Why is it that men are so threatened by independent women?? If I tell a
man that I'd like sometime to my self, that he thinks I'm cheating?? Can
ANYONE tell me??

you picked a really shallow man mayby.

So is selfish and insensitive....and need pills...!

kinda like you grumpy,LOL

It is all about insecurity~

Insecurity is created by someone,s action...a change of some
sort....which clearly she brought into the relationship.
Either prior to her departure, or in making the announcement.
She,s playing innocent...but you,re not fooling anyone...!

Shagna I agree with you. If you can't be by yourself then he or she has
a real problem and it is time to move on. I know I know guys hear we go.
See for me I believe that you have to have time away from your partner
that is what builds trust and the friends and that allows that other to
be who they are and have something to come back to. If not you just
going to drive that person nuts and they are going to leave. This is why
I tell my friends If you really want to know who a person is move in
with them you'll find out real quick

OK Some one tell me why Ontario allway has a sick up his ass?

Insecurity and trust seem to be an underlying emotion he may be
experiencing. You may not have done anything to warrent those feelings
within him. He may be afraid he will lose you or he is just not good
enough to deserve to have you in the first place. It seems to be a more
common problem amoung men dating attractive ladies that know they are
attractive and can replace a guy in a min. It may sound strange but if
an attractive woman wants a date all they have to do is express that to
a man. The same is not true for men in most cases.

well people don't like being lonely and reallythe security of having
someone around makes them feel whole (no more loneliness) therefore any
change in the secure feeling causes total chaos in their minds and they
begin to look for answers, that when hidden insecurities in themselves
lead them to think negatively whether it be true or not, now if the
other person who is wanting the time to themselves is doing it for
unsavory reasons, then there could very well be some clues popping up
that could help that kind of reasoning along

I actually like the relationships I have been in where he traveled a lot
for work as it gave us time apart to enjoy ourselves and then it always
seemed liked cloud nine when we were together all over again. The
relationship WILL not last if there are insecurities and a lack of
trust. Move on darlin!

grumpy bear you guys like your space just as we do so no it's not
automatically her fault. he likes to control and can't stand the fact
that she won't let him. is this how you are cause it sure sounds that
way?

Thankyou shadow!! I like time for me it has nothing to do with
cheating...I've never cheated and don't believe in it.

good so drop his ass and find somebody that accepts you for you cause if
he's this way now it'll only get worse believe me i did it for 9 years
they never get better.

Your welcome Sugar, It's just all about taking care of yourself and
being who you are and not what they want you to be. So if anyone tells
you different move on

Sugar ya need to meet my mom.She is a srong willed and a hard working
woman with high morals.She never asks she goes and gets.My dad and her
are a pair of great people.My dad is the head of the house and my mother
is the heart.It works and has worked for 53 years.Never accept second
when you can have first.

Sorry Izzy, but I heard enough from Ontario.......I had to speak my
mind! I really am a classy lady, just don't push me like Ontario!

Fuck you Shadow...and you sugarmama....go stand on a corner

hey sugar,i beleave you are a classy lady,and look way good too.like a
independant woman.can keep,or help keep everything in good order.not
likely to get suckered buy that pressure applying phone call.hats off to
you mam.