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Whats the "woman's perspective " on this.
If you like someone, do you say so? If you dislike someone, do you tell him/her that in any way, polite or not? Or just ignore that person ? |
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Edited by
emilie013
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Sun 02/10/08 06:42 PM
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Since I'm pretty aggressive, I like to tell people how it is- either way.
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I like YOU
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Edited by
thatonegirl05
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Sun 02/10/08 06:43 PM
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I think you should tell someone if you like them, if the moment is right.. Theres nothing worse than getting that bomb dropped at a bad time. I think that if you do like them though, obviously you should go for it, instead of wondering what could have been.
Don't like them in the manner of you could never see yourself with them? or you just simply don't like them? |
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by dislike, I guess I meant not interested in them I guess.
Without actually getting to know anyone, I dont think you can like or dislike someone, right? |
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well if i like someone, i definitely let them know, whether it's through my actions or actually coming right out and telling them. not all that good at holding my feelings back when it comes to things like that. i was wondering the same thing thatonegirl, maybe the OP will clarify?
Becca |
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by dislike, I guess I meant not interested in them I guess. Without actually getting to know anyone, I dont think you can like or dislike someone, right? Aside from physically, no. |
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by dislike, I guess I meant not interested in them I guess. Without actually getting to know anyone, I dont think you can like or dislike someone, right? Aside from physically, no. |
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I usually let them know, but then I'm usually turned down. So, meh…I'll still let them know.
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I don't think without getting to know someone first, you can determine whether you like them or not - some people who put out a hard front, have a soft side that you won't see unless you give them the time of day.
But if you don't like someone, romantically but they like you, then you do have to be upfront and honest, and tell them that you don't, otherwise that could lead to someone getting hurt. |
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by dislike, I guess I meant not interested in them I guess. Without actually getting to know anyone, I dont think you can like or dislike someone, right? Aside from physically, no. Isn't it better that way? ;-) |
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by dislike, I guess I meant not interested in them I guess. Without actually getting to know anyone, I dont think you can like or dislike someone, right? Aside from physically, no. Isn't it better that way? ;-) |
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I'm very open, blunt and in your face if I don't like you will know about it, If I like you you will know either way your gonna know...
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by dislike, I guess I meant not interested in them I guess. Without actually getting to know anyone, I dont think you can like or dislike someone, right? Aside from physically, no. Isn't it better that way? ;-) Ahh, but inside the cage is playtime too. |
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I don't think without getting to know someone first, you can determine whether you like them or not - some people who put out a hard front, have a soft side that you won't see unless you give them the time of day. But if you don't like someone, romantically but they like you, then you do have to be upfront and honest, and tell them that you don't, otherwise that could lead to someone getting hurt. I think someone's going to get hurt either way if there's any "dislike", but the hurt is much lesser if no one gets led on. |
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just like with guys.. we are not all alike. If someone is interested in me and I do not return the feelings I try to let him know as gently as possible... I have not been so lucky in the same situation, a few have told me that they want to see me again but never call and ignore my messages, so I take ignoring me as a brush off in a rude way. I think the reason is that they are trying to be nice, but face it...everyone is not going to want me and I can accept that.
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by dislike, I guess I meant not interested in them I guess. Without actually getting to know anyone, I dont think you can like or dislike someone, right? Aside from physically, no. Isn't it better that way? ;-) |
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