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Topic: Have you ever been
timmyschillin Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 745	Wed 01/30/08 05:56 PM
betrayed... how is a few knives in the back...push...twist..push..twist... then they r so sorry.....uggg.... Only 1 time in my life by a female friend that actually did the most harm... Blind sided.... a all forgiven..but never forgotten...and she will always be reminded.... sorry sometimes u just have to do that with certain ppl...this time I choose to handle it that way..long story ..lesson learned..on her part.. otherwise..when forgiven..means forgiven... WHHHHAAATTT??

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/30/08 05:57 PM
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longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/30/08 05:58 PM
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longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/30/08 05:59 PM
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longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/30/08 05:59 PM
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longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/30/08 06:00 PM
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longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/30/08 06:01 PM
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zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Wed 01/30/08 06:02 PM
do I have to tell the story????lol short..My room mate did this... her boyfriend was manipulating her terribly...I was watching...and he knew it.... he wanted things his way...so some one had to go..she being very insecure...let him try to ruin a friendship.... So as they say"d*ck rules"..lmao It took 3 months for me to get my life long belongings... 3 months for ass to go back to jail for... being a dead beat dad and a drunkard... she dumped him...

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Wed 01/30/08 06:02 PM
Yes I have, but it helped me understand that knowing what I DON'T want is just as important as knowing what I DO want.

Morena350 Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 13611	Wed 01/30/08 06:10 PM
Yes I have, but it helped me understand that knowing what I DON'T want is just as important as knowing what I DO want. you have a point there!!

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/30/08 06:12 PM
Yes!

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Wed 01/30/08 06:34 PM
yep...it's part of the process of living

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Wed 01/30/08 06:39 PM
Yes I have, but it helped me understand that knowing what I DON'T want is just as important as knowing what I DO want. Very well said....

nauibeth Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 334	Wed 01/30/08 07:06 PM
oh yea.!!! been there, and it HURTS like crazy!!! I don't know if i can go through it again...

LAMom Joined Tue 12/12/06 Posts: 26866	Thu 01/31/08 08:02 AM
betrayed by a loved one? or someone you care about? I think alot of have, but the question to me would be have you delt with it and moved on.. Awwwwwwwwwwww good point (((( Michael )))))) Yes (((( Morena )))) I have and I have come to forgive and move forward,,,, Holding the past makes for a very miserable future,,, This i have come to learn..... Hugs to you .... Miss you

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Thu 01/31/08 08:05 AM
I have and even though it hurts, I learned that forgivness can be a Blessing for both u and the person that betrayed you!!!

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Thu 01/31/08 08:08 AM
Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes why dont you just really tell us how you feel longhairbiker...

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Thu 01/31/08 08:10 AM
I think at one time or another we all have or will be betrayed by someone. I just view all experiences both positive and negative as learning experiences.

diva123 Joined Tue 07/31/07 Posts: 188	Thu 01/31/08 08:49 AM
Yes Betrayed Hurts real bad But the hardest part is learning to trust again

lilbug Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 14791	Thu 01/31/08 09:45 AM
Yep, and a couple of times it was my own darn fault for not heeding the big red flags and the doubts I had. Ya just don't wanna believe sometimes someone you care about is capable of hurting you.