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Topic: Mutual match
shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Tue 02/05/08 03:37 PM
What the heck is up with mutual match , they show me a pic and I have to decide yes no maybe ?? I know very little about them how do I know if I am interested or not .. They may be nice looking idiots or get have great personalitis but who can tell .. Someone help or I will keep marking maybe.... and what happens when I mark maybe or yes what is my obligation?? Just cause I talk to ya doesn't mean I want to marry ya and what is with Ims from folks I don't know .. um HHHHHEEEEELLLLLLPPPPPPPP

trying_to_fly Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 6258	Tue 02/05/08 03:39 PM
Hey shoes, don't know what to tell ya, happens to me too......I TOTALLY understand your point. We know nothing at all and it's hard to decide..... I agree with you 100%

curios789 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 3156	Tue 02/05/08 03:40 PM
Mutual match is total trash. I don't know whether I'm interested in someone till I talk to them.

Kenny2004 Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 100	Tue 02/05/08 03:41 PM
Your right and if you dont ask questions you won't know huh.

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Tue 02/05/08 03:41 PM
Nothing much to do about that. I find it a waste of time.

ccindyct Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 703	Tue 02/05/08 03:41 PM
I think the mutual match thing is a good thing. If you say maybe and he says yes or maybe then at least you know it's worth sending an email or IM out there. I don't mind when "strangers" IM me, there's no obligation if you IM back!! Don't say yes or no based on the pic alone, look at the profile and decide if it's someone you want to know better.

Cowboyace Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 1	Tue 02/05/08 03:41 PM
Best post ever and the photo matches the context too, nice

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Tue 02/05/08 03:41 PM
Hey shoes, don't know what to tell ya, happens to me too......I TOTALLY understand your point. We know nothing at all and it's hard to decide..... I agree with you 100% yeah like if they showed me a pic of some folks that I talk to in the forum I would be like spot on yeah I want to meet them so some guy says he wants to meet me cause I am blonde or wear a grey shirt ?? I was hoping to come out here and meet someone that might want to actually take the time to get to know me..

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 02/05/08 03:43 PM
I don't even bother with it anymore!

JillianPace Joined Mon 01/07/08 Posts: 57	Tue 02/05/08 03:43 PM
Aloha Shoes, and I feel ya girl. Seems that Maybe means Yes in this place.

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Tue 02/05/08 03:43 PM
Mutual match is total trash. I don't know whether I'm interested in someone till I talk to them. right but I feel pressure by having to hit yes or no so I hit maybe unless they creep me out in a hanibal lector sort of way

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Tue 02/05/08 03:44 PM
Your right and if you dont ask questions you won't know huh. exactly and thank you for the flowers ...

curios789 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 3156	Tue 02/05/08 03:44 PM
Mutual match is total trash. I don't know whether I'm interested in someone till I talk to them. right but I feel pressure by having to hit yes or no so I hit maybe unless they creep me out in a hanibal lector sort of way P.S.: OMG GREY SHIRT!!! YESSSS!!!

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Tue 02/05/08 03:45 PM
Nothing much to do about that. I find it a waste of time. So you don't go thru it I feel pressured when I get an email that says 27 people want to meet you

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Tue 02/05/08 03:47 PM
I think the mutual match thing is a good thing. If you say maybe and he says yes or maybe then at least you know it's worth sending an email or IM out there. I don't mind when "strangers" IM me, there's no obligation if you IM back!! Don't say yes or no based on the pic alone, look at the profile and decide if it's someone you want to know better. okay but how do I know I mean if I come out here I know better if someone is worth sending an email too ..

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Tue 02/05/08 03:47 PM
i think its a what do you think about this person. would you be interested in starting something up and see if you might be a match kind of thing. all i know is that it doesn't really go very far. or i'm just not saying the right things, because it doesn't last very long. is this a dating sight or a friendship sight?

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Tue 02/05/08 03:48 PM
Best post ever and the photo matches the context too, nice love the horns need some ice water ?

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Tue 02/05/08 03:49 PM
I don't even bother with it anymore! what happens if I ignore it ?

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Tue 02/05/08 03:50 PM
Aloha Shoes, and I feel ya girl. Seems that Maybe means Yes in this place. lol lots of things mean yes in this place

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Tue 02/05/08 03:51 PM
i think its a what do you think about this person. would you be interested in starting something up and see if you might be a match kind of thing. all i know is that it doesn't really go very far. or i'm just not saying the right things, because it doesn't last very long. is this a dating sight or a friendship sight? I feel has a woman that it is asking would you have sex with this person but in a nicer way lol