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Topic: well it happened
Woni Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 79	Sat 02/02/08 03:54 PM
I would have said "Wow you sure looked good back in 1970"

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Sat 02/02/08 03:54 PM
I am sorry that happened to you did you try and check out anything that he told you previous to this meeting - how long had you been talking before the big meeting and what have you learned from this experiance ? Just try to take the experiance and grow from it and call it done it is not a reflection on you in the least bit and better luck next time girlie

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sat 02/02/08 03:56 PM
If you would, please email me their name so I can avoid them. Thank you!

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Sat 02/02/08 03:59 PM
Well i often questioned the honesty of peoples profiles and if the picture is really them and...........well went on first date and the picture they had posted was in no way them.i am most upset over the fact that they lied.looks are not everything but to me honesty is and how this person was bold enough to show up knowing that i indeed was not helen keller and that i was going to know that he lied.not a good night at all. Ok this is why before I meet someone I use the web came. The hell if I'm going to fly someone on a pic

RICOL Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 130	Sat 02/02/08 03:59 PM
Hey it happens alot. I have been on two dates who had fake photos One who stood me up.

liquidcandy Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 583	Sat 02/02/08 04:00 PM
I am sorry that happened to you did you try and check out anything that he told you previous to this meeting - how long had you been talking before the big meeting and what have you learned from this experiance ? Just try to take the experiance and grow from it and call it done it is not a reflection on you in the least bit and better luck next time girlie I HAVE BEEN TALKING TO HIM FOR ABOUT 6 MONTHS AND HE REALLY GAVE ME NO REASON TO NOT BELIEVE THAT HE WAS NOT WHO HE SAID HE WAS.I CAN SEE LYING ABOUT YOUR PROFESSION OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT BECAUSE THAT IS SOMETHING THAT YOU WOULD NOT KNOW ON THE FIRST DATE.I DID MAKE THE ARRANGMENTS TO MEET AT A BAR THAT IS MY STOMPING GROUNDS TO BE SAFE AND I TOOK MY OWN VEHICLE THANK GOD.

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sat 02/02/08 04:01 PM
Hey it happens alot. I have been on two dates who had fake photos One who stood me up. Well I am me, been thinking about getting a web cam just so I can check up on peeps but I am afraid someone might show me more than their face

liquidcandy Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 583	Sat 02/02/08 04:01 PM
Hey it happens alot. I have been on two dates who had fake photos One who stood me up. IT SUCKS THAT PEOPLE CANNOT BE HONEST

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Sat 02/02/08 04:01 PM
Just a passing thought How awful it must be to be ashamed of the way that you look to the point of posting someone elses picture I am in no way condoning what he did but I think it must be horrible to be ashamed of who you are to that point

liquidcandy Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 583	Sat 02/02/08 04:02 PM
Hey it happens alot. I have been on two dates who had fake photos One who stood me up. Well I am me, been thinking about getting a web cam just so I can check up on peeps but I am afraid someone might show me more than their face YES I AGREE.I ALSO AM AFRAID OF THAT.LOL

tonia25 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 844	Sat 02/02/08 04:05 PM
I WOLUD HAVE NEVER STAYED... I WOULD HAVE TOLD HIM HE MUST HAVE U CONFUSED WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND THAT U WERE JUST LEAVING TO MEET SOMEONE THAT U HAD MADE PLANS WITH.... IF HE PRESISTED JUST EXPLAIN THAT U HAVE A TWIN AND TO WAIT AROUND THAT SHE HAD MENTIONED THAT SHE WAS TO MEET SOMEONE AT THIS PARTICULAR PLACE... AND LEAVE... I AGREE A LIE IS A LIE... BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME... ANOTHER GOOD WAY TO BE SURE IS TO USE UR WEB CAM....IF POSSIBLE...SEE WHO U R MEETING FROM THE COMFORTS OF UR OWN HOME...

eyeonu Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 6	Sat 02/02/08 04:08 PM
That really does suck! I too have been played in the past. It makes it hard to trust anyone from then on out. But after 6 months of chattin, you would have assumed he was safe to meet. May the next one be a better man!

liquidcandy Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 583	Sat 02/02/08 04:11 PM
That really does suck! I too have been played in the past. It makes it hard to trust anyone from then on out. But after 6 months of chattin, you would have assumed he was safe to meet. May the next one be a better man! yea hopefully the next one will be better.it will probably be a very longgggggggggg time before i meet anyone again and it just ruins it for the honest guys out there.it is not fair.

tonia25 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 844	Sat 02/02/08 04:11 PM
Hey it happens alot. I have been on two dates who had fake photos One who stood me up. Well I am me, been thinking about getting a web cam just so I can check up on peeps but I am afraid someone might show me more than their face YES I AGREE.I ALSO AM AFRAID OF THAT.LOL WELL U DON'T HAVE TO KEEP IT ON FOR THE WHOLE CONVERSATION.. AND WELL IF HE SHOWS U MORE THAN U AGREE ON WELL THEN I SUPPOSE U KNOW WHAT TYPE OF PERSON U R DEALING WITH BEFORE THE ACTUAL DATE...

liquidcandy Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 583	Sat 02/02/08 04:14 PM
Hey it happens alot. I have been on two dates who had fake photos One who stood me up. Well I am me, been thinking about getting a web cam just so I can check up on peeps but I am afraid someone might show me more than their face YES I AGREE.I ALSO AM AFRAID OF THAT.LOL WELL U DON'T HAVE TO KEEP IT ON FOR THE WHOLE CONVERSATION.. AND WELL IF HE SHOWS U MORE THAN U AGREE ON WELL THEN I SUPPOSE U KNOW WHAT TYPE OF PERSON U R DEALING WITH BEFORE THE ACTUAL DATE... yes that is true.hopefully this was just one bad experience.

tonia25 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 844	Sat 02/02/08 04:19 PM
Hey it happens alot. I have been on two dates who had fake photos One who stood me up. Well I am me, been thinking about getting a web cam just so I can check up on peeps but I am afraid someone might show me more than their face YES I AGREE.I ALSO AM AFRAID OF THAT.LOL WELL U DON'T HAVE TO KEEP IT ON FOR THE WHOLE CONVERSATION.. AND WELL IF HE SHOWS U MORE THAN U AGREE ON WELL THEN I SUPPOSE U KNOW WHAT TYPE OF PERSON U R DEALING WITH BEFORE THE ACTUAL DATE... yes that is true.hopefully this was just one bad experience. Well better luck next time... and thank God it was just a phoney pic.... my fear would be far worse... I have never met anyone... not sure if I ever will... but with all the horror stories u hear... I do give u credit for taking the chance...

liquidcandy Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 583	Sat 02/02/08 04:24 PM
Hey it happens alot. I have been on two dates who had fake photos One who stood me up. Well I am me, been thinking about getting a web cam just so I can check up on peeps but I am afraid someone might show me more than their face YES I AGREE.I ALSO AM AFRAID OF THAT.LOL WELL U DON'T HAVE TO KEEP IT ON FOR THE WHOLE CONVERSATION.. AND WELL IF HE SHOWS U MORE THAN U AGREE ON WELL THEN I SUPPOSE U KNOW WHAT TYPE OF PERSON U R DEALING WITH BEFORE THE ACTUAL DATE... yes that is true.hopefully this was just one bad experience. Well better luck next time... and thank God it was just a phoney pic.... my fear would be far worse... I have never met anyone... not sure if I ever will... but with all the horror stories u hear... I do give u credit for taking the chance... Yes i am not sure that i will meet again either.the good thing about this bar that i go to all my local police officers go there who i am friends with and the chief of police was there so i was not in any way afraid of my safety but it was just a total dissapointment.and now i am sure with one lie there is always another so god only knows what else he lied about

liquidcandy Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 583	Sat 02/02/08 04:29 PM
well the next time i will take the monkey to check things out.lol

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Sat 02/02/08 04:37 PM
Sorry that happened Candy.. that was smart bringing him on your turf though! I demand a sh*tload of pics and I research my victims ( I mean interests ) ...I have'nt met anyone from this site yet but, I did catch someone in a lie that I might of ended up meeting. Seems he forgot to tell me he was married..and foolin around on his disgruntled wife.

liquidcandy Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 583	Sat 02/02/08 04:54 PM
Sorry that happened Candy.. that was smart bringing him on your turf though! I demand a shtload of pics and I research my victims ( I mean interests ) ...I have'nt met anyone from this site yet but, I did catch someone in a lie that I might of ended up meeting. Seems he forgot to tell me he was married..and foolin around on his disgruntled wife. geeeeezzzzzzzzz what an asshole.thank god you did your homework.why if you are loooking for a true relationship do they lie?That is what really has me pissed off.this guy new damn well that he was in no way going to pass for being that person.now i am determined to find out just who the hell this person posted is.And what really pissed me off is i had a final interview for a very good job this morning and i was really not sure weather i even wanted to go because i did not want to be all hung over because i had a 2 hour test to do and needless to say i ended up pretending to leave and after he was out of site i went back to the bar and was so disgusted i drank until last call and woke up feeling like total ***!!!!!!all for a liar lol