i need peoples honest opinion. i turn 19 next month and i have never had a girlf friend. i have kissed one girl but she and i never dated partly due to the fact she already had a boyfriend. then i came close to dating another girl last year but it never happened

so seriously people, i need to know, from what you see, what the problem is.

i mean i am a little shy, but i never really even had girls show interest in me, other than a friend.

keep posting in the forums you'll do fine.

just keep to the forums,u will get noticed

my son just turned 19


your goodlookin'
some girl will notice you,just be paitent....your still young.

from what i see from your pic theres nothing wrong
but from what you say you are not confedent women like strong
confedent men. that know what they want in life. and that means shyness too.

as i implied, easier said than done. ive kissed one girl one night. im almost 19 years old and i have no clue about this game that as to b played...i mean theres rules...and theres just so much i dont know...it sucks

only way to figure out the game is to play it

and yes i know confidenceis the key and i tried acting confident once and i came off like im a gangster or something haha...that just didnt work...i come off ackward acting confident. like its wierd hahaha....i mean im a musician and when im acting like im gangster and adding that im white, doesnt work for me....being confident is hard for me

You know i hate to say it but id give you tips on..what to do i guess, but the life of lesbiens is far from straight..i mean.. what guys like are way different from girls, so i only wish i knew. But i honestly dont think its you! Look at you your gorgeous! Get modivated..by a new hot outfit and go out to a club or something! Have fun :]

You gotta give the girls some attention but not too much otherwise they just take advantage of it. Then you will just see them get a crush on a new guy. Act confident but don't be overbearing on a girl. You gotta keep some mystery to ya so they will want to know more.

Sorry, but sometimes life does suck, it's part of learning. If everything came easy, would you appreciate it? Just curious.

there are no rules... period. Society puts way too much pressure on us when it comes to dating. My biggest advice to you, would be to stop looking at women as potential girlfriends/lovers/etc. Just talk to them as you would any of your guy friends, find woman friends first... When you take her on her first date, you do it as friends. There's no pressure to keep up interesting conversation, because you allready have plenty to talk about. When the time is right, go for that kiss and the rest is history...

But yeah, like I said... don't stress so much over it. Look for friends, not for lovers.

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I guess I should add that my advice pertains to finding "the one".... if you're just looking to get laid, go be cocky, confidant and slightly over bearing... it'll get you there eventually... I personally am not big on this philosophy, I prefer a challenge, not an easy lay :P.

If it makes you feel any better i am 22 and never kissed a girl...

yu my friend do have a point. i mean to get something great, you have to work for it. i mean ive worked but just not the right way i guess. i just need to figure out the right way of working i think

that was your problem you were acting you still have to be your self. you have to know that you are good enough for anyone if they don't like you thats there problem. one thing i tell everyone i meet that is not happy one way or another is you have you be happy with your self before anyone can be happy with you

Jesus dude. Just go out to the clubs and start kissing some females. Sure you'll get smacked, but that's the good thing about being your age. When you get older then you can start worrying about the serious stuff. Just have fun with where your at!

Do exactly what peacekeeper said. haha

Love that advice, blunt and to the point! Yep, absolutely right "Stop worrying about it". Have fun, make friends, don't obsess over finding a lover... you have plenty of time, my friend.

see thats good advice...i think i will try that. oh by the way. thanks for the service. i tried my luck out with the army but i just got hurt pretty bad. fort benning was gay too. but thank you much. theres nothing better than defending our country hooah?

If it's went to be it'll happen if not there's other girls who like shy guys.