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Topic: Lets just do it
s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Tue 02/05/08 06:57 PM
it involves burning in effigy, stalking, and amateur reenactment of the song "next time he cheats"

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Tue 02/05/08 06:58 PM
it goes against the nature of women What a 1940's, or 50's woman?

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Tue 02/05/08 06:58 PM
It might seem like a good idea in the moment....u can be friends and have ur needs taken care of with out the commitment of a realtionship...but its not worth it in the long run..some one gets hurt and friendships are lost...Dont learn it the hard way like i did...take the advice thats being given...just dont do it

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Tue 02/05/08 06:58 PM
What Could go wrong with a Friends with Benefits relationship? nothing from my pov

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 02/05/08 06:58 PM
hahaha what couldn't go wrong you mean? If they both agree, it should be ok, right? It really is not worth it. There is no way that the passion can be the only thing you have in common? to many people, to many times mistake lust for love... one person is in lust, the other in love, and everything goes to crap

Kinglink Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 5	Tue 02/05/08 06:59 PM
hahaha what couldn't go wrong you mean? If they both agree, it should be ok, right? It really is not worth it. There is no way that the passion can be the only thing you have in common? Passion is great, but if you think passion will last that long or not evolve into something more your kidding yourself. And if you think it'll change for both of you at the same time in the same way, that's crazy. It's generally a bad thing overall.

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Tue 02/05/08 06:59 PM
ITA with Jill.

Rose41 Joined Sun 11/18/07 Posts: 940	Tue 02/05/08 07:02 PM
hmmmm

Just_Say_When Joined Mon 09/17/07 Posts: 388	Tue 02/05/08 07:05 PM
What the heck? It's all about the ride... if you're looking for love, you shouldn't have a FWB relationship. You're just asking to get hurt...

JustLooking3 Joined Tue 02/05/08 Posts: 515	Tue 02/05/08 07:08 PM
Seldom does it ever work out and usually lose a friend.

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Tue 02/05/08 07:10 PM
doesnt he watch Seinfeld? they want this that and the other

idratherbbowling Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 99	Tue 02/05/08 07:11 PM
basically you are playing with fire on this one

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Tue 02/05/08 07:13 PM
basically you are playing with fire on this one But doesnt it seem like the sex is so much hotter when it feels a little wrong

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Tue 02/05/08 07:13 PM
it goes against the nature of women not true

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 02/05/08 07:14 PM
basically you are playing with fire on this one But doesnt it seem like the sex is so much hotter when it feels a little wrong I think the sex is hotter when you actually like the other person

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Tue 02/05/08 07:16 PM
after reading this...i see you want someone to tell you to go for it..you're not askin for advice at all i say don't do it..you'll either get hurt, or you'll hurt her..

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Tue 02/05/08 07:16 PM
ur just asking to be hurt or to hurt some one...sex is better when u actually care about the other person....

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Tue 02/05/08 07:19 PM
after reading this...i see you want someone to tell you to go for it..you're not askin for advice at all i say don't do it..you'll either get hurt, or you'll hurt her.. Its really not personal, im just putting it out there. You hear about this type of thing a lot. Because of peoples busy schedules, some say it works for them

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Tue 02/05/08 07:20 PM
after reading this...i see you want someone to tell you to go for it..you're not askin for advice at all i say don't do it..you'll either get hurt, or you'll hurt her.. Its really not personal, im just putting it out there. You hear about this type of thing a lot. Because of peoples busy schedules, some say it works for them yeah the emotionally challanged! or the ones that are scared of comimtments...

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Tue 02/05/08 07:22 PM
after reading this...i see you want someone to tell you to go for it..you're not askin for advice at all i say don't do it..you'll either get hurt, or you'll hurt her.. Its really not personal, im just putting it out there. You hear about this type of thing a lot. Because of peoples busy schedules, some say it works for them yeah the emotionally challanged! or the ones that are scared of comimtments... Cant some people separate love, and sex?