I have had very little success on most of these types of sites, and I am friendly but shy in person. I do not desire to meet women at a bar, just not my thing. Anything I can do to make myself more attractive to the opposite sex, lol, be kind here. I have sent a few women messages on this site, but really not had any responses. HELP!

YUM YUM

you don't need help.


just probably some confident boooster and you're set :)

welcome jump in the forums lots of great folks here and have fun

Hey cutie, too bad your just way toooooooooooooooooooo young for me. LOL. Well, here's my 2 cents worth. As far as meeting your TRUE LOVE on one of these sites, I just don't think it will happen. I'm not a beleiver in that. I've been on several sites in the past and have met lots of great ppl and some not so nice. I think these sites are just like what happens in real life. LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT. I'm not into the bar scene either. If all you find on this site or on others is some great friends, then it's all worth it, isn't it????????????????????? Can never have enough friends. Well, good luck to you.
MsBarb

well i think something that may scare a girl is that you have no answer on your marrital status. Some women may think taht something wierd is going on. just try and step outside of your comfort zone a little. If you find a girl that you think is attractive then make sure you guys have some things in common. Ask her questions like what she does in her free time etc really get to know things about her. ask her about her past like what high school she went to or has she always lived where she lives or does she want to stay there for a long time. mostly what i can say is really try and get to know who she is deep down

age is just a number!!!

In terms of your profile I would say add a bit more be more thorough, but overall it looks great. Good pics of the face, you even have friends so it seems like you are on your way. Of course jumping on the forums helps and spending time online helps also because when you are online you come up first in the searches which means more people get to see you!

well, i would go out with you, but Louisiana is a little too far........join the crowd, i haven't had any luck either.

Hello Rob!

I don't usually try to go on these threads but occassionally I peak in just before bedtime. lol

I have a interesting profile going on and if you like jokes, quotes, and other interesting things then just add yourself to my friends list. Alot of the woman on my friends list are checking out the latest events on my profile. That way you can find someone and have a good conversation each day talking about the latest joke, quote, event with someone you may like.

I hope this helps somewhat?

Thanks for the help so far guys. Well for those who say I dont need help, I need something, lol. I will fix my marrital info for sure, thanks for that pointer. I have confidence, but I am kinda old school, and do not wish to be seen as a cad, and pushy. I do care about others feelings, and I don't ever want to be "that guy". As far as meeting the true love of my life, well that is difficult for all of us. I would love to just have somebody to pal around with, even if it was just as friends. Friendship has to come first anyway, or you are just begging for a hurtful failure. Thanks again everyone

your welcome. I feel ya. I wish i had a friend too Good luck

Took some emailed advice, added some pics, and changed my marital status, lol. Thanks again for the pointers folks!

someone else already mentioned the martial status you look kind of mad in some of your pics smile saw a partial show more of that I don't like pics either but if you're gonna show make them semi good at least I'd talk to you
cheers

lol, thanks. It only showed as a partial until I clicked it to the main picture. I added another with a smile. I hate posting pics that I took of myself, it is depressing

handsome, nice profile....go get em tiger!

YOUR VERY HANDSOME

Only advice I have is move to Illinois you wont be single for more than an hour before someone grabs you up.