Met this new guy on another site, I really liked him, and he seemed to really like me, only one date however. He told me that he was coming to a singles dance on Valentines day, so I figured I would see him there, then found out just last night, he told me he won't be there cause he has "other Plans" I figured it must be a girl, so I texted him back, that she was a very lucky woman and that she must be pretty special to him if he is taking her out on Valentines day and breaking the plans we had, mind you I only went out with him once, he says he still wants to see me, but I told him to forget it. We had been texting each other back and forth all week and I figured he was a free man. Should I see him or let him go??? Help!!!!

no one can answer that for you, you have to trust your heart I know that seems hard but even if you end up hurt from it, at least you were true to yourself

see him be nice to him

Please see me. Its nothing personal baby, I just had other plans

Ek. I wouldn't have even go so far as to say anything about another woman, after one date.

It is Valentine's and I think if you want to decide anything you should probably wait till after its all over. People do crazy things around holidays like this.

Did he ask you too the dance? if so, then said he changed his mind, then I would not see him anymore, I would let him GO !!!

MirrorMirror I really hate when you do that, and you are so good at it....

One date and you are demanding to know his plans ?? My Valentines Date is my daughter ,,, wow

No it was a group singles dance that we just signed up to go to, and he said he was going, that is all.

texting sucks. drop the guy.

I didn't demand to know his plans, he kinda said them...why would he hurt someone he just met like that...???

Slow down girl or your liable to sound a little to eager. It was just one date not a relationship he's allowed to make other plans change his mind or not ever call again. Best to start all as a friendship and let it develop or not on it's own.

why would it hurt you if you just met him ?

What site did you meet him on?

yep that is what i thought, thanks guys, i went overboard, oh well, live and learn...

cancelled on v day u been dissed never be a stand by

Seems to me like, one date & your trying to control his life.
I have had things come up, that I felt weren't the business of someone I just met. Had nothing to do with another lady.
Aren't you jumping to conclusions; just a little bit??


Playing devil's advocate, put think it is a point to consider.

Don't beat yourself up. There's always a new day and you can start one right now!!