i was looking around at valentine ecards to send to a few friends and i came across one in particular that was really funny and i thought that it would be something that my ex might appreciate for a laugh...but then i hesitated on the thought....

we only just broke up in recents days and it was a harsh break up but i thought seeing as its nothing lovey dovey or i miss u crap that it should be ok to send it...thinking it might even relieve some anxiety that theres no hard feelings that he might appreciate the joke...

any thoughts??

WHAT DOES THE CARD SAY?

I'm going to go get one for my ex tonight

IMHO it would not be a good idea. Too soon. Get the card, save it till next year, then see how things stand.

Well, it's been 2 months to the day since our divorce was finalized.

I sent my ex-wife a card. Nothing mushy... just a cartoon card with "Woodstock" (From Peanuts) on the front with a paintbrush, and on the inside, it looks like splattered paint with the words "Happy Valentines Day" painted on the wall in different colors.

Just wrote a simple "Thinking of you! -- Robby" on the inside and mailed it.

After 18 years of friendship (11.5 of those married), I felt I should send her something. She had the affair, she left... I just want her to know she still has a friend.

Lonely I think you did a very nice thing

Just need to let her go. She was no good for you and you are going to have a harder time let her go if you keep sending her stuff. Time to move on!!! You can do better then that!

Last year I sent my ex, Ex-Lax chocolate I melted into hearts, and put into a pretty box
Yeah that's right..I'm a prick