I was married most of my life, got divorced 2 years ago, I havent even been on a date, i dont go out, i wouldnt know where to start..I have a 16 year old daughter, who is with me..So where do I start??? Any ideas??


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good luck buddy,,,,but there are a lot of nice people here in th forums,,,just join in

keep on these posts, and you'll meet really cool people, and do outstanding, good luck to ya!
hey joe!

good luck I am starting over too my husband of 34 years died and this is all new to me too but ready to try and live again

have the same issues i guess finding friends to go out with would be good most of mine are married though

sorry to hear that i couldn't even to begin to imagine the pain

Sorry to hear your story...was married for 22 years, and felt like a fish out of water at first....just keep your eyes open for anyone who will use your pain to "their" advantage.

Go out with a positive attitude...and keep it friends first.

sexy thank you amd mitsy good advise

Your too young and cute to havea 16 yo!

Go out to a club or somewhere you like to hang out and have fun =) dont try too much because girls can smell a winner from a mile away.

Hehe I had her early..Thanx for the words, but I wouldnt even know what to do if I went out to a club lol...I have no "GAME"

well you are a nice looking guy, I'd start by going out with friends, maybe a sports bar. Just start getting around ppl and you'll start feeling more comfortable in the "art of flirting".
You don't have to be a gamer, and who wants one of those anyway!
Just be yourself and be respectful of women..you'll find your way! And post on here to get to know ppl..

omg why?
sad, things like that happen to good ppl.
could it ever work out again?

my advice:
1. be nice, be friendly, be honest.
2. join sites, activities, and groups to show others you exist.
(even making friends, can help connect you to someone.)
3. dont flame, spam, or annoy, those dont make dates, just blocks and police records.
4. dont start a date by buying something, those relationships are so lame.

when you start a relationship, you have the chance to be a whole new person, and show that youve matured in your life. dont start out by getting them drunk or buying them food like theyre an animal you want to make a pet. Thats only going to show you have a hard time having fun and entertaining. Not that you shouldnt pay for things while youre out, but dont make the purchase the main theme.

GL