and as you said turns into the last of not so charming young men I've come across on this site.

Advice no and then sign off. laugh laugh I think I'll take that advice myself.

no photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:21 PM

Alright here is the deal , you get an email , be my friend, okay that is cool , then another could you see us hooking up , I tried to be polite pointed out too young ,, emailed back he is more mature than others blah blah , again pointed out too young different stages in life blah blah , he gets mad turns anger on me , I finally just say NO , he gets madder , and so then I am rude,, Guys NO means NO if a girl is pointing out your age, the distance chances are she is just not interested .. take no for an answer ..I am trying not to be a b#$ch can you help a girl out?


LOL..poor shoes. flowerforyou

you mean you didn;t see how much more mature he was than other's his age?? I mean really, I think he prolly is at least out of diapers! noway :tongue: laugh

Yeh, same reason I won't go after young women (under 30...ok 27....nah 24...ok as long as she is over 18!!! noway :tongue: laugh ) Just kidding..30 is about my low range. But same things..long term goals just get way out of whack.

But I'm sure it happens a lot more to the women...and some of the women LIKE that..they call then COUGARS! Guys are just called PERVERTS! noway :tongue: laugh flowerforyou flowerforyou

shoes4rhon's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:21 PM
well for staters I think that most of us will use that has an excuse if we are not interested .. It is hard for me to look at someone that is asking me on a date or to be thier friend and go you are a douchebag go away ... so I am polite ,, no you are too young .. or I am looking for someone closer .. so you all are saying I should just say um ICK? I don't like you..

widowerseeking's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:22 PM
when I looked at the topic, thought it would be russian or nigerian woman, who needed financial help.

Derekkye's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:22 PM
Aren't you just playing hard to get? Doesn't no mean try harder? Some people just don't get it.sad

Totage's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:24 PM

well for staters I think that most of us will use that has an excuse if we are not interested .. It is hard for me to look at someone that is asking me on a date or to be thier friend and go you are a douchebag go away ... so I am polite ,, no you are too young .. or I am looking for someone closer .. so you all are saying I should just say um ICK? I don't like you..


Don't change. flowerforyou

Some people just can't handle rejection well.

shoes4rhon's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:24 PM

when I looked at the topic, thought it would be russian or nigerian woman, who needed financial help.

lol does that happen out here ?

shoes4rhon's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:26 PM

Aren't you just playing hard to get? Doesn't no mean try harder? Some people just don't get it.sad


oh he was one of those that is was every woman out there's fault because it could not be that he is a douchebag

cplichristmd's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:27 PM
Edited by cplichristmd on Wed 02/13/08 07:27 PM
ewww dont bring up nasty girlie products lol ewwww lol douchbags are nasty lol ewww

shoes4rhon's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:28 PM
and your point would be ..??grumble

cplichristmd's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:34 PM

and your point would be ..??grumble
why do chicks do that anyways i dont understand

shoes4rhon's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:35 PM
do what hon?

cplichristmd's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:36 PM

do what hon?
a douch bag isent that like they squirt stuff up there or something why would you do that

no photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:37 PM

Alright here is the deal , you get an email , be my friend, okay that is cool , then another could you see us hooking up , I tried to be polite pointed out too young ,, emailed back he is more mature than others blah blah , again pointed out too young different stages in life blah blah , he gets mad turns anger on me , I finally just say NO , he gets madder , and so then I am rude,, Guys NO means NO if a girl is pointing out your age, the distance chances are she is just not interested .. take no for an answer ..I am trying not to be a b#$ch can you help a girl out?


tell the "little man" that the BIG boys are mature enough to know when that stop sign has been thrust upon their face, and that he needs to cry to go cry to his mommy. he should also go home and play with his he-man dolls, too.

shoes4rhon's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:42 PM


do what hon?
a douch bag isent that like they squirt stuff up there or something why would you do that


actually it is one of those marketing things .. the body providing there is nothing wrong will take care of that .. but someone got the idea then played into the heads of woman and wala massengail was born

Mac60's photo
Wed 02/13/08 07:57 PM
I always used the 2-phone-call rule. If I was turned down twice or got a lame excuse twice(this was more common), that was it. End of story. Obviously, this cat ain't like me.

cplichristmd's photo
Wed 02/13/08 08:22 PM
see not me lol if i like someone which i do i keep on giving chances idk why but i have gotten 4 call offs from this one girl for legatiment reasons as far as i can tell but who knows lol she could be lying but i dont know for sure because i wasnt there to realy check and i sent her flowers for valentines day lol maybe i am just gulliable lol idk

curios789's photo
Wed 02/13/08 08:39 PM

Alright here is the deal , you get an email , be my friend, okay that is cool , then another could you see us hooking up , I tried to be polite pointed out too young ,, emailed back he is more mature than others blah blah , again pointed out too young different stages in life blah blah , he gets mad turns anger on me , I finally just say NO , he gets madder , and so then I am rude,, Guys NO means NO if a girl is pointing out your age, the distance chances are she is just not interested .. take no for an answer ..I am trying not to be a b#$ch can you help a girl out?

Awe does that mean I'm too young for you, too? :cry:

Jeepinfool's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:08 PM
Edited by Jeepinfool on Wed 02/13/08 11:10 PM

Alright here is the deal , you get an email , be my friend, okay that is cool , then another could you see us hooking up , I tried to be polite pointed out too young ,, emailed back he is more mature than others blah blah , again pointed out too young different stages in life blah blah , he gets mad turns anger on me , I finally just say NO , he gets madder , and so then I am rude,, Guys NO means NO if a girl is pointing out your age, the distance chances are she is just not interested .. take no for an answer ..I am trying not to be a b#$ch can you help a girl out?

alot of women your age would kill to have your looks, so why would you put a minimum on age, your single, he's single, why not, you only live once. that should have been taken as a compliment, ever heard the term, age is a number. I've dated out of my age range and it wasn't bad, they were actually more mature than the females my age, so i wouldn't put limitations on the ever decreasing pool of men, because of a number

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