I am stuck in Akron, my daughters father is here, and I would never take that away from her, and our divorce decree states I have to have his permission to move out of the county, and he would never agree to that, he loves our daughter very much.

He probably could move, but has a really good career where he is.

But that is a long way down the road anyway.

I have the same situation with my son's father, so I can relate. Does he have children?

I agree it is down the road, but it certain impacts the tone of a relationship and how it might proceed.

Just go with the flow!!! Meet......see what happens......

he does not have children.

I'm just so girly and goofy about this. I'm usually not this way. Someone must have inhabited my head and taken over.....

my take on it is that until you meet..eye to eye, flesh to flesh, its not real...just words on a computer screen. Anyone can play the game...

Keep one eye on reality, and good luck.

I know what you mean. Gotten to the point where you forget to eat and don't sleep well yet?

well it's 5 here and i just had some toast. hehehe

Yeah, I know the feeing well. You got it bad, gf. Go with your gut.

Ha, he puts butterflies in my tummy.....

You'll find you'll have a lot more fun if you take your head out of the equation, and just let the passion of the moment sweep you away.

The PUAs overanalyze social interactions all the time before and after we go out to talk to female strangers. When we are actually, in-field, however, we have to STOP THINKING about the technical sh!t and just feel it out... go with the flow... let the material we learn come naturally. Well, that's one school of thought in the pickup artistry.

When you just let yourself enjoy the natural flow of things with a sense of lovingness for fun and humanity, technical thoughts and analysis aren't invited to the party. They are party poopers.

Ya think?

That's sort of the whole point of it, ain't it?

Sometimes you guys fascinate me with all your acronyms and terms. It's like walking into a room of my kind... Engineers and computer geeks.
We got a language all our own too! Love to hear our own voices, and make people question themselves and their basic knowledge, far more then we like to actually put what we know into practice and reality.
I tend to walk away from my counterparts in that group too. Go and design something or make something work. Impress my clients (The folks who write the checks) with a product that operates to their expectations. Rather then discuss it to death and absolute confusion... in order to impress each other!