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Topic: You have an online relationship going on, and going good
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Wed 02/13/08 06:49 PM
I talked to many people on the phone before meeting in person. Truth be told... if they want you to see them a certain way and the have "skills".. they can accomplish that. In part, it is because we want people to be who they portray themselves to be.

I changed my tact to not expecting anything other than friendship.

I never pushed a meeting, I never tried to go outside comfort zones, and I always gave people my undivided attention. I also never turned down a friendship. The last friend I sought out... turned into love.


^^^ All true^^^ She never tried to insist I visit.. She never invited herself to someplace she was uninvited. I did not call her and say.. Guess what? I just purchased a plane ticket and I'll be checking into the hotel down the street from you at about 11:00 am. If either of us had done anything like that.. Would it have been a surprise if the other said 'Slow the f@ck down! Unless you are trying to get an anti-stalking order!'
It was all very casual and mutual. Unlike some I've heard of.
I feel very assured that even if the week did not go as well as it did? Or did not go at all.. We would still be very good friends. That was what both of us were shooting for.
Not enough can be said for being on the same page, before meeting.
By the by. I love you too!.

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Wed 02/13/08 06:50 PM
Don't ever get discouraged by rocks in the road. There is always multiple paths we must take in order to find what is exceptional to our hearts and rewarding to our entire life. Unfortunately, there is always a negative with a positive. But it's up to us, to keep a mental record accordingly. We can easily allow mishaps in any area of our life, to be a set-back or cause friction within our own self-confidence. But to take the positives and keep them worn on our sleeve daily (is like waking in the morning repeating the same affirmations of your attributes & life-long expectations). Everything that happens to us; good or bad, is only to provide us knowledge and prepare us for better things. No one ever said lifes journey was going to be easy. God, would never fail to prepare us for a remarkable outcome.
This man you associated with, will continue being a disgrace to women; until he gets a "taste" of his own toxic medicine. Don't sweat it; he's just another man trying to take what doesn't belong to him. Which is, your (pride, wisdom, self-esteem & beautiful strength). Be who you are; someone, will one day love you unconditionally & the admiration will be overwhelming ;)

Keep smiling, you only fall, when you've allowed the enemy to push you down! The best is yet to come.

~Teresa

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Wed 02/13/08 06:58 PM
Well I believe that you just have to keep on going until you find the right one.It can happen anywhere not just on-line..It can happen at the store when your shopping,or a wrong number,endless possibilities!!If You only believe it can happen..love

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Wed 02/13/08 07:02 PM

Don't ever get discouraged by rocks in the road. There is always multiple paths we must take in order to find what is exceptional to our hearts and rewarding to our entire life. Unfortunately, there is always a negative with a positive. But it's up to us, to keep a mental record accordingly. We can easily allow mishaps in any area of our life, to be a set-back or cause friction within our own self-confidence. But to take the positives and keep them worn on our sleeve daily (is like waking in the morning repeating the same affirmations of your attributes & life-long expectations). Everything that happens to us; good or bad, is only to provide us knowledge and prepare us for better things. No one ever said lifes journey was going to be easy. God, would never fail to prepare us for a remarkable outcome.
This man you associated with, will continue being a disgrace to women; until he gets a "taste" of his own toxic medicine. Don't sweat it; he's just another man trying to take what doesn't belong to him. Which is, your (pride, wisdom, self-esteem & beautiful strength). Be who you are; someone, will one day love you unconditionally & the admiration will be overwhelming ;)

Keep smiling, you only fall, when you've allowed the enemy to push you down! The best is yet to come.

~Teresa


Thanks!

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