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Topic: would you help someone if...?
tmaxx222's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:35 PM
would you still help someone if you knew they would NOT help you if the the shoe was on the other foot?

bradlyy's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:37 PM
most likely I belive in karma

no photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:38 PM
Depending on the situation..you might want to be more specific.

YourLove1's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:39 PM
i have plenty of times.. its better to give then to receive

tmaxx222's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:43 PM
ok... heres a example

you ask co-working for a ride to work(they live 5 min away) and they say they cant...you find another ride but have to shot up 45min early... when you get there that person is already tere and goes on about how bored they were that they just came in early to do nothing...

next week she asks you for a ride...

or

you need a jump start, you ask someone but they say they are in a ruth...as they turn and walk into starbucks...next week you see that person canmt start their car...ect

EveningKiss's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:44 PM
Yep. Been there. Im useto it but i have this pathetic need to help.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:45 PM
Yes..

no photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:46 PM
I have and sometimes the rewards are nil but for a good friend I will do anything for them........flowerforyou

YourLove1's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:47 PM
again , its better to give then to receive. you shouldnt help people just to exspect them to help you in return ..

kidatheart70's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:48 PM
I have, all too many times....but I likely would again, even knowing it full well.

Tawnya72's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:48 PM
Edited by Tawnya72 on Sun 02/03/08 11:55 PM

ok... heres a example

you ask co-working for a ride to work(they live 5 min away) and they say they cant...you find another ride but have to shot up 45min early... when you get there that person is already tere and goes on about how bored they were that they just came in early to do nothing...

next week she asks you for a ride...

or

you need a jump start, you ask someone but they say they are in a ruth...as they turn and walk into starbucks...next week you see that person canmt start their car...ect


HELP THEM... its not what you get in return its what you have to give. If enough people are kind hearted to an individual maybe then they will know kindness enough to return it to someone else some day. I never go into a situation with the thought, ”would they help me?“ its never on my mind. If you need help and I am able...I will give it. No questions asked and no strings attached.

onerice320's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:48 PM
I only help friends i can count on. If i know they wont help me, I wouldnt either.

sexxyandsingle's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:48 PM
so what your saying is they screwed you intentionly, then no i wouldn't help them,

no photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:52 PM
i have in the past and will in the future. Even if that person wont help you either because they can't or they are too selfish or what ever the reason.... someone will be there to help you. I choose to believe it is God and not karma but what ever it is I believe what you do will come back to you double.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:54 PM
I would help anybody if i could

I don't expect anything in return


ajhagena's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:55 PM
I have no idea.

Neither do you guys.

thumper95's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:56 PM
i dont expect anything when i help someone, i just do it and walk away

Enya's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:56 PM
SURE.:heart:

livelife68's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:58 PM
I have in the past and will continue to do it in the future. I makes me feel good to help others. I don't know if it's ever crossed my mind to think about wheather they would help me. I just try to do what feels right for me.

Jeduha's photo
Mon 02/04/08 12:00 AM
You reap what you sow. If they don't want to help, It'll come back to them. So help them,if they don't want to help you some one else will come along who would be more than willing.

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