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Topic: need a little help!!
Zewi Joined Tue 02/05/08 Posts: 1331	Sat 02/09/08 10:42 AM
I'm a little shy, when it comes to approaching women, But I do get dates from women approaching me. What do women want to here when I guy approaches them? I just don’t know what to say—I want to be different, I don’t want to say what all man say... So all the women out here, how would a guy get your attention?

KalamazooGuy87 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 2728	Sat 02/09/08 10:43 AM
Women want compliments and Attention, and a occassional pair of shoes

Zewi Joined Tue 02/05/08 Posts: 1331	Sat 02/09/08 10:43 AM
Women want compliments and Attention, and a occassional pair of shoes lol!!!!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 02/09/08 10:44 AM
Women want compliments and Attention, and a occassional pair of shoes

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Sat 02/09/08 10:45 AM
be you!!! never change who you are or put on false heirs to impress anyone. speak from the heart

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sat 02/09/08 10:49 AM
just be honest say hello i'd like to get to know you are u free to go on a date

curios789 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 3156	Sat 02/09/08 10:51 AM
Don't say FYI in front of every sentence. Just ask thatonegirl

curios789 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 3156	Sat 02/09/08 10:51 AM Edited by curios789 on Sat 02/09/08 10:52 AM
Fast finger. Double Post.

Nervesgone Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 4014	Sat 02/09/08 10:56 AM
be you!!! never change who you are or put on false heirs to impress anyone. speak from the heart For instance: A woman walks up and says hi, you say hi back. Unless she carries a conversation, what does one say? What would interest you? You want a drink??

sasfire75 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 3242	Sat 02/09/08 10:57 AM Edited by sasfire75 on Sat 02/09/08 10:59 AM
I'm a little shy, when it comes to approaching women, But I do get dates from women approaching me. What do women want to here when I guy approaches them? I just don’t know what to say—I want to be different, I don’t want to say what all man say... So all the women out here, how would a guy get your attention? Be yourself and be honest with everything you say or promise....pay us with compliments to let us know that you appreciate us with respect...Don't try to be someone your not...go with the flow...go with what ever your heart or gut tells you to say....I know that is hard because I am shy myself but sometimes I can over rule the shyness and go after what I want....I am long winded sometimes so I will leave you with this...What does your heart or gut tell you to say to a woman that you want to ask out?

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Sat 02/09/08 11:00 AM
make her laugh ... gets me every time

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Sat 02/09/08 11:04 AM
Just be yourself

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sat 02/09/08 11:08 AM
make her laugh ... gets me every time Show her a good time. Make her laugh! Have fun! Aren't we all looking for fun? Nobody wants to hang out with someone dull and "appropriate" Do you?

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Sat 02/09/08 11:12 AM
amen...make her laugh laughter is the best medicine for anything...even dating lol

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 02/09/08 11:14 AM
Hey!! I heard there were SHOES!!! here!!!

sasfire75 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 3242	Sat 02/09/08 11:22 AM
Hey!! I heard there were SHOES!!! here!!! LOL Ok Zewi not all women want shoes LOL But a rose when you pic her up would be nice too!

TheRedHead Joined Sun 01/27/08 Posts: 17	Sat 02/09/08 04:27 PM
I'm a little shy, when it comes to approaching women, But I do get dates from women approaching me. What do women want to here when I guy approaches them? I just don’t know what to say—I want to be different, I don’t want to say what all man say... So all the women out here, how would a guy get your attention? If you're approaching me for the first time, the best way to break the ice is to make me feel comfortable. The best way to do that is to make me laugh.

blades26 Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 107	Sat 02/09/08 05:03 PM
The best way to do that is to make me laugh. lol all the girls are funny. not every guy is that charismatic..if that were the case we werent be here just be yourself and if things go well so be it...if they dont...at least u tried and thats more than anyone could say

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Sat 02/09/08 05:12 PM
1. I have found that if you can find out anything about that person, what they like to eat or do or anything you can notice about that person....use that as a starting point to create conversation.... 2. then ask her open ended questions....that will get her talking about herself.... 3. then, give lots of eye contact so she knows you're really interested 4. show that you are a good listener by responding to some of the things she tells you. 5. and if you are feeling brave try a little flirting....if you can get her to laugh, even at something dumb your on your way... 6. reach out & touch her arm at some point, it creates physical contact & her reaction will tell you if she is interested... *hope this helps

nauibeth Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 334	Sat 02/09/08 06:48 PM
u had me at hello !!!!