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Topic: I need some major help!!
TaraJayne's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:37 PM
Hey everyone!!I know it's late, but I really could use some advice....I have been disappointed in my love life for quite awhile, anyways I was so hoping to find a guy here on this site!!My question is I couldn't get a guy I liked to respond to me, what is the best way to go about meeting "the right guy?" Thanks!!

Rose41's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:38 PM
just by being you..be natural...he will find his way to you..

TaraJayne's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:39 PM
Thanks, I am trying to be patient, but it's tough!!

Rose41's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:40 PM
i know..but like the saying goes..all good comes to those who wait

trying_to_fly's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:40 PM
Take your time Tara......don't just jump in to anything. That's my advice. If you jump in too fast, you won't know who or what you're getting into. You need to know the person for a while. Get some one on one time with him. Get to know him so you are prepared. You haven't been on this site that long......wait.....be patient.......it'll happen....:smile: flowerforyou

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:40 PM
I do not think there really is a best way- just be your self!

Some won't answer- some will. It takes patience and time!

flowerforyou

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Fri 02/01/08 08:42 PM
Tara, just be yourself and show your happy smile. The right one will come along.

HMontana's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:42 PM
I have to find it ironic that you're asking that question on this site.:smile: If we had the answers, do you think we'd be here?

The best advice I can give you, Tara, is continue to be who you are and love yourself. If you are doing that, then you have confidence in yourself, you will enjoy your daily activities...and finding "the right guy" won't seem so important. Because, if you are enjoying life, he will come to you...and love all of you for who you are!flowerforyou

As far as this site...post in the forums...let people know who you are and your personality. I have made some very wonderful friends here. Best of luck to you, sweetie!flowerforyou

hikerchick's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:42 PM
some of the people who have profiles on here are not active on this site. You should spend some time in the forums and see who is actually online often and who is not. Also, it is a good way to meet a lot of people without the pressure of checking each other out for dating. Besides, it is fun.

Enya's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:43 PM


you've only been here a few days...in time,,,you'll find him.

In the meantime,just make friends.

hikerchick's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:43 PM

I have to find it ironic that you're asking that question on this site.:smile: If we had the answers, do you think we'd be here?

The best advice I can give you, Tara, is continue to be who you are and love yourself. If you are doing that, then you have confidence in yourself, you will enjoy your daily activities...and finding "the right guy" won't seem so important. Because, if you are enjoying life, he will come to you...and love all of you for who you are!flowerforyou

As far as this site...post in the forums...let people know who you are and your personality. I have made some very wonderful friends here. Best of luck to you, sweetie!flowerforyou


Hello to one of my wonderful friends! ((((((((Montana))))))flowerforyou

HMontana's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:44 PM

some of the people who have profiles on here are not active on this site. You should spend some time in the forums and see who is actually online often and who is not. Also, it is a good way to meet a lot of people without the pressure of checking each other out for dating. Besides, it is fun.


See there...one of my wonderful friends is hiker! (((Hiker))))flowerforyou

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Fri 02/01/08 08:44 PM
Great advise tryingtofly!

Medic_Ronnie's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:44 PM
The best thing i can tell ya is,..If they dont have the decency or respect to return a message then they arent worth the time anyway. Take ur time and be yourself darlin,..when u least expect it someone will come alongflowerforyou

FaithfulOne78's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:45 PM
Edited by FaithfulOne78 on Fri 02/01/08 08:46 PM
flowerforyou Use the Forums.....use the forums...use the forums....can't stress it enough...you meet soooooo many wonderful people on the forums...be patient...post alot...get to know everyone...and it will happen for you!flowerforyou flowerforyou

boneyjoe's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:46 PM
good luck,,,,,,,,,i enjoy th forums,,,,,if th good things come to who waits,,,,,,,,budddy,,,,,,,,she gonna be th greatest women in th world,,,,,,,cause i ben waiting a very long time

no photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:47 PM
I would change that picture, because it looks like you are going to a wedding

Enya's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:48 PM
oh,and no offense...but a little make over might help...

you have a great smile happy .

just try a new hairdo,or highlights...and,lose that cute ribbon.

but,you seem like a sweet lady.flowerforyou

TaraJayne's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:48 PM
Thanks guys for the advice, I think what you're all saying is true!!I have just been so ready to find him for so long I easily seem to get frustrated!!ohwell

trying_to_fly's photo
Fri 02/01/08 08:49 PM

flowerforyou Use the Forums.....use the forums...use the forums....can't stress it enough...you meet soooooo many wonderful people on the forums...be patient...post alot...get to know everyone...and it will happen for you!flowerforyou flowerforyou

That smack SWELLED UP!!! Thanx a lot Faithful.....

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