Topic: WHICH ARE YOU?
Just_Say_When's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:07 PM
Are you a control freak or an out-of-control freak? Please list one example(just one, it IS a dating site after all--don't wanna scare anyone away :wink: )

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:08 PM
Don't tell me what to do!! Noboby tells me what to do!!laugh laugh laugh

jay8807's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:11 PM
what if iam between those two choicessmokin

Just_Say_When's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:11 PM

Don't tell me what to do!! Noboby tells me what to do!!laugh laugh laugh


laugh laugh Got my answer!

Just_Say_When's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:12 PM

what if iam between those two choicessmokin


That's where I stand, too....just list an example of each.

AllenAqua's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:13 PM
I'm only a control freak while on my job, but for damn good reasons because people could die... (scuba instructor) but in my personal life, I know that the only one I have a right to control is me bigsmile

DTHRomeo's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:14 PM
Someone said i was controling

Then again i wonder about that person

Hmmm ... frown

EveningKiss's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:17 PM
OUT of control. I am always buying things for others to make them happy until my bank account is crying red blood.

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Thu 01/31/08 04:49 PM
thinkin I'm in the outta control category....our computer tech at work is also my guidance councilor explode ...time to time I need his voice of reason when I have my meltdowns.

AllenAqua's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:52 PM

OUT of control. I am always buying things for others to make them happy until my bank account is crying red blood.



it helped me enormously when I realized that you can't "make" anyone happy...only LET them be happy should they be ready, willing and able to do so...

Shaden's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:54 PM
Control freak with my kids and especially how they are treated, but not so much in other areas.

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Thu 01/31/08 04:55 PM
just a "freak"

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Thu 01/31/08 05:50 PM
Just a freak! bigsmile

TheShadow's photo
Thu 01/31/08 05:53 PM

Just a freak! bigsmile


ill go with thatlaugh

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Thu 01/31/08 05:55 PM
OMG- I'm getting votes now!!!

laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Thu 01/31/08 05:56 PM
freak is my middle name -no one knew about--smokin

no photo
Thu 01/31/08 05:57 PM
crazy freak drinker smokin

trueokie2's photo
Thu 01/31/08 06:07 PM
i am freaking out right now..:tongue:

Totage's photo
Thu 01/31/08 06:08 PM

Are you a control freak or an out-of-control freak? Please list one example(just one, it IS a dating site after all--don't wanna scare anyone away :wink: )



Control freak to me would be someone that constantly tells you what to do, Tries to push you to do things THEY want you to do. Someone that tryies to mold you into their ideal mate.

An out-of-control freak... I would think someone who can't manage their own life. An addict or borderline addict maybe.

I'm neither, I don't want to force anyone to be what I want them to be. I don't like telling people what to do.

I manage my life pretty well, I pay my bills on time, I live on my own, have a car, etc.