see thats good advice...i think i will try that. oh by the way. thanks for the service. i tried my luck out with the army but i just got hurt pretty bad. fort benning was gay too. but thank you much. theres nothing better than defending our country hooah?

Thank you, it really helps us to see people support us like that. And don't feel bad, i sprained my ankle twice in basic (at relaxin jackson no less). Recycled once... then broke the same ankle later in my career... got metal in it now, so it should be good to go, lol.

change your hair style , from what i see in your picture alot of girls are really not into that style ..

and thats what i wanted to hear! constructive critisism! that neverhurt to tell the truth! now thank you!

you've proven here to us that you are very intelligent, and ask great honest questions, take that intellectual knowledge, soften it up a bit, and chat to them like you're doing here, with us (easier said than done, i know) for women are generally quite understanding, and sensitive. and definately as a rule, looking for long term earlier than men. so you've got that advantage over most already, i hope this knowledge helps you relax, and give confidence for an smoother time in the beginning, and we are here for you, that is generally what we are all doing here, building up each other's confidence, because it's rough out there.