Hi can anyone explain the mutual match. I have like 3 cute guys that matched but none are intrested. I thought you matched if both were intrested?

Can't help you never figured it out either

That happens to me also. It's weird!

Keep fishin Baby.......

I don't have any idea..I honestly don;t think it works the way a "mutual match" thing would be. I have in my "criteria" that the woman should live within 100 miles of me..in southern California. But the "mutual match" will bring up someone from VERMONT. Maybe thier system just can;t tell the difference between 100 miles and 3,000+ miles!

I think JSH is bored and they do that cause they have nothing better to do

Could it be that everyone is a mutual match and you just keep clicking until someone decides to click back. Even when they click back there's no saying they will do anymore then that, at least that's what I've found.

maybe!!!

Why not send your query to the moderator?

if you put maybe, you know, for later descision, it throws it in anyway, and the one i said yes to, a glitch happened, and wouldn't let me have the match, and it was sent to me, go figure!

Yet to understand it, have a few too...and that is where it has stayed, have a few and they just kind of sit on my page stareing oddly at me...messaged a couple of times to no avail, so they continue to sit and stare at me.

i was very lucky then, all but one replied, and two are now, my friends, try again, fear, they will enjoy your intelligence and humor, at the very least

can you get em off of that list, has any body tried?

It is a little odd how it works. And a shame it does not work better. Because it could be very helpful in finding someone.

But alas it seems an empty feature.

Along these same lines I have received the email "someone wants to meet you!"
And of course I go and check it out. And if they seem interesting ( and some of them have been) then I write to them to say Hi and make contact. not one of them has replied.

For me to get that email I would have thought that they clicked something somewhere that said they would be interested?

Oh well who knows why people don't want to talk. Of course not everyone one is going to be a good match or be interested. But it only takes a few seconds to say "Thanks but no thanks".

At least then you know and can move on. Seeing NO as answer sure beats no answer!

Ad yes you can removed the mutual matches.
Wes