Topic: Dare I Ask?
Kat_68's photo
Sat 02/02/08 05:23 PM
I've been a this for a while now and haven't met "the one" yet. I have managed to meet a couple scary ones though. that's why the overkill in my prof

pennyg281's photo
Sat 02/02/08 05:31 PM


I think your peofile is great hon, nothing wrong with letting people know where you stand. Try getting more involved in the forums, they're great, and they give you a chance to get to know people.:smile:

Kat_68's photo
Sat 02/02/08 05:35 PM
thanks penny. I dont get many views and no one answers emails.

pennyg281's photo
Sat 02/02/08 05:40 PM


Yeah, I don't get many either. But I really am enjoying the sight.

Kat_68's photo
Sat 02/02/08 05:40 PM
this thread seems to be quite normal for me.... not many responces...sad LOL!

Kat_68's photo
Sat 02/02/08 05:43 PM
the forums are fun, but even on other's threads i dont get anyone responding to me.... I stopped sending emails. no one answers. not even to say bug off!

buffry's photo
Sat 02/02/08 05:43 PM
the "one"...does that exist, lol?

Kat_68's photo
Sat 02/02/08 05:44 PM

the "one"...does that exist, lol?


sometimes I wonder

buffry's photo
Sat 02/02/08 05:50 PM
I mean think about how many times you have loved and lost...I mean really! Each time you think you lost "the one" and yet you somehow end up finding another "one" to love again!

Kat_68's photo
Sat 02/02/08 05:56 PM

I mean think about how many times you have loved and lost...I mean really! Each time you think you lost "the one" and yet you somehow end up finding another "one" to love again!


ummm not really for me. i knew the others were not the ones, and my last relationship was for 18 years.. i thought he was the one, but i guess not now... so its happened only once.brokenheart

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 02/02/08 06:12 PM
Edited by Fade2Black on Sat 02/02/08 06:12 PM

I've been a this for a while now and haven't met "the one" yet. I have managed to meet a couple scary ones though. that's why the overkill in my prof


I think your profile is good and I know you explained the 'overkill' .. but it can come across more like a classified ad for employment. IMHO

If you broke it up some with out one paragraph after another starting with the word "must" .. well, you just might get more interested parties is all. Just a thought honsmokin

ps .. this pic is cute!

Kat_68's photo
Sat 02/02/08 06:46 PM
thank you. i will try to edit without losing the essence of it. I know it sounds like a list of requirements... it is one. I've come accross profiles that sound like prince charming, then when you talk to them you find out they live with their mom, are disabled, have no income or job at all, and are in so much "pain" they need to get offline because the painkillers aren't working any more. I just cant take it. so I listed requirements. I just posted the "new" about me like 3 days ago... I had the same problems before. not many hits and no emails. thanks for the kudos on the pics. i didn't even retouch them!!!! LOL!!!

chris1979's photo
Sat 02/02/08 07:08 PM
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Kat_68's photo
Sat 02/02/08 10:55 PM


I've been a this for a while now and haven't met "the one" yet. I have managed to meet a couple scary ones though. that's why the overkill in my prof


I think your profile is good and I know you explained the 'overkill' .. but it can come across more like a classified ad for employment. IMHO

If you broke it up some with out one paragraph after another starting with the word "must" .. well, you just might get more interested parties is all. Just a thought honsmokin

ps .. this pic is cute!


OK I took out the "musts"... but I need to keep in the criteria. I just need it there for now.