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Topic: I've never been more confused in my life...
Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 02/05/08 03:33 PM
I guess I'll forgive you thanks your such and accomodating victim... best I've ever had.

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Tue 02/05/08 03:36 PM
I think you're missing the larger picture here we are all saying in so many different ways. When you meet a person you connect with, there is no second guessing or worrying about all this minutia, as there are no "games". If you have questions, you lay them out with the other person and resolve it. Lady ~~ I have read some of your comments here and there around here and you are one smart cookie ~~ so is your friend!! You seem way beyond your years, glad to see some people with their heads on straight!!

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Tue 02/05/08 03:40 PM
I guess I'll forgive you thanks your such and accomodating victim... best I've ever had. ummm - victim??? now I am a little scared

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 02/05/08 03:44 PM
I think you're missing the larger picture here we are all saying in so many different ways. When you meet a person you connect with, there is no second guessing or worrying about all this minutia, as there are no "games". If you have questions, you lay them out with the other person and resolve it. Lady ~~ I have read some of your comments here and there around here and you are one smart cookie ~~ so is your friend!! You seem way beyond your years, glad to see some people with their heads on straight!! You mean my friend the beautiful and sexy blonde bomshell Lily or the devastatingly handsome man that is Jistme? They are both my friends, and one is way more than a friend. I sincerely thank you for you post and appreciate that very much.

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Tue 02/05/08 03:48 PM
I think you're missing the larger picture here we are all saying in so many different ways. When you meet a person you connect with, there is no second guessing or worrying about all this minutia, as there are no "games". If you have questions, you lay them out with the other person and resolve it. Lady ~~ I have read some of your comments here and there around here and you are one smart cookie ~~ so is your friend!! You seem way beyond your years, glad to see some people with their heads on straight!! You mean my friend the beautiful and sexy blonde bomshell Lily or the devastatingly handsome man that is Jistme? They are both my friends, and one is way more than a friend. I sincerely thank you for you post and appreciate that very much. Well I don't of Lily....so I guess the devastatingly handsome man Jistme....(does he have a brother?? his comments on here have impressed me too!) You two are so cute together! And we're neighbors...

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 02/05/08 03:57 PM
Lookin... howdy neighbor. I will admit I think I fell for him (Jist) in his posts, and IRL is waaay better! He does have a brother, but he is not at all like Jist and I secretly (well, okay no longer so secretly) hope I don't meet him anytime in the near future.

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Tue 02/05/08 04:02 PM
Lookin... howdy neighbor. I will admit I think I fell for him (Jist) in his posts, and IRL is waaay better! He does have a brother, but he is not at all like Jist and I secretly (well, okay no longer so secretly) hope I don't meet him anytime in the near future. IRL is sssooooo much better, huh? Good for you!! K, I'll pass on the brother ~ your valued opinion is good enough for me!!

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 02/05/08 04:03 PM
I guess I'll forgive you thanks your such and accomodating victim... best I've ever had. ummm - victim??? now I am a little scared relax, just the victim of my stalking.... whad ya think i meant?

LLH5 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 553	Tue 02/05/08 04:04 PM
She's 18, she has no clue. She sounds a bit crazy. Why waste your time on her..

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 02/05/08 04:05 PM
Not to speak ill of a stranger, (and btw the brother in question is in Oregon, just like Jist... )but I'm sure, after reading your profile, you don't want to be a notch on the bedpost, or anything other than a loved, valued partner in any relationship. Sorry Jist!

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 02/05/08 04:06 PM
You mean my friend the beautiful and sexy blonde bomshell Lily or the devastatingly handsome man that is Jistme? They are both my friends, and one is way more than a friend. awe, shucks.......

Jistme Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 2991	Tue 02/05/08 04:08 PM
They are both my friends, and one is way more than a friend. Dammit Lily! I told you to stay away from her! Geeze.. First the hillbilly, now you... Today is so not my day. I'm gonna go eat a can of worms. Or go harass someone that owes me some money. See you guys in a bit!

JD341988 Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 68	Tue 02/05/08 04:16 PM
my thread got hijacked... lol

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 02/05/08 04:22 PM
my thread got hijacked... lol We all tried to no avail, JD, you left us with no other choice but to go talk amongst ourselves.....

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 02/05/08 04:24 PM
They are both my friends, and one is way more than a friend. Dammit Lily! I told you to stay away from her! Geeze.. First the hillbilly, now you... Today is so not my day. I'm gonna go eat a can of worms. Or go harass someone that owes me some money. See you guys in a bit! No one is sage from me..man woman or child...well child is but I had to say it to complete the phrase.

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Tue 02/05/08 04:27 PM Edited by LookinRound on Tue 02/05/08 04:27 PM
Not to speak ill of a stranger, (and btw the brother in question is in Oregon, just like Jist... )but I'm sure, after reading your profile, you don't want to be a notch on the bedpost, or anything other than a loved, valued partner in any relationship. Sorry Jist! SEE I Knew I liked you ~ you got my profile ~ you 'know' me~~a lot of others seem to think I'm wanting to be a notch, at least from the emails I'm getting...GEESH. Was kinda making me wonder about this place!!

JD341988 Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 68	Tue 02/05/08 04:28 PM
my thread got hijacked... lol We all tried to no avail, JD, you left us with no other choice but to go talk amongst ourselves..... i was moving a new TV into my apartment.... it was free, and it doesnt work very well. shrug

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 02/05/08 04:32 PM
Lily--- can we set our date now that Jist has stepped out???? [Heavy breathing] ummm hmmmm ohhh.... Lookin, Of course I read your profile. Actually read it. Aren't ladies great that way? JD-- I do not mean that you left, I mean that our advice seemed to be to no avail.... and here was this active thread, full of friends and friendly posters who all like one another... What are us folks to do but hang out? Congratulations on a free tv, sorry it does not work well. Was there more you wanted to know or you just wanted others to post more opinions?

Jistme Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 2991	Tue 02/05/08 05:48 PM
My God.. I lose my girl to another girl.. My family is insulted.. and the guy who started the thread is the one that's pissed? WTF! Actually.. My brother is not a bad guy.. He's just miserable to be around... and if you have a car, motorcycle, computer or firearm, don't be surprised if it disappears one piece at a time. God forbid you are a woman. You'd be talking to me more then him, back in the 80's, while i ran interference between all the girlfriends who believed they were his exclusive..

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Tue 02/05/08 08:53 PM
Not to be rude but, you've got your head wrapped way too tight around a stranger.What's she to you anyway. Lilith is right, take a breath. Go play some b ball or something. Get up, go out and Do SOMETHING. Pretty soon, within a few minute's you'll start forgeting about it.