I got those messages BEFORE I changed the pic. Now I just get stuff like "hey sexy"

Who are you talking to Sumthing???

of course not, apparently only low lives would care for some stress free sex.



yeah, i'm with ya there. some people's kids...

Sorry Catchy...the above one was for Suz..not you.

Not to put words in someone's mouth...but it's what i do best so here goes:

The post was directed towards anyone who posts suggestive profile pics and/or posts and then later complains about receiving explicit emails.

Or so I think.

i'm looking 4 sumthing diffrent

Of course, because no you are known to the general posting community and have been here a while. But your picture says a LOT about what kind of attention you are looking for...it comes with the territory. You puts on certain bait to catch certain fish.

Suz is a good girl too!
Just because she has a lip pic up doesn't make her here for guys to treat her cheap!

You are partly correct, that was really towards Suz in this specific case.

Her main pic alone would constitute her getting a LOT of sexually explicit e-mails...it just comes with the territory.

My personal opinion is that it doesn't justify rude comments, but it is obviously the source of them, so whether or not it should be her burden to change her picture to stop the lewd messages, it unfortunately is.

yeah sorry, shouldn't have interjected into your line of reasoning rather than starting my own.

Oh don;t get me wrong..I am NOT saying Suz is a bad girl AT ALL!!!

Just making a simple statement. You put a "lip pic" up like that..then guess what MOST guys are going to THINK??? Hmmmm, I think its easier to figure out what is 2+2????

Again...the things you "draw in" depend on what you put out for them to see.

Again..not saying at all Suz is a bad girl/person, so lets PLEASE keep that clear.

I am just pointing out what is very obvious to at least most of the guy population.

I use to use this but then I want my butt tattooed

I had one up with tits & I only had 2 views.

maybe cuz I leave my page on alot I don't get many views or hardly any IMs & I'm quite happy that way!

I don't recall complaining about the attention. I merely pointed out that since I changed my pic, I have gotten LESS explicit mail. I don't mind the attention at all, those that are too old for me, I just turn down/block.

A provacative picture will get a provacative response. Just as a profile will. If that is not the kind of attention you want then I would suggest changing the pic.

Suz - That's what I was interpreting as complaining/frustration. Might have been a bad assumption on my part, but it seemed like you weren't happy about it (who would be?). Like sumthing said, it's not an argument against you, just saying that guys on this site respond very predictably to those types of photos.

When I would get the weird notes is when I posted in sex alot..

I used to just hang out in there when it was fun & the posts were pretty normal.

I posted in one about cyber & phone sex.
I didn't say I LIKED IT! or anything like that & I got 5 emails from different guys & each one twisted my words.

Well I apologize if anyone interpreted it as frustration. I think it is funny that people more than twice my age think they have a chance with me. I understand that certain pics will get certain responses and I am ok with that. I just move on. But as I have said, strangely I have gotten FAR LESS pervocative messages with the lip pics.

No need to apologize, it was me who misinterpreted. And that's really interesting that the provocative messages have gone down. Maybe all the pervs already tried once and gave up! Lol.