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NO Mirror, I did it this time!!  Hey Nerves  good to see you
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like...the nudist who was looking for a single woman that was raising daughters, not sons...so that he could "have a second chance at raising daughters through that troubled time of adolescence when all the sexual tensions develop"?  THAT WAS MY PROFILE!!!!!!!!! |
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like...the nudist who was looking for a single woman that was raising daughters, not sons...so that he could "have a second chance at raising daughters through that troubled time of adolescence when all the sexual tensions develop"? THAT WAS MY PROFILE!!!!!!!!! i have no doubt that it WILL be, anyway...lol... |
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i dont get lost often but i need a gps about now <---brunette ;) |
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I really think it wasent you Mirror.IT WAS ME
YOU TO NICE A PERSON FOR IT TO HAVE BEEN YOU
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Edited by
ellgee1976
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Thu 02/07/08 08:00 PM
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OP...red flags will be different depending on what qualities they themselves are of concern. They will be based upon the specifics of what the others profile indicates...and what works for one will be a flag to another. i think i mentioned this already lol I would consider that a red flag...maybe you're really not very serious???? maybe ya missed the headline? "notta mission...but lookin" or maybe the last sentence? "Im not in any big hurry, so startin out as friends is what im here for. if something comes from a friendship, then wonderful, if not, oh well." so yeah..im not making it my life mission, cuz im not in a rush lol perhaps you're "dream guy" is just that...unrealistic....you want unconditional...but outline conditions...and I might think that a red flag as well. yes, i want unconditional acceptance of any mistake i may have made in my life, i don't know of anyone that would want that terrible mistake they made 20 yrs ago thrown back at them at any time.. perhaps you should ask ME what i mean in my profile, instead of drawing negative attention towards my profile eh? Your profile mentions your preference to someone close to your own age...again a red flag for me...seems it really is a "condition" and not the unconditional which you imply you seek...there are likely men younger and/or older who could be that "dream guy". first of all, the reference to 'dream guy' was just that, a reference to a DREAM guy. there IS no 'mr. perfect' and im well aware of that. why waste my time lookin for the nonexistant? second, someone close to my age, cuz my X hubs was 13 yrs older, and obviously he's an X for a reason, right? i don't want to go that route again and be treated as tho im some 'child'. i have no doubt there's someone out there for me, that IS close to my age..im a pretty likealbe person inside and out, thanks. So the point is we all view things as they relate to our individual interests, likes and dislikes... again, already pointed this out..but thanks again so don't worry...just have fun...be open, honest and sincere... no one is worried but you apparently lol if you knew anything about me, you'd know im not worried, i AM open, honest and sincere..lol and perhaps you will meet that guy.. doubt that..again, mr perfect doesn't exist..lol red flags which really are about "issuses" which are unacceptable...are just that and stand out by themselves LOL. Classic classic, i think we've covered this enough, 'red-flags' arern't issues, but perspective..and nothing but again, if you have any questions about a profile, why not ask the person that posted that profile, instead of drawing negative attention to them on a thread |
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Young lady ,,,no matter what eany one says to or thinks just smile and remember you dont need to defend your self like you just did,your better than that,and thats my opinion from what I have read that you have posted
 so smile young lady,
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Edited by
ellgee1976
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Thu 02/07/08 08:06 PM
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Young lady ,,,no matter what eany one says to or thinks just smile and remember you dont need to defend your self like you just did,your better than that,and thats my opinion from what I have read that you have posted so smile young lady, thank you hunter..i AM smiling now :D |
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Ellgee -- I have a few, sort of....
"I don't know what to write here" -- lack of creativity or any ability to express actual thoughts in standard English. The profile where the whole text is "Anything you want to know, you have to ask" -- believe me, there isn't anything I want to or need to know that badly. If there's nothing worth reading in the profile to begin with, I have no motivation to pursue anything further. "I'm laid-back and easy-going" -- means "I'll just copy language from 9400 other profiles since I'm too lazy to make up my own sentence." Does anybody ever say "I'm easily agitated and perpetually hyper"? The multi-person picture with no explanation of which one the profile belongs to. Is this "Deal Or No Deal"? "No game players" generally means "I'm too stupid to realize that nobody with an ounce of sense is ever going to ADMIT to being a game player." And so on....I have at least 914 more red flags....but they are all very DULL red flags, if you know what I mean....! |
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Ellgee I don't see any red flags with your profile
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lex..i have a full understanding of what ya mean lol
thanks JustLooking3, i apreciate that ;) |
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OP...red flags will be different depending on what qualities they themselves are of concern. They will be based upon the specifics of what the others profile indicates...and what works for one will be a flag to another. example...your profile begins with "im not really searching, but this is a "dating site" so..here's what my dream guy is" I would consider that a red flag...maybe you're really not very serious???? You also mention "i don't want to be 70 yrs old and not have anything to talk about with my guy..so we both need other interests, not just common interests. i want to find the unconditional, 100% acceptance, and no judgements no matter what ...also, family, i can't stress how important that is, trust, communication, and respect .. i won't settle for anything less"...so you demand all this and won't settle for less...perhaps you're "dream guy" is just that...unrealistic....you want unconditional...but outline conditions...and I might think that a red flag as well. Your profile mentions your preference to someone close to your own age...again a red flag for me...seems it really is a "condition" and not the unconditional which you imply you seek...there are likely men younger and/or older who could be that "dream guy". So the point is we all view things as they relate to our individual interests, likes and dislikes...so don't worry...just have fun...be open, honest and sincere...and perhaps you will meet that guy..red flags which really are about "issuses" which are unacceptable...are just that and stand out by themselves LOL. Classic If it's a red flag for you, don't effin' talk to her, then! |
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YEAH! what HE said! lmao
thanks Jace ;) |
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Grrrr!
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 IT WAS ME we dont need to read your profile to see those flags burning
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OP...red flags will be different depending on what qualities they themselves are of concern. They will be based upon the specifics of what the others profile indicates...and what works for one will be a flag to another. Your profile mentions your preference to someone close to your own age...again a red flag for me...seems it really is a "condition" and not the unconditional which you imply you seek...there are likely men younger and/or older who could be that "dream guy". So the point is we all view things as they relate to our individual interests, likes and dislikes...so don't worry...just have fun...be open, honest and sincere...and perhaps you will meet that guy..red flags which really are about "issuses" which are unacceptable...are just that and stand out by themselves LOL. Classic That is a red flag in the other direction. If I get emails and go to see who the person is and find out it is someone my parents age, it is a huge red flag. That the heck it a man doing trolling for a woman that could be his daughter? Creeps me out. |
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anyone read a profile that just had red flags all over it for 'em? keep in mind, red flags for me, may not be red flags for you.. which is why im asking just about every other profile I have read over 
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Edited by
Engraven_Image
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Thu 02/07/08 10:33 PM
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 The profiles didn't have red flags with a giant blue X filled with white stars in the center did they???
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well I have come to realize young-old it makes no difference,If they are breathing they are looking..It dont bother me any more
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Ellgee -- I have a few, sort of.... "I don't know what to write here" -- lack of creativity or any ability to express actual thoughts in standard English. The profile where the whole text is "Anything you want to know, you have to ask" -- believe me, there isn't anything I want to or need to know that badly. If there's nothing worth reading in the profile to begin with, I have no motivation to pursue anything further. "I'm laid-back and easy-going" -- means "I'll just copy language from 9400 other profiles since I'm too lazy to make up my own sentence." Does anybody ever say "I'm easily agitated and perpetually hyper"? The multi-person picture with no explanation of which one the profile belongs to. Is this "Deal Or No Deal"? "No game players" generally means "I'm too stupid to realize that nobody with an ounce of sense is ever going to ADMIT to being a game player." And so on....I have at least 914 more red flags....but they are all very DULL red flags, if you know what I mean....! |
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