Why is it that men are so threatened by independent women?? If I tell a
man that I'd like sometime to my self, that he thinks I'm cheating?? Can
ANYONE tell me??

Dose the word Insecure ring any bells for you?

that would have to be something that you would ask him. sounds like he
doesn't trust you or that he is insecure but i don't know about him. not
all men are threatened though

Don,t you know....clearly you,ve done something previously to cause this
guy to feel insecure....guys hate you coy, deceptive,
innocent acting chicks...!

Your mean ontario just cause she wants to have time to herself dosn't
mean she's up to something!

Yes it does...and you know it...!

everyone needs their own space nothing wrong with that..............just
what you actually do in that space is the point, think what you want,
but, know the facts

Hey Ontario........you suck! perhaps you have some insecurities!

Look, Chicky....I,ve thrown hotter chicks then you under the bus
for less....if this guy is smart...he,ll do the same to you...!

vent much Ontario???? lmclao

Hah...i prefer them...i dont mind attention but too much is too much

Don't worry Sugar, all guys aren't like that. I think it has either to
do with insecurity or some men want to repress their woman so much that
way because they just don't trust woman in general. Keep looking, you'll
find one....

SUGARGIRL IS THAT YOUR REAL FACE ? ONTARIO TOLD ME TO SAY THAT !

Spay.....You are my boy. You are a nut too. Real face? I almost went
poopie in my slacks. Tario, thanks to you and breeze for making it
clear that all MEN are not insecure. I have had women who were afraid
to commit because they automatically assumed that I am some kind of
manwhorepimplovechild because of my life style.

Two individuals marry to be together, but that does not mean one has to
lose their individuality.

ty IZZY!!!

Some women just have insecure men drawn to them, like they have a mommy
complex or some shit. Maybe you shouldn't give them a lot of attention
in the beginning, or they'll expect it all the time.

Hummm that is wild cause most men I know love the independent women.
They actually preferr them cause they speak there own mind tell them
what they like or dislike so they don't have to play the mind games with
them. Independent women are not clingy therefore the men can have there
space as well. Most women that are independent are not the jealous type
for they know they can make it on there own so if the guy wants to cheat
its out the door they go for they will find one that can be honest and
like the ideal of having a woman that is independent and know what she
wants in life and love. So if you have found one that he don't like it
cause your independent he is just insecure tell him to grow up and trust
you or hit the door. No matter who you are in a relantionship with if
there is no TRUST then you don't have anything!! BOTH MUST TRUST EACH
OTHER IF ONE DOES NOT TRUST IT WILL KILL THE RELANTIONSHIP!

sugargirl...

we as people,individuals,should only let our hearts beat as one,
not controll another,but to walk your path hand in hand,
as two who are in love...M.

Men will act like men and want women. Boys will act like boys and want
girls, to just follow them around, ya know??