Topic: Any advice
wyatt1844's photo
Wed 02/06/08 05:51 PM
Forget about her!! What she's like, how she acts, what she looks like. THE ISSUE IS HIM!! And if you like getting played, just go on doing what you are doing.

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Wed 02/06/08 05:53 PM

Forget about her!! What she's like, how she acts, what she looks like. THE ISSUE IS HIM!! And if you like getting played, just go on doing what you are doing.


Yep, what he said.
'nuff said.

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Wed 02/06/08 05:55 PM
Edited by Unknow on Wed 02/06/08 05:55 PM


Forget about her!! What she's like, how she acts, what she looks like. THE ISSUE IS HIM!! And if you like getting played, just go on doing what you are doing.


Yep, what he said.
'nuff said.


Seems like she's going to keep at this until she gets the advice she WANTS to hear. Everyone who has posted in here has said essentially the same thing Do you get the message?

BizarreKelley's photo
Wed 02/06/08 05:56 PM
Bottom line: You can't see what's really going on because you're crazy about him. He must have some good qualities or you wouldn't be so crazy about him but he's got some major issues that he needs to work on. And they aren't issues that you can help him with. You need to have more love for yourself than you do for him, and do what's best for you, which in this case is NOT him.

Sassier2u's photo
Wed 02/06/08 05:57 PM

He admitted to it, it may not be his, she is kinda trampy.

Not the point while seeing you he slept with her not cool

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 02/06/08 06:00 PM
this is why I get frustrated.. people ask for advice but don't want the truth.. I have a special forum just for this type of stuff...

hellkitten54's photo
Wed 02/06/08 06:03 PM

this is why I get frustrated.. people ask for advice but don't want the truth.. I have a special forum just for this type of stuff...


Yep, drives me crazy. Make excuses about the person doing wrong to them.

nugglebugz's photo
Wed 02/06/08 06:04 PM
I got it I got it, I'm done with his ass. I told him I need a break, guess now I won't come back. Thanks for the advice yall I do apprecaite it

wyatt1844's photo
Wed 02/06/08 06:05 PM
Change the topic from 'Any Advice" to "please help me justify my actions, no matter how wrong they might be..."

hellkitten54's photo
Wed 02/06/08 06:06 PM

I got it I got it, I'm done with his ass. I told him I need a break, guess now I won't come back. Thanks for the advice yall I do apprecaite it



You really do deserve better. Just know that there are plenty of men that WILL treat you the way you should and you shouldn't settle for anything less.flowerforyou

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Wed 02/06/08 06:08 PM


Alright so I recently have been dating this guy, he is a nice guy, good head on his shoulders, a polite gentleman. But....
(there's always a but) His Ex is nuttier than a snickers bar, for real. She made up a baby, then a miscarrage, then she made up a boyfriend and that he died, like where does she get this stuff from.

We took a break for 3 days in October, his ex made some excuse to come see him (she lives like 1 and hour and a half away but) they had sex and now she is preg again....

I do like him, and he is a good friend. I don't want to just be like peace out pal, but this drama is a little excessive.

Any thoughts?

:angry: GREAT. :angry: I DIDNT KNOW YOU FELT THAT WAY ABOUT MEgrumble
mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad

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Wed 02/06/08 06:17 PM





nice guy or not, your asking for trouble brokenheart


If he's seeing you and sleeping with his ex, that eliminates his a$$ out of the nice guy - gentleman club.


You do have a point drinker


Duh good point ~ he never made it to that club.

Wonder what he's told her about you?

Is everything always someone's fault in his world??


He tells me that she is crazy and she calls him like 39 times a day no lie 39 shes a nut job! and this is the first time he has ever done anything like this before, so another chance out of the question he really is sorry,





you obviously are going to look for excuses to keep him around, so all of this is advice is a waste of time. i'm not trying to be a b*tch, but seriously, you arent going to listen to anyone if you want to stay with him.

Sharon31216's photo
Wed 02/06/08 06:18 PM

I got it I got it, I'm done with his ass. I told him I need a break, guess now I won't come back. Thanks for the advice yall I do apprecaite it



i agree, you don't deserve to be with someone who will just screw you over plus he might be having a baby with this girl, you really don't need that in your life

wyatt1844's photo
Wed 02/06/08 06:20 PM

I got it I got it, I'm done with his ass. I told him I need a break, guess now I won't come back. Thanks for the advice yall I do apprecaite it


Didn't mean to be hard on you. I just hate to see good people throw their life away on trash.

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Wed 02/06/08 07:17 PM



And this girl no offence to people with piercings and such is trash it looks like she fell in a tacklebox for real, a few piercing maybe cute, if i saw her i would bring a magnet



Darling, it doesn't matter what she looks like. What matters is you getting rid of this jerk. He obviously is sleeping with his ex without protection. Kick him to the curb.drinker


He said that they used a condom but they always say that huh?

A couple went to a doctor for contraception advice, so the doctor recommended condoms and taught the husband how to use a condom my opening the condom and putting it on his index finger.
Few months later the couple arrives back at the doctor, the husband said despite following the doctors advice, her wife is still pregnant.
The doctor said it is not possible and asked the husband how exactly did he use the condom. The husband said he put the condom on his index finger and had sex with his wife.



Maybe that is how she got pregnant.

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Wed 02/06/08 07:24 PM
noway :wink: Sounds like a great imagination on HER part, a BRAGFUL bost on HIS part. And a put-up-with-it, USED and USE on YOUR part.
So sanity awaits YOU on the OTHER side of HIS door..The OUTSIDE!

Good luck with finding what YOU seek..drinker :heart: :smile:

nugglebugz's photo
Wed 02/06/08 08:00 PM
I told him today that we are done and i wish him the best in his future, so its going to be a long night

BizarreKelley's photo
Wed 02/06/08 08:03 PM
good girl. it's hard, but you did the right thing.

unsure's photo
Wed 02/06/08 08:05 PM

He admitted to it, it may not be his, she is kinda trampy.


It sounds like he is kinda trampy too!! Why would he sleep with her if she was such a tramp? I think you need to stop and think about that one!!
I think if you allow him to sleep around, he will continue to do it. Why even mess with a loser like this? You deserve a man that will treat you like you deserve to be treated!! Dump him and don't even talk to him!!

nugglebugz's photo
Wed 02/06/08 08:22 PM
Its been a long day, I told him that I don't need all this stress in my life. On the way home from telling him this that Gotta be song came on gotta be stronger so thanks yall for your help, and coping tatics?